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Wed 08/05/09 05:11 PM
Edited by hereformore on Wed 08/05/09 05:12 PM
There are good deals right now for first time buyers. You might want to consider a foreclosure (bit of a hassle) or an auction off. Even consider a short sell, good deals just a bit more work than a traditional buy. Overall I would say go for it...eventually investors will jump on and that drives real estate up. Depends on where you are buying too, some markets are holding their own.

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Wed 08/05/09 05:06 PM
I'm wearing my beer goggles right now...yea, I'm ok.

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Wed 08/05/09 05:04 PM


Used to. Then I was a nagging b!tch apparently. I guess asking the person to keep the apartment clean while you work an 8-12 hour day isn't supposed to be done.

So instead, I do it myself. Changing the oil on the car seems to upset some men who think its a macho thing but don't get off the couch and do it themselves.

Guess that's why I stay single. Easy to keep up with myself and the animals and not have to keep up with a slob of a man.



Very interesting.
It's not so much what is said as it is HOW it is said!

Example.. you can scream at a dog.. at the top of your lungs.. good boy, But he will run because of the tone.

but you can say " come here **** head in a soft mellow tone and he will come running to you.

It is all in the delivery.

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Wed 08/05/09 04:57 PM

thankyou as well to, hereformore, and terryflowerforyou drinker drinker

darkowl1...everyone that crosses our path teaches us something. I hope we have done that for each other today. You are welcome and thank you also.

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Wed 08/05/09 04:29 PM
Edited by hereformore on Wed 08/05/09 05:24 PM


Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


Do you really want to be with a man that is strictly looking for a beauty queen? That would make him terribly shallow.

It is funny how you can see yourself so differently than others see you. I think most any guy here would tell you that you're attractive, and yet you don't see it in yourself. I suspect as you start to find yourself again you will start to see it.

I have never been concerned about looks in my man, it is about their character. However, I recently met a man that seemed to have it all... integrity, intelligence, witty and handsome....he is currently dating someone else. I didn't believe that I needed to be a beauty queen for him but he had that rare quality of the above mentioned, especially the handsome part, I was feeling insecure. I believe he feels like I do, it is the character/connection. I think he has that now.
I think I may always struggle with my self esteem. Someone once said "fake it till you make it" that is what I try to do.

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Wed 08/05/09 04:16 PM

there is no league.........we are no more valuable than the ants or amoebas. we all should have equal rights to life. pompous human arrogance puts status and value on things, and only because there is nothing on land in protected areas that are at this time, higher on the food chain......nobody's better or worse...just different.

if one thinks not...then one is judging another.....who says what talents they have? the most monetary deprived are some of the richest people on earth!

does one hold rich and famous people in high esteem? why? because they can afford a rolls royce? does one look up to these people? i look straight at them! if anything, i would like their knowledge of experience, possible friendship, and maybe their wisdom...i also have plenty to give in return to anyone who asks....i will give others respect for accomplishments if they help out their fellow man to the best of their ability, and if they are not doing that, then they really are not doing their moral job....something that all of us must do! nobody's excluded from this, period!!!

that IS our real job on this planet..... NOT...who has the most toys when they die, wins.

they lose.................they missed the point of lifeschool....

i almost forgot.....chemistry, and compatability are what really matters, not status. if you're happy, that is another factor....


:thumbsup:

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Wed 08/05/09 04:06 PM

'cmon man, you know it's not that easy....

attraction? relatively binary (yes, he/she is or isnt)
personality? depending upon what school of thought you believe in, 16 to 24 basic personality 'types'
preferences? the range of human preferences - virtually endless...

even if attraction, personality, preferences align, what really makes a couple?....

it's actually amazing, that anyone pairs at all....!! stay together? holy crap!!

slaphead


It's subjective...right?

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Wed 08/05/09 01:51 PM


Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.
Your wrong,,because your beautiful..so there.........

flowerforyou Thanks

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Wed 08/05/09 01:50 PM




Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:

Thank you very much.flowers I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.


didn't think you were fishin.. just wanted to say it :smile:
I'm not gay, just so ya know..

I know you're notlaugh i appreciate it. Women need to back each other, I too think you are an atractive lady.

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Wed 08/05/09 01:45 PM

Let's see....

a disaster is coming and my world will change and have to slip into survival mode.....

I would have to just hump everything with a pulse...to generate heat for the thermal dynamics.

To try to propogate and boost the gene pool.

And if I am gonna die...I would prefer that it happen right after orgasm.

Flooding...blizzard...eath quake...tsunami....drought....famine...

all sound like legitimate reasons to have sex. If not then...then WHEN?

rofl rofl rofl You might want extra condoms

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Wed 08/05/09 01:42 PM


How can some people be so rude.Your talking on yahoo then all of sudden he just signs out without saying anything.I always tell when i have to go.::angry:
:smile: Maybe their wife walked into the room:smile:

My thoughts exactly

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Wed 08/05/09 01:38 PM



Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:


I have to agree there...bigsmile

Thank you tooflowers

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Wed 08/05/09 01:37 PM


Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.


you are beautiful:smile:

Thank you very much.flowers I'm sorry, I'm not "fishing" for a compliment. I will probably always struggle with it.

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Wed 08/05/09 01:29 PM
Personally I feel like men out of my league are some that I believe could do better than me, mostly looks wise, because I have very low self esteem. Regarding intelligence/integrity, it would not be a problem for me because I feel I have enough to offer in those areas.

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Wed 08/05/09 11:02 AM
I have definately irritated some people on here but not intentionally or directly. I have noticed that there are some people that jump on (to the n'th degree) when they see a storm a brewing. I will make a stand when I feel strongly about something and if the forum asks for opinions. I would prefer to be liked for who I am and those are the people that are most like me in here. I would not trust a wishy washy any way.

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Wed 08/05/09 10:44 AM

P.S. I like your new pics. flowerforyou

Thank you, thought it might be time for a new round.:wink:

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Wed 08/05/09 10:43 AM

My body is just old. I bet after a couple of sexy alligator shots it will loosen right up and then maybe I can figure out how to do it w/o looking like a dweeb. Hey, at that point I won't even care!

GEESH!!!! those shots had an effect on me let tell ya!

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

What is an alligator shot? I will try that soon. You are right about not caring how you look after a certain amount of alcohol. I imagine in my mind that I will never see these people again.

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Tue 08/04/09 08:59 PM
Can I be somewhere in between? Minus the tuna smell.

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Tue 08/04/09 08:56 PM
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Tue 08/04/09 08:53 PM
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