You're beautiful because I love you...I have had that happen. I am more interested in the character the rest will follow...unless he is a cyclops. I have found rare occasion when a man appears to be all three.
By all three I mean attractive, witty and smart.

Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thankfully. And you can't know someone's soul until you have met them. I think the longer you are with any one, the more that you know them, if those are good things you are seeing, then the more beautiful they become. Hopefully when you're getting to know someone, you don't have blinders on to who they really are. I have seen many a couple that neither were the "hottest" person you'd ever see, but they were perfect for each other, and TO each other, they are the most beautiful thing in the world.

Make sure you get some crabs, while you`re there.

Have a great time bro.

They really were a great couple. He is a handful to take care of, he can't do much by himself. I know her intentions were to stay, love him, be faithful.
She is 44 and peaking in the sexual sense... I think it was a hard decision for her.
Would be for me... tough call.
She has had men who want to see her again, she won't have a continued affair.. she feels like that would actually be cheating. She loves him and does not want a relationship with anyone else other than the physical one.

So, I just got off the phone with my most recent ex-girlfriend. We talked for about an hour about life, how things are going and such, and it occurred to me. If she would have had some of the realizations about life that she's having right now, things may have worked out between us. As it stands, her ex-husband and her are getting back together, which is great. Her kids are exited, and she sounds like she's finally pulling her life back together. I am truly happy for her.

But another weird thing occured to me while we were talking. This always happens to me. I spend months in a dead-end relationship with no future trying to help out here and there, just throw in my two cents when the moment is right, and give some guidance. Then a month after the breakup they end up doing all the things I was trying to encourage while we were dating and their life seems to right itself. Seems a very peculiar phenomenon. She even told me about some habits of mine that she now understands from her new perspective and how much better off she is now.

Even though I'll probably be lonely for the rest of my life I guess I can take some comfort in the fact that people's lives seem to change for the better after knowing me. Thoughts? Anyone else seem to be stuck in this scenario?

Do I love you because your beautiful, or are you beautiful because I love you

Do you have times when you meet someone you are not terribly attracted to them physically and as you get to know the person they get more and more better looking? Then all of a sudden they are so hot and you don't know why you didn't see it before..

Hiya girl!

I don't think I understand the question. Obviously she wants to date him or she wouldn't have said so, no? Lots of rocket scientist in here, It must mean she's realized she's more into him than she thought and it took almost "losing" (in her mind anyway) him to someone else for her to realize it.

She's either jelous,,,,

Or she wants to date him!!!!

One or the other


Ask her what it's about!!!

and i've probably dated her

Interesting question. Sounds to me like she percieves her friend as a safety net and the thought of losing has made her want him now that someone else does.

Theres nothing missing here. What do you think could be missing?


Obviously dating includes possiblity for things other than friendship, romance, closeness, possible intimacy, maybe sex, looking or working toward a relationship.

That is always good ... good luck

Oh no, now she wants love triangle?