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Thu 02/16/17 06:48 AM

think a lot of women who have been married

tend to not want to walk down the aisle again

if as in my own case, they were married to a
controlling manipulative A******

mmmmm...I tend to value this hard earned freedom


guys that made that commitment once upon a time

but lost their spouse, the house and most of the savings


may also not want to try that fun again
[/quote And what role did you play in choosing such a man in the first place? There is some personal responsibility needed here....

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Wed 02/15/17 07:33 PM


Seems to me then they are not interested in meeting someone and should hang on Facebook not a dating site


Why would you say that? This is a social site, as well. Maybe they are interested in meeting someone and you just don't meet their age criteria
Exactly personal preferences may be wrong for others but each has the right to be as they specify that's the sign of a free society not trying to restrict others personal preferences..

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Wed 02/15/17 07:31 PM

People put restrictions on who can contact them to weed what they aren't looking for, out. They have that right
[/quote its a persons right to set limits no matter how arbitrary or capricious as each person has the right to be ignorant, foolish, arbitrary, or intentional its free choice regardless of how irrational or unfair to others.

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Tue 02/14/17 06:02 PM

how does one waste anothers time joining a networking site?
some do choose to engage others for no other purpose than emotional manipulation by feigning interest, offering interest with no genuine interest in actually meeting, offering false photos, offering false careers, income, location, and a variety of other dishonest ways to misdirect an innocent person to a dishonest and unpleasant experience...

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Tue 02/14/17 06:00 PM
By choosing to omit a photo this is a form of lying as its by omission and chemistry is a significant component of attraction and not offering this up front is unfair to all those who act in good faith and present several honest photos. Asking people you do not know to take a chance on what most others kindly offer is unfair, so that is in itself not helpful or facilitative

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Mon 02/13/17 04:46 AM
Your responsibility is to choose for yourself what you want to do not have others removed for your preferences. You should decide how to respond not ask others to make it convenient for you. Time to assume some personal responsibility not have others do what you wish...

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Sat 02/11/17 10:11 AM
Funny this is Charlie Browns solution too Run away from anything you are not willing to face... lol

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Sat 02/11/17 09:39 AM
Years ago I provided continuing education credits for day care professionals and they had an issue with parents not picking up their children as agreed. Some would show up two or three hours after scheduled time. Simple solution Five minutes after closing a five dollar charge per five minutes delay.. within a week no one was late picking up their children... When you give consistent consequences to behavior you change it if you talk you get lip service,,, this works for many situations if one knows what the other persons priorities and values are....

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Fri 02/10/17 08:02 PM

I know it's just a joke, but I don't think the deal with the Rolls would work in real life. Banks and other loan people are famous for making sure they make money on everything. If a rich person wanted the bank to store and protect the rolls, for the duration of the loan, they would be required to pay the interest, AND the storage fees.

But I do like the thinking-outside-the-box-ness of it.
[/quote that joke is thirty years old BTW

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Fri 02/10/17 05:14 AM
She already left so much for courage...

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Fri 02/10/17 05:12 AM


Sex is way better with make up on.

I know, huh.
But he looks so silly in it.
No actually with proper lighting I can be stunning ( OK maybe a few glasses of wine 7 first)

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Thu 02/09/17 01:40 PM

Even worse , getting a message that only says "Hey".
Yes women send the same kinds too Hi How can one resist such an imaginative creative, and engaging way to introduce oneself? If a person were to walk up and simply say Hi I would think them socially inept as a one word introduction is not courteous or actually serving as an introduction as more information would be needed such as my name is... I wanted to address, meet . converse, share .... you get the idea that a one word intro is silly and shows no maturity in social skills

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Thu 02/09/17 06:44 AM

I'm a middle aged man.
We're supposed to have regrets.
Then we go buy a candy apple red sports car
and get over it.
Until we regret buying the sports car.frustrated
I bought a blue one and no regrets either

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Wed 02/08/17 06:54 PM
Once you qualify make up sex as obligatory its already too late to actually help a couple get reconnected.

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Wed 02/08/17 06:19 PM
Without sufficient input your question is vague. How many women have you contacted? Do these women really look as though they are available or simply seem as fantasy come true? How honest is your narrative, sufficient photos, an articulate narrative, description of employment, interests, values and traits you seek in a woman These would help increase your success . also strongly suggest not limiting yourself to one dating site that is simply not wise or advantageous especially sites that are free Hope this helps as feedback not criticism can be an agent for change..

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Wed 02/08/17 05:52 PM
Hopefully they are practicing birth control on a daily basis given 52 % of all pregnancies are unplanned..

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Wed 02/08/17 01:02 PM
Its simply a case of your expecting too much from so many with so little. lower your standards and then realize its not possible to reach the bottom as men continue to lower the bar....

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Wed 02/08/17 12:01 AM
it is honest to share but not all women want to be a part of a created family just as some men don't care to take on someone elses children.. Being honest does make for the best quality of potential relations ...

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Tue 02/07/17 08:46 PM
Being intelligent they would simply avoid this chaotic and socially retarded world and seek life somewhere else as little here has been found,.

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Tue 02/07/17 08:31 PM
a smile that should suffice

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