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Tue 01/24/12 10:28 AM
I was reading that somedicine can cause 2 little acidity and some foods 2much that could cause problems. Im hoping that a stumach ulcer can just heal like outside wounds alby itself. Iwonder how long itakes 4 a tumy ulcer to heal.

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Sun 01/22/12 07:44 AM
Does any1 have advise on what foods to eathat can heal stumach ulcer or what medicines are any good and how soon it can heal?

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Mon 11/14/11 10:47 AM
Iwanta nice husband 1thats emotionaly mature and compasionate and can be loyal2wife

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Sat 11/12/11 11:12 AM
They would support you in yr dreams and goals and treat you everyday with kindness and make sure uhavood2eat and a safeplace2stay.

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Sat 11/12/11 08:14 AM
Still single and looking for husband

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Sat 11/12/11 08:10 AM
Im willing to leave my job and relocate anywhere for the right partner.

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Fri 11/11/11 09:29 AM


I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for?


You need to read "No More Mr Nice Guy". Women raise men to act that way. Women often say that is the kind of man they want. But the brain and the hormones disagree. Women are typically attracted to dominant men. Not necessarily men who dominate them, but dominate the world around them. Take charge and seem to be fearless. Stand up for themselves and demand their just dues. Basically, a woman can get a door mat for $10 at Walmart, why would she settle for dating or marrying one?
exactly!iwant a tuf andurable man öne that can last 4ever.iwant superman thats not alergic to criptönight..iwant a strong confidnt man that is happy withis live and wanto make his wife happy too!

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Fri 11/11/11 09:28 AM


I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for?


You need to read "No More Mr Nice Guy". Women raise men to act that way. Women often say that is the kind of man they want. But the brain and the hormones disagree. Women are typically attracted to dominant men. Not necessarily men who dominate them, but dominate the world around them. Take charge and seem to be fearless. Stand up for themselves and demand their just dues. Basically, a woman can get a door mat for $10 at Walmart, why would she settle for dating or marrying one?
exactly!iwant a tuf andurable man öne that can last 4ever.iwant superman thats not alergic to criptönight..iwant a strong confidnt man that is happy withis live and wanto make his wife happy too!

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Fri 11/11/11 09:21 AM
I want a compasionate loving husband that wouldevote his love2me and never betray or hurt me in any way.

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Mon 11/07/11 09:42 AM




Im 39 and ive never asked a guy out. I always wait4them to ask me out. So i wonder what should a lady do when she planto make a first move?or is it besto wait4him to make a move first? And if he doesomething helpfull, isithat hes interested and available or maybe hes just a kind man helping people.hm iwonder what actions would really impress a guy and then you haveto figure out a way noto make him feel awkwrd,what ifyou ask him out and hes not intrstd,and not all guys wear their wedding rings.


Start a conversation with him (email), if he participates in forums, read his posts, post to him, test the water......Nudge him....Once you have accomplished this much, learn to read between the lines. You'll know if he is interested....And be brave!...What's the worst that can happen?...Thanks, but no thanks....That's way better than a "What if" isn't it?

Good luck!flowerforyou


I think she was talking about a guy she met in person. :smile:


I wondered, but it's still good advice for online, yes?biggrin So for offline, go for it babe, nothing to lose, everything to gain!!:banana:
yes,mingle make it easy for us to date,here you know who is available for dating. Offline he could have a jelousteady girlfriend,i once was told noto lòok at a ladys boyfriend,and iwas merely looking athe tatoo hewas getting,iwas wondering howthey do it and if it hurts,and then the girl chased me away,and i was threatnd once by another woman,her partner was platonic friends with me,and i must look upthewordignity for if he says no..then again maybe its betr to live with rejctn than to wonder what if..and you aright we should expres our persönality for that is what will make a relationship work or not.i dont mind asking him out,its the maybe he have a jelous partner that makes me scared.so maybe iwill nevr have that great guy cuz im2scared.however thanx forthe great advice,its interesting to c how others view this.a today i got a job cuz iwasnt 2scared to ask..maybe nextime iwill get a boyfriend too!with some courage imight get brave and ask him out.they say comunication is only 45persent verbal.so itake it if hes body language isaying ask me out"i should.and if he wink and smile it means at least he noticed me.

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Sun 11/06/11 11:42 AM
Today there was a small wild bird, using its beak to try and chip away our see through window door. It kept on flying into the door,..gues theres no explanation 4this behaviour,it did this for 2hours even after i gave it food outside.we have no birds inside,so iwonderd maybe its hungry.

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Sun 11/06/11 09:38 AM
So today a realy kind gentlman was helping the little boy that was with me, so iwas thinking, hes compasionate and kind i like to geto know him better.chances r he was just helping the boy and is not interestd in me..hm nextime iwill check if he has a weding ring.at least its nice to know tha t nice guystill exist.

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Sun 11/06/11 09:20 AM
Im 39 and ive never asked a guy out. I always wait4them to ask me out. So i wonder what should a lady do when she planto make a first move?or is it besto wait4him to make a move first? And if he doesomething helpfull, isithat hes interested and available or maybe hes just a kind man helping people.hm iwonder what actions would really impress a guy and then you haveto figure out a way noto make him feel awkwrd,what ifyou ask him out and hes not intrstd,and not all guys wear their wedding rings.

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Mon 10/31/11 01:04 PM

Just joined this site today. I have met 4 men in the past 2 weeks for coffee... 2 of them after meeting and setting up a second date (they initiated) then send me an email/txt to say that their headspace isn't right for a relationship or that they were seeing if they were ready to move on from their exes... Maybe I should start charging for this service to "test their waters" as they are completely wasting my time! The 3rd man after 2 dates just texted me to say he didn't feel a spark between us... what's with the texting? The 4th man after coffee was very interested but looking to compliment his existing relationship (wheelchair bound wife)as "he has enough love to share for two"! MMMM he told me he was divorced... Very despondent human girl I am... looking to restore my faith in men who know what they want and can be honest..... Just venting my thoughts........... happy day
at least ugot adate!i cant even find 1. Hmmaybe its bcoz i askd for guys whose interestd in mariage and want kids..i agree whth you that peopl shouldnt date if there emotialy unatachd

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Sun 10/30/11 12:49 PM
I think your profile should tell people where your from and where your going,what your values are,what you want..and it should be written in a format that express your personality.

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Sun 10/30/11 12:44 PM




c'mon now - that's harsh


Harsh, but accurate -- at least, within my experience.


do you know that I never read another woman's profile - never even been on any except once or twice when I wanted to PM someone - and no - didn't read their profile


Then you're an exception. But most of the profiles out there are slightly less interesting than the UPC code on the Ritz Crackers box.



yes I understand your point about "cookie cutter" style profiles- that is kinda - bleh...

I know if mine is full of cliches it is totally by accident....so I was just responding to your saying that we are copying off each other - not always true - at least , not here


I've seen so many that were blatant copy 'n paste jobs, I suspect somewhere out there is a boilerplate dating site profile document that everybody but me knows about --

The only other feasible (?) alternative is that there's some sort of genetic encoding in the DNA that makes everybody write the same things in their profiles....

yes. Most normal humans wanthe same things.we all want love and security.its just the package thats difrnt,some like blue eyes and others brown, and others wantheir mindstimulated by perfect words.

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Sun 10/30/11 12:34 PM

im going to defend the ladys here for a second. Sir, each one of them are looking for something specific,therefor sayin im looking for my mr right,they might even b lookin for you. My mr right is compasionate kind caring intelgnt and emotionaly mature and wont mind to have a child with me. Many will not be mr right and a few could be.i think the"mr right..is achievable and could even b found on thisite.

- My mr right is compasionate kind caring intelgnt and emotionaly mature and wont mind to have a child with me


then why not just say that?

hm, yes youright! The ladyshould specify whathey want,saying uwant mright,could be anything. Having a guy that like partys andrinkn etc could be right4 sum1else not4me.my mr right is a homely family man that doesnt like partying andrinkn an smokn.mr perfect is dfrnt 4 every1.my mr ight.loves nature animals and me.hes the kinda guy that will never betray his wife. I did specify what iwant in my profile and encourage others to do the same.

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Sat 10/29/11 10:17 PM

I suspended my account here quite some time ago. I can't remember for sure why. However, Having reactivated it and had a quick look through the profiles of women searching for men I SUSPECT that ONE reason is the number of them using the term "Looking For Mr Right" as their catch-line. This is so old, tired and clichéd that it is not just boring, it's alienating.

"Mr Right" sounds like some unobtainable, ephemeral being along the lines of an asexual "Heathcliffe" that I find it instantly off-putting and thus just immediately pass those profiles by. I assume, in doing so, that the women involved are emotionally stunted and sexually arid.

Personally, I do not care to even think of being "Mr Right" but rather "Mr Okay", "Mr Flawed, But Will Do", Mr Will Give It All I Can But Insist On Having Fun".

What is other men's take on this? Do you just find it judgementally off-putting? Are the women here surprised at such a view? If you're not, why do it? Why set out from the word go to achieve a success rate of zero? Why bother putting your profile here? Why alienate the majority of men from the word go?
im going to defend the ladys here for a second. Sir, each one of them are looking for something specific,therefor sayin im looking for my mr right,they might even b lookin for you. My mr right is compasionate kind caring intelgnt and emotionaly mature and wont mind to have a child with me. Many will not be mr right and a few could be.i think the"mr right..is achievable and could even b found on thisite.

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Sat 10/29/11 02:53 PM
The blond wento lunch wither friend:"the new it guy wasuposed to check our computers for new installations,but hes not doing his work. All he does is make notes about my weight. He wrote down fat 32! And i heard him gossip about me onthe phone whith his collegue, he saidt"no, its fat..32!! And later iwento my bos ofice to tel him we should get a new it guy and there he was gosiping again i heard him say its fat 32! Im not sure if he was gosiping abouthe bosesecratry or me again

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Sat 10/29/11 02:27 PM

Windows 7 is better then Vista....scared
yes win 7 is great.. Ive set windows to never update..and it instald new files! And now,somehow it says, always update, and then i just go and change it again to never update and windows will change it back to always update..hm i think windows is going to win..

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