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Topic:
Men & Prostitution
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Something another member posted got me to thinking....it was in a thread about sex and the subject of patronizing prostitutes came up. Now Ima not so interested in a lot of moralizing about whether it is right or wrong to become a prostitute but what I am wondering from the other ladies on here is: If you were dating someone, and were fairly well into the friendship and it became apparent that your male friend visited or had habitually visited prostitutes, or strip clubs would you continue to see him? Would you continue to see him if he made it clear that this behavior would not stop/has not stopped? I'd be like deuces, I'm out of here. It's over! |
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Wouldn't it be great if we can all have a mingle party 
Maybe you should start the first annual one for next year. Set it up in your home town. |
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why are some of us so damd afraid of hurt/rejection? Cause Rob, it doesn't feel good. 
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If my daughter were still here instead of in heaven. I wish that could be for you too. |
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Baskets of snakes really DID consume themselves??? (Mean people suck!) I love it! 
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worldnt it be great if The sun shine for ever or men loved us for ever or women was repected more Health insurance wasn't so high for single working people who have to add their kids. There were more hours to enjoy for yourself and less hours to work. I could get a nutritious meal out of a bag, without having to cook. My 10 year old son would keep his room clean, take a bath without fussing, and stop being a picky eater. I never had to use Ms. Clairol. I had a shape like Trya Banks, and half the things Barbie has (that b*tch has everything). I could go on and on and on with this one. |
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I'll hook you up with my sister. 
HUBBA HUBBA! I have lots to write right now, but only one hand to type it with. Dan, you're just being funny, right? You're not serious? 
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Topic:
People Who Contact Me....
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BTW, I changed my profile headline. The new one is longer, but more accurate, and slightly less ironic, probably. Lex, I just read your profile, well at least half of it. Dude it's a book within its self. I enjoyed reading if though. My wish for you is that you meet a woman who stimulates your creativity, and someone you can connect with in every area. And if you don't want a relationship with kids in it then that's ok too. Don't give up! |
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Do you participate in the forums for entertainment? Or for more serious purposes? Do you take things very seriously, or do you brush it off and laugh about it? When it comes to participating in the forums, it's about entertainment for me. That may mean questioning what people say in order to find out more about the way they think, laughing at a silly post or debating issues. But, above all, it's entertainment. I don't get angry over silly things. I may wonder why people react the way they do, but it isn't personal for me. What about you? This is the first forum I've ever been apart of. I like reading what's on other members minds. I've laugh a lot at the humor and learned a lot from positive responses. I don't take everything seriously, everyone has a right to their own opinion. I use to get my feelings hurt very easily in the past if someone attacked my views but now it doesn't matter. Now if I can just only be comfortable with my looks. |
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Where would you go and why? I would go to Seoul, Korea. I have fallen in love with the culture and language. I hope to visit next year. |
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If you'd read the new book from Steve Harvey "Act like a lady, think like a man". He talks about the 90 day rule.
Steve says to really understand a man’s intentions; women should make the men they are dating wait 90 days before they have sex. “The biggest mistake that women make is they find out the information too late. You find out he’s married too late, you find out something’s wrong with him, he’s not really working, he’s not really a committed-type guy,” he says. “You can get this figured out in 90 days if you give yourself a chance, but once you commit yourself physically to a guy, you become emotionally involved, and you try to force it to make it work because ‘I slept with the guy.’ And you end up dragging yourself through the mud with a relationship that you really need to get rid of.” Women: Do you think it’s reasonable to ask a man you’re dating to wait 90 days before having sex? “If you’re looking for a lifetime commitment, what’s 90 days? You’re trying to have something real,” Steve says. “Now, if you just want to have a fling, then knock yourself out. Most guys, we don’t want to take home to our mothers the loosey-goosey babe. We’re not taking you down off a pole in a strip club and taking you home to our mama’s house. That ain’t what we’re looking for!” Men: Would you stick around 90 days before having sex with the woman you’re dating? I believe I know what the guys are going to say. 
What say ye men, women, is it a good rule? |
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Topic:
I've let go but he won't.
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Just be honest and tell tell the guy that you have NO feelings at all. IF you have to be rude...then be rude! I had to do it once and I said..I love your friends and your son but I just don't love you!! Hey it did work!!! He didn't call and IF he would have..I would have never answered that phone again. IF they can not handle the truth then it could get ugly...so be honest and break it off!!!! Believe me I'm been nice in breaking it off, I've been rude and he's still being stuborn. Thanks everyone for their replies. Many times you just need some sound advice when it comes to matters of the heart. Now I'm just going to ignore all contact from him. Go on with my life and be happy. I wish him all happiness too if he reads this. |
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Topic:
People Who Contact Me....
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This is about the people who contact me, which you already know if you read the aforementioned title as mentioned above. OK, here's the thing -- I get a fair amount of people contacting me on here, via e-mail, IM, nudges, whatever. A certain percentage of these are scammers, and (thanks to Mark and Charles and their crew) I can usually get them nuked within 45 seconds. As for the ones who are not (or who cannot definitively be proven to be) scammers, I notice a disconcerting sameness in them. Many of the messages are extremely brief (I had one this morning that said "Can I know u?"), poorly written, completely devoid of any signs of useful information or a functioning brain stem, and from people who are very very far away. I rarely hear from anyone who actually has anything to say, or the literacy skills to say it. And this puzzles me, because nowhere in my profile (I think -- I mean, the damn thing is so long I rarely go in there myself anymore) does it say "Please contact me if your writing is so garbled and incomprehensible that it will give me a massive headache." Statistically, it seems to me that the odds SHOULD be that at least one genuine prospect should have contacted me by now, seeing that I've been here 4 1/2 years. Math was never my best subject, though, so I may not know what I'm talking about. It would certainly not be the first time. And there are many locals on this site; I see them floating through "People You Might Be Interested In" every day. When I look at their profiles, though, it always says "Last Seen Shortly After The Civil War" or something along those lines. I just don't understand what makes me attractive to someone whose most creative act in life was opening a bag of Ruffles Potato Chips. George Costanza said it best: "When I like them, they don't like me...and when they like me, I don't like them." OMG, I'm George Costanza.... I understand where you're coming from. My contacts are always from another state or country. I need me a local babe. 
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Topic:
Wackydoo!
Edited by
ybcat1
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Sat 08/13/11 02:14 PM
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Why won't my pics post?
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Topic:
I've let go but he won't.
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If this is the guy who used you as a booty call, and was disrespectful to both you AND your children, which I assume it is, then that is not friend material is it? Like I said before, ....click. ...or the continuing cycle that you previously described will continue as he likes it. No, you must have me mistaken for someone else. I've never said anything like that. He has never disrespected me or my children. That's someone else you're talking about. Nah, disrespect my children? I'd have to come out kicking a** or getting my a** kicked if that ever happened. No one messes with my kids. |
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Topic:
Long distance relationships.
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how can 1 deal with a long distance relationship? Some people like it and others like myself not so. I was in one for 5 years and never liked it at all. Seeing him every 6-8 months was hard. I like to be close to the one I love. |
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Topic:
ways to impress men
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Wear a fragrance that he'll love.
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Edited by
ybcat1
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Fri 08/12/11 03:40 PM
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what do men hate most in women
Long lists.  just kidding
You've been MIA, glad to see you. |
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Topic:
I've let go but he won't.
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Thanks everyone, I've never been in a situation like this before.
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Topic:
I've let go but he won't.
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Sometimes being a friend is walking away so they can let go. It's not easy but i have someone who has done that for me and i can say i have cared enough about a few women to have walked away for them. All you can hope is the best for them, and that is why you walk away. We did not talk for a while and i don't recall how much time passed, year or two but our paths crossed again and our friendship was still there. My eyes had opened on what had happened to us and the one thing i knew for sure, she knew what i wanted and she understood what she couldn't give me and that was why we parted. Glad to have our friendship now though. I can still trust her to be a friend. So you mean have no contact at all? Don't answer phone calls, emails and so forth? |
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