And for the life of me i cant figure out why. Now in no way should the following be misconstrued as conceeded, Im just awhere of how I behave in a relationship. I open doors, get flowers, compliment, pamper, massage, sing,..whatever goofy adam sandler gesture that comes up to make a girl smile. I have a good fashion sense, i think im good looking enough. i feel as if im the package that woman talk **** about desiring but when they have it they flush it away quicker than it started, and of course the jerk gets the girl. for someone reason I get along with older woman better, i guess theyve been screwed over enough so now they appreciate little gestures....idk i know the peanut gallerys gonna chime in but if anyone can offer opinions that would be great!

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Oh, WOW! A "nice guy" thread!

Wow, we haven't had one of those for about....oh, five minutes now.

He who has a shady past, knows that nice guys finish last.

Maybe its just the type of woman you choose to date-ya know personality wise? Maybe ya need to switch the characteristics you're looking for in someone.

hahahaha no no no

this is only the second one of the day



Dear Mickey,

stop being a nice guy. Be edgy

signed the Peanut Gallery

I know exactly where your coming from. Women say they want the nice guy, then they seem to turn around and go for the jerks. I've been single now for over ten years. I haven't even met a woman that I would really want to give a chance to. Most of the time the first thing I hear from them is, what do you do for a living? in other words (how much money do you make). It would be nice to meet a woman who would even pretend to care more about the type of person I am, rather than the amount of money I do or don't make!

Its not like I dont try, it just seams to be the type I attract idk

Really nice guys don't finish at all.

Ow man did I miss another race

What was the prize? Let me guess a none appreciating woman that see's things only with her eyes.
Money hunger, soul stealing, back stabbing, heart eating, bich!


Wow I can't see why you wanted that

With a crown.

I've been labeled nice a few times and yet I don't find it tough to get dates and I'm NOT great looking. I think nice gets transposed with "boring."

Boring will get you kicked out of bed. Nice will not.

Rule of thumb: Bite when ordered to do so.

dude dont drink or do drugs, get a harley,about 10 to 12 tattoos,shave your head like mr.clean,buy some penis enlargement pills,get a job making 6 digits a year,try to get in a band,and be chivalrous...you'll be fine.

I always see these "nice guys finish last" threads, but frankly, us nice gals have problems, too. If we don't demand enough or throw our boobs in a guys face, we are often overlooked. Or the guys who scoop us up want a nice gal, but they still want to have rights to be "bad boys". There are all types out there but USUALLY a happy medium can be found. Never settle, learn from your mistakes, learn what it is about you that attracts USERS, cut and run, move on until you find that nice gal who can really appreciate and love on a nice guy.

Well said

houston, we have a problem

Mickey, i know excatly where u are coming from. Thing is we all have our faults, some just bigger than others. But someday someone will pop up for us all, atlest we can hope.

I think the correct word in houston would be pro'blemo!