Ello, sorry, I know I'm not a girl, but as someone who has gotten dates on sites like this I wanted to just point out that a nice photo is really helpful. Then interacting more on the message boards, and above all, having a buttload of patience with yourself and others.


Also, it may not be your fault at all, really. I honestly don't believe this is the best site for meeting people that you hope to have a romantic interest in. If you're in the market for fun, quirky friends that are WAY too different from you to consider dating seriously then you've found heaven.

I've actually had a lot more success in what you're looking for on match.com (just get the three day trial, I've already got two dates from mine) and DateHookup.com -which is, remarkably, completely free. No upgrade crap or anything. I've connected with two rather nice young women on there and it looks like I'll be meeting one nearby pretty soon.

Well, I hope that helps! Have fun! =D

You're right to be careful about who you trust. Open trust is useful in that others tend to be trusting of YOU but that's no guarantee that the their trustworthiness will be reciprocal.

Everyone has issues of some sort, no one's perfect. But if you're asking strictly for men who have good hearts and aren't total *****, why yes. They do exist. I've found the same thing to be true in female circles.

As for 'proving' that, well, I'm not sure it's possible on a website. Knowing the goodness in another person is something that requires experience not reading or analyzing writing patterns.

That said, if you are less immediately trusting, I think you'll find it less emotionally tiresome finding roses among the rocks and thorns.

omg, looool

ouch.


=p

It's a good profile Chris. Nice work on getting your associates, btw and good luck. Isn't it amazing how much harder you have to work in this line of business than in 'real' jobs? *tip of the hat* to you sir. I hope to see you succeed.

^^ Total stud up there. Just look at those perfect teeth! Awesome smile fine sir.

O.O

Wow, that was dead on.

lol, good thing I've never had alcohol. Who knows what might have happened. xD

She appears to approve of the arts and values manners in those she associates with. Not an opinion perhaps, but it's still an accurate assessment.

and YOU have a winning smile. Definitely an 8.

I refuse to participate in this atrocious display of public abuse of the justice system. The courts will deem what the man was guilty or innocent of, and until said time we ought to withhold our uninformed opinions in order to prevent a slanted jury from taking seats on the bench.

Will you punish a man before truth offers its final word?

6.5 Cute, but no profile description. The suspense is agonizing. ='(

Oh I whole-heartedly agree. But to do that in spite of the stigma? The massive generation gap? I've been in this sort of relationship before, and the challenges associated with communication in the long term due to hugely varied interests and memories is daunting. It's possible, but damn, it's laborious work at best. I'm not saying same-age couples have it easy, every relationship takes work, but it seems unnecessarily challenging where there are other, more logical options.

Moreover, it's far less likely for these relationships to survive in the long term than a more traditional pairing is. And the funny thing is the love is just a potent in generation gap marriages as in normal ones, but the latter is likelier to persist.

Well done. A man would be a fool to pass you up casually.

Hmm, no one? I guess I did already answer my own question. I'll take the silence as a token of my supreme and undeniable logic.

Well I suppose it depends on what you mean by decent. If you mean decent in bed well, those guys abound. But since you seem to be referring to the content of the character of the people who have subscribed to this site- I honestly couldn't say. There reasons people say and do things are often much more complex than first glances suggest. Who knows how many good and bad eggs are on here. There's one sure fire way to find out though- spend some time with them and decide for yourself.

Ahahaha, so that's why it went down huh? I have a hunch there are a TON of people who can relate to this. All of my social drinking friends that is.

Oh my goodness, who the hell came up with this game?





And, everyone, I'm terribly sorry. I lost the game. =(

Ha! I wouldn't go that far. I do try though, I do try.

Huh, maybe that's what I should tell people when I explain why I'm so skinny. xD