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Success with online dating?
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On this site in particular or this site vs other free sties. Whenever I decide to visit this site there always seems to be next to no activity excluding the forums. I begin to wonder if this site has even a moderate success rate for meeting people or even making friends. I Feel that this site by default puts more emphasis on looks. what are your thoughts.
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is it me or is 87% of the cast of each season of real world make up 93% of the worlds crazy/emotionally disturbed people. either they hapily find the the most dammaged youth in America or there are waaaay too many college kids in need of therapy
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well my point is less about condoning sex in general and more about 13-16 boys and girls
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The bernie mac show had this as their plot..... I'm just curious what other people think |
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well its not that i wasn't working because i was the issue was that i was not doing what i went to school for since graduating in 05
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well i suspected that was the case what sucks is that i shine in the interview portion but i am not getting interviews because they see the gap which there is an explanation for.... sort of
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Interviewed for clinician position today. My boss asked me " so you graduated in 05', why haven't you worked as a clinician. After giving her my answer she replied " ok..... Well to be honest if I didn't know you and I saw your resume I wouldn't meet with you because of that gap". Sucks for me
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If you are a man that likes women, and a woman prefers to be more masculine than feminine, she might be attracted to a more feminine woman. If you are macho, you might be attracted to a more feminine woman.. If a woman really wants to be a man, she will go through the operation and become one, but that doesn't necessarily mean HE (after the operation) will then want to be with a woman. I used to know a gay woman that fell in love with a man who was becoming a woman, once it happened, they still remained together. it confused me all to hell, so much so that I just couldn't think about it. But I got to know them so well that after a short while I just didn't think about any of it, I was relating to two human beings that loved each other, that's it. I'm gay and even I don't understand it all. I am attracted to women, though my preference is toward the tom boy type, not male looking. There are so many combinations in life, yet for centuries we pretended that only one thing existed, male and female, no one can understand them all. But again you should be able to answer your own questions. Just as you are a straight man and I am sure have a preference in what type of women you like, so do gays. As for the behavior, I understand the confusion, truck driving dyke's used to scare me as badly as very effeminate men who are loud and boisterous. But as I got older I realized it was my hang up not theirs. They are perfectly happy with who they are, once I got over myself I then related to them as people and didn't notice the differences, so don't worry about it and don't judge it. Why they act like that is not my business. I used to think why do they act that way too... I no longer care, I accept them as they are, period. I think more and more gays aren't as obvious as they used to be, but again no big deal, the hang up is yours not theirs. Does that help? Enjoy life ofei1, you will learn many new things in life if you let go of the nonsense of worrying about behaviors. People are people underneath that and they all want the same things. im glad a solid comment was made on my actual topic and not some tangent on a former ci actor. my emphasis was on homosexuality but as a whole its more about accepting a role that is expected of you and not just being you. to me this is no different than the black male who likes country music but pretends to like rap. being homosexual isint the a concern being true to yourself is. doing something simply because everyone else like him does something is unusual to me............. as for the type preference thats more curiosity. i guess its no different than me preferring not to be with an "ultra girlie girl" aka stereotypical woman. what i do know is that im not into a woman that looks like a man. and if i was a lesbian i wouldn't be into a woman that looked like a man. |
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 Sounds like someone is on the fence
Funny.... Maybe it sounds like someone who doesn't comprehend mot being true to yourself...... Or perhaps if I question someone having sex with a dog its because I perfer cats??? And a bit of confusion on being gay but being with someone who appears like the opposite sex... Granted I'm approaching this as a strait man using my logic but its still confusing to me |
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the tall redhead from sex and the city is getting married i think which is irrelevant. her relationship with a woman is irrelevant . what confused me was that when i saw the pic looked very masculine... this a collection of thoughts ive had for a while. i am strait and there is no appeal for me to be with a woman that looks like a man. if i was gay i cant understand dating another guy who looks like a woman and vice versa if i was a lesbian.
some way unrelated is the behaviors of a homosexual. i feel that sometimes that their behaviors aren't natural...... out of 100 gay men what are the offs that 70 have a naturally higher voice than usual......... i feel that there is a pressure to behave in a certain way. there is just a lot of gay individuals i have met that in public/large groups they are loud high voice dramatic hypersexual... then when its a really small group at someones spot a lot of that is non existent. finally if a woman is born and they feel that they should have been a man.. then i understand dressing and morphing ones behaviors and appearance to resemble a man but a woman is a woman who likes other women then resembling/behaving like the stereotypical guy doesn't make sense to me. excluding work environments who would someone hide their sexuality... is it because of tv and movies? in this world people are expected to behave in certain ways... i am not considered black by some because i don't dress/ talk the part which is crazy. im less of a man cause i dotn care about football or baseball? ultimately i dont care how anyone behaves as long as its who they really are |
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I have 8 best friends, and one of them is a girl. She lives with me at the moment, but told me yesterday she is moving out. Im gonna be 300 quid a month out of pocket, so i might have to reduce her to a friendly acquaintance! lol |
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You can have both. But if you have to mostly girl friends, then your probably gay. Or your a nice guy...HA HA HA HA!! I haveth jokes!! well you're not wrong im really nice to a fault. the prob i have now is now i have hot female friends and the girl im with gets insecure |
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Topic:
Friends in jersey
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Figured i post something where people from jersey can post their interests/hobbies and maybe make friends
for me it seems like no one likes the simple things like bowling, darts, pool. im having a hard time finding tennis partners |
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Ive been hearing more and more that friends of opposite sexes cant work and i strongly disagree... which do you have/ perfer and why
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Topic:
What makes a great friend
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I have recently realized ( for the second time) that my current friends are nowhere near who i considered my closest friend
Do you expect a lot form your true friends? |
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You might me right about the guys BUT for a decent guy looking for a good quality woman is considerably more trying... the majority of good ones are taken and often by the very boys ( not a typo) the post on not guys in jersey was referring to. My view is that a lot of women ( not just in jersey ) ! get caught up on the package/ persona of a guy....2 the idea that he will eventually change or that you can change him...
on another note i think the easiest way for women to weed out a good portion of bum guys is to not give it up too so damn fast. I feel a lot of women are hooking up and having sex WAAY to early. in some cases the thought is simply to " have a good time" but when a woman wants to wait and the guy has a choice between waiting for you or having a quickie many will choose the quickie..... women should have a meeting and decide as a group to hold out more than 4 dates to hook up and longer for sex. a good guy/man will wait. let me stress that there are clearly an abundance of beautiful women in jersey but a quality woman needs much more than a bangin booty What are your thoughts |
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Topic:
Tennis anyone?
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For the first time in a long time i am Super motivated to play tennis. people in/near bergen county area who can at least volley well and can serve in to the box. Id perfer intermediate and above.. Basically im looking to get better, and get in shape
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You are watching a movie while at work?? I want your job. I have never been paid to watch a movie. Kat I work at a group home for emotionally/ behaviorally disturbed teens( actually the youngest is 18) I watch on sundays while they are still asleep. Its either 100% relaxed or 100% crisis..... My life is threatned almost daily and the second they realize that there isint much I can do without loosing my job is the day I either catch a beatdown or loose my job for defending myself.... |
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I'm currently watching unfaithful while at work and I statred thinking about why so many people get mad at the WRONG person. People get mad at the person their partner cheats with instead of their partner.. I find this S0 BACKWARDS... Someone drop some insight
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that's what i did but apparently that wasn't enough... its hard because i keep thinking how i would respond if the situations were reversed. it wouldn't register or bother me if she never asked how i was doing, or if she never tole me to feel better.... I know its the nice thing to do and in normal situations i might not have even asked so often how she was feeling but i know that she freaks out over illnesses and made a point of checking in.... apparently that was not enough...... im glad that i posted this because i realize that it was insensitive BUT i also realize that its not all me
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