You might me right about the guys BUT for a decent guy looking for a good quality woman is considerably more trying... the majority of good ones are taken and often by the very boys ( not a typo) the post on not guys in jersey was referring to. My view is that a lot of women ( not just in jersey ) ! get caught up on the package/ persona of a guy....2 the idea that he will eventually change or that you can change him...

on another note i think the easiest way for women to weed out a good portion of bum guys is to not give it up too so damn fast. I feel a lot of women are hooking up and having sex WAAY to early. in some cases the thought is simply to " have a good time" but when a woman wants to wait and the guy has a choice between waiting for you or having a quickie many will choose the quickie.....
women should have a meeting and decide as a group to hold out more than 4 dates to hook up and longer for sex. a good guy/man will wait.

let me stress that there are clearly an abundance of beautiful women in jersey but a quality woman needs much more than a bangin booty

What are your thoughts

your right because i see it everyday...in the town of perth amboy alone theres like 80 percent of AIDS going around...

I agree for the most part, about women waiting. But I DO have a PROBLEM with the Title of the Topic. What you're talking about is, much broader. What was said can apply to both men & women throughout the US, if not the world. And to say that women in NJ are "not much better" is an insult to good, honest, hard working women like myself - who are still "single" because we ARE NOT giving it up.

I'm not hating...just voicing my concerns. And I've dated older men, who "claim" to want quality and would wait, and guess what? They couldn't handle it. Then when they get dumped by some easy piece, that they claimed to have fallen in love with, they get bitter and angry. And then all of a sudden, ALL women are lairs, cheaters, and manipulaters. You guys can't have it both ways. You have to do the work, and make the effort for a solid and lasting relationship too.

And shouldn't men (when they reach a certain age of maturity) wait too? Shouldn't they have the self-esteem, and self love/self worth, to hold off on intimacy? Men never seem to want to take responsibilty for their behavoir. But as soon as a women does it...all hell brakes loose. I'm not saying that women should get a "stud" card and equal "player" rights too. I think everyone should get back to what really matters. Finding people you really connect with and taking the time to enjoy the "whole" experience. That includes, friendship, chemistry, learning from each other, growing as a result, and discovering the little "mysteries" that make us all (as indivual) so special and unique.

Peace & Blessings!
:)