Naïve as more than half the world has no roof, food clothes and little to laugh and smile about.. We are spoiled rotten in America and feel entitled to everything but less than half actually work.... sad but true commentary on our present status

its always sad to hear anyone feel like they need another person in order to eat well. Seems like a grown person could eat as they wished assuming a modicum of income.... lol

my guess is that the time before life is the same as it is after death...

my guess is that the time before life is the same as it is after death... the rest is questionable speculation at best.

Perhaps its a tad naïve to expect the most complex, difficult, challenging, negotiated, worked with and together issue you expect to find with a simple sentence request ? I do believe you have no understanding of the complexities involved, needed, desired and worked together before such a wonderful experience can be felt and shared together.....

a pair of three year old twins boy and girl sitting across from me at Whataburger a sheer delight. mom an grandmom so proud when how adorable they are....

Inexplicably I hear violins playing..... hmmmm

Opinions vary. Some people don't care or take anything seriously while others identify with a group to find themselves rather than seeking wisdom from within...

If you cant afford to provide a meal you really don't expect them to want such a poor bloke do you?

This is simplistic reductionism as life is complex and reducing it to a dichotomous pair is insulting and dishonest since it is the degree of these two opposites that determine whether they are viable and this is not discernible with a binary synthesis...No mention of the degree of each is paired so the lack of differentiation masks any meaningful pairing of variables.

INDEED!!!!

Yes it takes more than one person to have a healthy relationship wherein both are happy with the other. otherwise its just one sided preference...

Facilitated by those who do not offer a photo thereby decreasing any chance of interaction...

Compared to the other four dating sites this is the least effective and generates the least for this gentleman whereas the others are more receptive and prolific but then again, its only one person being sought so its a helpful idea to have multiple sources of input . Best to all seeking...

The culture has changed with over half being obese this is a function of sedentary life, poor eating and an abundance of terrible food . The average woman now weighs 165 and this is obese so any woman is free to weigh in as she wishes but not free from the consequences of her choices in fitness nor diet... There is a degree of rationalizing regarding being fit as though its bad rather than the obvious acknowledgement that obesity, inactivity, and diet are positively related to a myriad of health issues, heart and other ailments, but its easier to poke fun at healthy folks than simply look in the mirror and watch oneself waddle around a room and not be able to cross ones legs either.... The photos of people making comments do speak for the people least likely to be active too...Myself included at 6 ft 1 and 186...

I find that differences among people are more interesting than similarities. Fortunate to know Filipino, Chinese, Taiwanese, Vietnamese, Thailand, and a plethora of others. All have proven to be genuine, honest, compassionate people who want to coexist with all and is my pleasure to know all I have met...

Arguing over personal preferences is immature Learning how to accept others preferences without assuming theirs are wrong is the beginning of wisdom and being able to function as a person. Rationalizing ones own preferences to the detriment of others simply demonstrates fuzzy thinking and egocentric view of others and oneself,. People who are obese will suffer the consequences of their unhealthy lifestyle but do not need criticism nor do those who are active and lead a healthy lifestyle;. Both need acceptance and perhaps less criticism and more acceptance as each seeks out others who best meet their preferences and not denigrate others....

Sadly a sedentary life is often a short one... Being active is also a life style and there are others you might find listed as couch potatoes along with an excess of girth... lol

Being a visual male and recognizing how important chemistry is a factor in attraction I first seek a woman who is HWP, has several photos and not just head shots ( head shots alone 95% to mask obesity) if there is chemistry I peruse the entire narrative assuming she writes and articulates herself and then will respond if she is intelligent, not on an angry diatribe, seems willing to be comfortable at an initial inquiry then proceed and offer her a variety of shared interests, values, hobbies and special aspects of oneself that differentiates one person from another. Also have been known to comment on photos and particulars regarding each one as they reflect interests, hobbies, animals, travel, cuisine, and other pertinent data...