Don't I know it! Just like that poem/song...

So Y the hell do some of us torchure ourselves like that?

On her way to work one morning
Down the path along side the lake
A tender hearted woman saw a poor half frozen snake
His pretty colored skin had been all frosted with dew
"Poor thing," she cried, "I'll take you in and I'll take care of you"

"Take me in tender woman
Take me in, for heaven's sake
Take me in, tender woman, " sighed the snake

She wrapped him all cozy in a comforter of silk
And laid him by her fireside with some honey and some milk
She hurried home from work that night and soon as she arrived
She found that pretty snake she'd taken to had bee revived
"Take me in, tender woman
Take me in, for heaven's sake
Take me in, tender woman," sighed the snake

She clutched him to her bosom, "You're so beautiful," she cried
"But if I hadn't brought you in by now you might have died"
She stroked his pretty skin again and kissed and held him tight
Instead of saying, thanks, the snake gave her a vicious bite

"Take me in tender woman
Take me in, for heaven's sake
Take me in, tender woman, " sighed the snake

"I saved you," cried the woman
"And you've bitten me, but why?
You know your bite is poisonous and now I'm going to die"
"Oh shut up, silly woman," said the reptile with a grin
"You knew damn well I was a snake before you took me in."

"Take me in tender woman
Take me in, for heaven's sake
Take me in, tender woman, " sighed the snake

I think some of these posts are kind however, the reality is that discrimination is a fact of life.

And yes that does mean that some people will not hire a person based on the fact that they are overweight, be it for a position as a waitress or a receptionist. People prejudge, and may assume that you are lazy or whatever. And for that they will avoid hiring someone who is overweight. No matter what the persons quailifications are they will be judged based upon their looks.

To think anything less is simply nieve.

I have Jamacian friends, and they want to go to the touristy places....If you chose jamacia STAY in the tourist areas, or chose another destination!

terribly sad. I do believe in exploring alternatives to our current educational crisis. However, this is just down right lazy and destructive!

Coffee, Dunkin Donuts if ya got it!

Women have the same issues from time to time. They are "too good", and they get cheated on or even beaten for their efforts.

Just be true to yourself, but make sure you take your time. If we were all ment to get along or ment to be with eachother than, we would all have gotten married at 22 and lived happily ever after...

Just be yourself, and try not to question why someone else is the way they are...they just are.

The internet is no different than real life...these jerks are out at the grocery stores too....just easier for them to lie behind a computer

Sorry about ur date...it sucks (I KNOW)...

Its a chilly damp night here in jersey though.

Have a great night!

Great area to live in..
Try hitting Ibor City, your bound to meet great people there.

Good Luck.

I agree with Jill, I think your profile is great!

I always seem to be most interested in men that are so far

I think FWB is not a good idea if your seeking a real relationship.

FWB in my opinion is a relationship without the title. Your friends...you spend time together, I assume you do what friends do...and then you lay down together. That to me is a relationship..BUT with a loop hole to go out with others and the excuse as to why ur not responsible if the other gets caught up or hurt.

FWB is pretty lame in my opinion.

$.02

I agree, to the previous poster. Dont reply to the texts, just call the authorities. He will get the proper help he needs then.

If it continues, change your number. I have recently had to do this, and it wasn't too bad. I have a much quieter life now.

I would say to know your limitations BEFORE going anywhere. I really try to make a first meet/date dutch. Because I dont want to feel indebted to anyone that doesnt even know me.

Money is tight all around these days. I personally find it to be a good thing, because it provides opportunity to be creative.

As far as the women you are meeting. I think we all find extremes. WAY HOT to Hideously UGLY. Too busy, to too far up your arse. Too close too far. That is the trick about finding someone special...we all arent made for eachother. Just keep on truckin' and hopeful we will each find someone special and not have to go to bed alone...lol

Its snowing here so I made chili.

It ending.

IMA sucker for a charmer....and it always seems that in the begining a man I fall for is charming and patient...and when that is gone so am I....lol

I wouldnt recommend it, not unless she wants to claim her tips too!

I just like to know what makes people tick.

Of course I would NEVER meet someone in a private place. I am just curious as to who does engage in such risky behavior, and why they do. This is my only reason for this post. Obviously there are those that do it. I just want to hear their justification.

I am grateful for the support. Its nice to know this isnt the norm among men.

I find it funny that no one has said that they dont see a problem with meeting in a private place. I havent done a whole lot of internet dating, and already I have had 2 men insist on meeting in a private place.

So where are all the proponents of this? I want to hear your side....