Not necessarily in terms of "he/she is too good for me" but perhaps " I wonder what quality I posess that this person is attracted to"...
Wondering if its just me |
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Its clear to me that it varies depending on what you do for a living but i feel like there are some jobs that dating someone in the same field can be bothersome. I have my masters degree in clinical social work and when out wit ha woman in her second year... I can feel her analyzing and digging, trying to connect dots. I cant blame her because its weird when you learn a super cool new skill not to use it often. The best way i can explain the feeling is if a car sales man decides to buy a car at another store and has to "deal " with someone trying to " sell" him a car.. can you think of fields where it could also be bothersome to date someone im the same field.
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this is slowly turning from being tired of all the politics stuff to talking about politics
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I'm just waiting to see who gets shot. Hopefully no one. the chances are it will happen. Nothing ment to the OP but when have we ever had a black president. If so happens, ill give it a year before he is shot. It's just a fact in how the government works. Ive heard this kind of talk from barber shops to street corners.. i normally don't respond to such thoughts comments but if anyone wanted to kill ANYONE that they didn't want to be president why would they wait till AFTER they became president when security multiplies 10 fold instead of the moment when the individual looked as if he or she would actually stand a chance of winning further more i can understand someone disapproving of a president because of their views but because of the color of their skin??? its that kind of thought process that needs to be extinguished. |
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don't hold it against anyone who hangs up on you
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I cant stand being harassed by every person that has cnn, msnbc and fox news interrogating me and "explaining" why they are right.
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the infamous picture in which they ask you if it is a duck or a rabbit.... you go back and forth between duck and rabbit. i always saw a rabbit first but while fluctuating to the duck get lost temporarily as if to say " what is this" I bring this up because I it is no secret that we have to put things into categories we comprehend as individuals but what if its something we cant comprehend? we then force it into something we can... I once heard that when the native Americans were on the coast line and they saw the ships from the east on the horizon that because the native Americans couldn't comprehend what they were seeing their minds processed the event as if there was nothing there. Techincally taht could me that there are things on this planet that are so in comprehensible that we cant see them OR that there are things that have an appearance that is like nothing we have seen so mush to that we force these things into immages we can grasp
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Topic:
the After date text......
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It is officially the staple on a good first date. As a guy I know i look out for the after date text.....so what are your thoughts on the after first date/date text?
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Topic:
Anyone here watch anime?
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I also like Full Metal Alchemist. So, Inyuyasha, Naruto, Full Metal Alchemist, Bleach, Big- O, Ah! My Goddess, can you tell which anime I steer towards? And I am a big fan of Hayao Miyazaki. Hayao Miyazaki is one of my all time favs I watch every movie of his that I can get my hands on one of my favorite movies is Howl's Moving Castle asside from "AKIRA" princess mononoke is where its at |
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Topic:
Anyone here watch anime?
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Anyone like Big-O? Season 1 of Big O I liked a lot but season 2 was..... so no one has any " new hottness" anime or somethign i may have misses as in maybe obsuce or under the radar anime??? like a tenjo tenge |
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Topic:
Anyone here watch anime?
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I feel as if a good portion of these 52+ series have a fatal flaw called "Fillers" some may find it cute but I find them very bothersome. Especially when you are on new releases and you wait all week just to watch some. Random stuff....
Yeah bleach is good stuff but till this hollow business it shot its load when they went to save rukia now that was top notch anime Inuaysha? Asi asi. A good concept but lot of fillers and at times seemed indecisive in a direction. Classics are classics for a reason. - watched many of these without knowing their anime status. Ghost in the shell,Escaflowne, evangelion, kenshin, ninja scroll, spirrigan, Berserk, scryed, samuari deeper kyo, noir serial experiments lain, Gungrave, gundam wing and the terabytes of others if seen wouldn't hae been possible without. The michael jackson of anime "AKIRA". I've been looking for the next anime epic or an anime that is epic that I haven't seen but this hard. I tend to not like the romance/ harem, schoolkids, sports stuff and there is a lot of that Anything that comes on cartoon network I have likely seen but if anyone has suggestions that would be great. |
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My flaming red long main of hair ... True story, I was out on a date and some chick came up to me while I was sitting at the bar and PET my hair while telling me how pretty it is. WTF, who does that? although im not dumb enough to touch a random persons hair but really beautiful hair is something i notice instantly ( im all about hair) and for a woman to get her hair to graise her butt crack and it is healthy??? that's sexiness |
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this is a question on another dating website. I think this a good/difficult question. It can be anything but i have found that most say something physical.
so what is The first thing(s) people usually notice about YOU |
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catherine-zeta jones she looks so latina even though it seems she is british or something like that. Hi 5 she has that fading " classy" quality |
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DREW BARRYMORE!!! I LOVE DREW BARRYMORE!! Good choice but here is the big question: cracked out wild child drew or mature eco friendly hippie drew |
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COURTNEY LOVE Seriously?what is it about her exactly??? |
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This is really not like me at all. this is less about the person being famous and more about people being able to relate your taste. Kristen kreuk ( the wb/cw's Smallville) has always been no1 on my list. (she has a hometown/girl next door vibe)
and fighting for her spot is Rev Runs oldest daughter Vanessa..... I think with vanessa we actually see a portion of her real personality than your standard actress. * remember this is less about who is hot and more about wh o fits what you seek |
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I dont know if I missed anything, but every post I saw that actually mentioned races was only black and white. There are a lot more than that. I dated an Chinese girl for 2 years. For me it would just be if I liked them or not. My grandmother was mad when she first found out I was dating an asian girl, but then fell in love with her. We have been broken up for 2 years and she still asks me if we will ever get back together. In fact, most my family asks me that lol. Hi 5 It seems like I Hi 5 a lot of your posts. But you are dead on I never said black or white I just asked why is dating outside you race/ ethnicity can be an issue/ what's the big deal |
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Lets talk about why this is still a big deal to some ( probably more so than we realize because this is politically incorrect to feel such a way. I consider myself an open minded individual> I feel that i make it known that i am what i like to call " equal opportunity" when it comes to dating. but one day at work i was in the office and they were talking about the type of woman i need in my life. I said " well heads are never setting me up with anyone" my boss replied " well i just don't know that many black women" " i stated " what does that have to do with anything". Lets talk about it my boss replied " well i just don't know that many black women" " i stated " what does that have to do with anything". ^^^It has alot to do with everything as far as how you were brought up. Now i went through this post and read alot of what everyone said and i have to say, most avoided talking how it is still to this day that a black person and white person dating is acceptable in many eyes. It's not and most will look away if they see them walk by. You will never here someone make a remark when a white person is dating any other race. Some tell me why that is? You bring up a good point but I have to somewhat dissagree. First let me say this deff isint a " white or black" thing. I think that white and black is more openly talked about or in the forefront..... But this is deff a human issue |
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Don't care who I date as long as they are between the age of "can drink" and "not dead". can drink and not dead infants drink.... 102 is still alive. dude that's a bit broad Do you give infants alcohol? And you are correct, 102 is still alive...problem? Pardon the sarcasm but to be technical you didn't say drink alcohol you said drink and alive can be any age so I was sarcastically highliting that you are basically stating that you will date anyone... Further more kids are drinking pretty early these days... |
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