What do you think of thart?!

THART!

Sometimes a guy just might not feel that special kind of strong chemistry that draws 2 people together -- but he might still enjoy her company in a friendship sort of way. As long as he's honest about that, it's all good. But if a guy says he loves you just so he can get something and then move on, then that's not right.

On the flip side of the coin, you might want to ask yourself: "Why do women chase after bad boys/players?"

Theres real men out there it's just some see something in others that scare them away,such as unrealistic expectations,women who have misandry typed all over their profile or face and so on.

We all want both...a very lucky few find it.

I will say what you kids wont.

WE WANT TO HOOK UP WITH GORGEOUS PEOPLE!

"It is about the personality".....bullschitt.

Any one of you ladies would happily hook up with a Bradd Pitt, Billy Dee Williams or an Antonio Banderas.....and you wouldn't give a damn if they were dumber than your mailbox. They are gorgeous men that women slobber over.

All the guys who say that they want an intellectual shy chick aint EVER gonna admit that they want the sexy women. A horny Pamela Anderson, Rebecca Romaine Stamos,Dolly Parton or Betty Rubble will trump a smart Janet Reno, Queen Elizabeth or Hillary Clinton every day of the week.

No one wants to hook up with someone that they know is physically unattractive....Life ain't fair.

Why do men chase women they have no intention of marrying? The same urge that makes dogs chase cars they have no intention of driving.

Been on this site for 4 years and still single. I am strong, sincere, kind, and treat people great.

I have bipolar disorder and the 100's of women I have contacted can't get past that.

I have decided to give up looking. My choice to live my life alone but I come away from all of this very jaded and hurt.

My faith in humanity is forever changed. I use to help people all the time but I have started to pull back.

One of the biggest jokes about profiles is the lie I read over and over. Women who claim to be compassionate and open minded are usually cold and closed-minded. Like I said, I am jaded and I am stating a basic fact since I have read 100's of profiles and corresponded, or tried to, with so many I have become a quasi-expert on the subject.

One woman I fell in love with turned out to be a total fraud. My heart was shredded but I kept on looking. But it has become too clear that it won't happen for me and I know I am not to blame. That's the God's honest truth.

So I would like to know where all the real women at? If you are one, contact one of the nice gentlemen on here, but don't contact me. I wish we could have met a long time ago, but it wasn't meant to be.

Ladies, get bold. E-mail men and find someone instead of waiting for someone to find you.

Best of luck to all and goodbye.

Ken

My baby has both.

beautiful brain

i prefer a beautiful heart

"Why do you think they're not getting a "bite" because they're being open and honest?"

Basically I see that the US has some what of a higher "superficial code" to relationships that I don't see in many other countries that I visit. When I talk to both girl and guy friends here and I hear them talk about meeting someone, they talk one way when talking to me about it, and when they are out in a crowd a game face comes on and they talk as if they were a completely different person "their dating game face".

I've referred to the "2 week hustle" before. That's when people meet wearing their dating game face start seeing each other based on that face and about 2 weeks later stop communicating. In my field of work I call this "burn in". It's the time it takes something to settle before you can see the real picture of the vibrations. In the US we are so use to seeing people with their DGF on that when we hear someone that is past that we judge them as desperate or being to forward. But I say why would we want to stay in DGF longer than we absolutely have to. In fact why wear it at all?

This is no joke, both of my wives said to me "I want you" right from day one. They were honest sincere and got what they wanted. If either one of them would have done the "let me get to know you over drinks" thing we never would have been together. Let me tell you ladies what meeting over drinks means to most guys. The game is on. I'm walking into a meat market to meet meat and if that doesn't work there are plenty of other pieces to look at while I'm here. Women (I don't know) could maybe have a bar where just only women meet. Men have Clubs. Clubs to men are places where we don't think about women (unless it's a strip club). Their bigger versions of a man cave. Mixed bars are meat markets. You meet a man in a bar and the chances are slim that you are going to see him in the real light of who he is, unless he "is" a bar fly. The light is dim the music is playing and there are more sexual vibes floating around the place than a well covered bathroom stall wall. After 2 drinks things start taking on that diferent look. Let me ask myself. Michael, have you ever hung out in a bar and not got laid? No never, unless I had so many numbers that I couldn't decide who. Or unless the bar was in Ohio (sorry an inside joke). Now I consider myself a pretty nice guy and if I'm telling you that this is what I thought and did you can guess what the guys that are not so gentlemanly are thinking. And let me add, even if a guy you are with is not thinking these thoughts most of the other guys are and if you are hot are checking you out, which for most guys creates a whole new issue.

I girl asks me out to a bar to get to know her and I tell her I already do, no thanks or in my wild days cleaned my sheets and made sure there were matches by the candles and my choice of music on the stereo before I went out.

The guys I see on here that are great husband material might meet at a bar but they would take the time to let you know how bars work before you went and tell you that there may be better ways to get to know them, unless you and they are both partiers. Partiers have their own rules. The guys up here that are good husband material shoot very straight with their answers. They from what I have seen have intellect with a mix of humor. And quite frankly I am shocked that they have not been snatched with all the women that say they are looking.

Yes, I do think that straight up honest and open guys do get over looked. I get a kick out of it when I see another nice guy thread as if they are not here. Hello, again my hat is off to nicelady for being upfront. Who knows she might even have her man by now.

I ain't kidding.

She is fine and seriously likes em short dark and swarthy....

thanx and sorry, at this point I feel like my life is OVER and I'm sooo lost...and HURT..I wish the pain will go away soon...