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Tue 08/16/11 01:37 PM

I found this online and thought it would be fun to do. Don't ask the typical questions you might ask on a date, let's be a little creative with it. You can still learn something about the person who answers. Ask a random question, and someone else answer it. Let's see how many different questions we can come up with.

Ok, I'll go first. Out of these three animals, which would you choose to be and why?

1. A bee.

2. A bear.

3. A bobcat.
i would choose to be a bee.id love to bee,i love honey, i like bees and i love flying. Did you know if you dont agrevate a bee it wont sting you.beesometimes fly around you cause you smell sweet,however they wont sting you.dont hurthe bees please,they play an important role in polination and they make yumy honey. Ok heres my question. What would you do to influence world peace?

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Fri 08/12/11 04:04 PM


Sometimes being a friend is walking away so they can let go. It's not easy but i have someone who has done that for me and i can say i have cared enough about a few women to have walked away for them.

All you can hope is the best for them, and that is why you walk away.


We did not talk for a while and i don't recall how much time passed, year or two but our paths crossed again and our friendship was still there. My eyes had opened on what had happened to us and the one thing i knew for sure, she knew what i wanted and she understood what she couldn't give me and that was why we parted.


Glad to have our friendship now though. I can still trust her to be a friend.


So you mean have no contact at all? Don't answer phone calls, emails and so forth?
yes. When i left my exbf 10yrs ago,i never spoke 2him again and posted his things,we did share 8years2gether and i could hav ofrd a hand ofriendship and he would haveused thato manipulate me back into an unhealthy relationship.ilovd him but he was jelous and obsesive abusiv atimes and very selfish. It was difclt since iam a compasionate woman and he begd itake him back and prömisd he wil be nicer nextime.best thing idid for both of us was2cuthe ties. Walk away and start anew life with amanthat can apreciate you and someone that you can share ahappy life with. Itstime4you2get anew man.soon.what are you looking4 in aman?

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Fri 08/12/11 03:52 PM

What do you do when someone won't let go of the relationship? I can be a friend but that's all. I realized there is no lasting future because of our differences. I've tried everything I can think of other than being means as hell. Nope, come to think of it I tried that too. frustrated frustrated frustrated
perhabs hes misreading your kindnes ofriendship and thinking therestill afuture with you so long your friends.

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Fri 08/12/11 03:40 PM
Thankyou for all the wel wishes advise support and even positive critism. Iwill let you know once i find a suitable partner. Yes mingle is a great way of meeting new people and when you clarify what your looking for,you surely will find it. Iwish you all the best of luck and thankyou for your support. And ifyour interested in meeting me send me a message,im stillooking to find my perfect partner and inthe proces imeet alot of good people.

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Fri 08/12/11 02:33 PM


Was just wondering if there are american single guys here? Maybe some that dont mind marriage and having kids?

Why are you so desperate to get married? If it's because you want a child, then adopt. Either that, or consider marrying a man who already has a child.

Sure, there is nothing wrong with relocating in order to improve the odds of you meeting single men. However, choose the lifestyle that you want first. Then find a man.

In the meantime, clean up your Mingle2 profile. Currently, your profile rambles and is difficult to read.
im noht changing my profile,my last reader liked it and it made him smile.

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Fri 08/12/11 02:27 PM


Was just wondering if there are american single guys here? Maybe some that dont mind marriage and having kids?

Why are you so desperate to get married? If it's because you want a child, then adopt. Either that, or consider marrying a man who already has a child.

Sure, there is nothing wrong with relocating in order to improve the odds of you meeting single men. However, choose the lifestyle that you want first. Then find a man.

In the meantime, clean up your Mingle2 profile. Currently, your profile rambles and is difficult to read.
iwanto make my own babies with asmart nice man. Idontmind loving other kids too. Woman should hav kids as young as possible im almost 40

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Fri 08/12/11 02:24 PM

Nicelady, maybe try a different route. Work on relocating to the place you want to live, then look for a husband?
i hav no problem living imy country we have nice warm wheather.however idont like the men here,hence i wil hav no problem relocating to my husbands country if he wish to live there.the men in our country isnt nice.the americans idated are very nice

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Fri 08/12/11 01:51 PM

what do men hate most in women


just kidding
they hate ithat woman are smarter!

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Fri 08/12/11 12:18 PM
Hm with woman its easy, conectotheir minds,be compasionate and suportiv 2wards their goals,give them anything they want,make there dreams come true and say kind words and actions that makem feel good and they are like wet putty inyourhands. With men its difrnt he ones ive met what impressthem ishort skirts and cleavage a clean home a sexy wife and beer inthe fridge iswhatimpres most men.oh andont forget a nice breakfast lunch andinr.

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Fri 08/12/11 11:22 AM

Man is a slave of habit.
What are your good habits and bad habits? smokin
my good habitis that im persistant andetermind to get what i want out of life, im straight forward honest and yet always try noto hurt others feelings.another habit im curious inquisitive and love learning new things and making new friends. Another habit im loyal to my friends and faithful to my partner acording to some minglewoman my bad habit is that im urgently looking for a kindlovingsuportvcompasionate husband. I realy had enuf of being on my own i want g lifethime partner who wants to hav kids with me.

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Fri 08/12/11 09:56 AM
I hand out busines cards tothe once i like. It states that i run a single dating club. Im the only member.nobody ever subscribe and i got a few dates like that!

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Thu 08/11/11 05:32 PM
Say something that would make her smile pleasantly.

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Thu 08/11/11 02:13 PM




Are you having any luck yet? You are in a bit of an out-of-the-way location.


I've recieved emails from men in Africa who is also looking for marriage.....


im not realy interested in dating african or south african guys. The american idated before was very kind and honest if they have more of those in america then im interested. The south african guys ive dated were very selfish abusive andishonest.

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Thu 08/11/11 02:06 PM

Marriage should not be the first step, why not try to make friends so that you can love and be loved. I'll like to be your friend. Can we?
i never said mariage is a firstep in a relationship for me, iwill obviosly geto know someone first and if we cannot be good friends for starters then i cannot persue marriage. I was merely trying to find guys that are interestd in mariage and children, since i had a relationship before where the guy wasnt interestd in mariage or children althoughe liked me, iwanto avoid such incidents by simply only finding dates with guys that would oneday consider mariage and children.

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Thu 08/11/11 01:48 PM
Our purpose is to preserve this beautifull planet and not destroy it.

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Thu 08/11/11 12:49 PM
I dont understand why people cheat. I canot cheat on my partner, its my persönality to be faithful to my partner. Perhabs others are born oraised differently.

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Thu 08/11/11 12:40 PM
Im a frèelance trainer when i get many clients i earn good money. Currently busy creating new training material not generating funds. Hopefully i will earn enough money this year to do some traveling oversee. Training pays well,problems just o get paying clients,there are many trainers.ive had many clients who cant afford paying me,then i feelsorry4them andont persue payment. Wish i could train every one4free however then iwont have enough funds to live. I gues its easier to live on a monthly steady income from an employer than to work privately without certainty of payment and clients

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Thu 08/11/11 12:24 PM
Its my personality to be straightforward and honest. Its to me very important in a relationship. I once dated this very sweet american boy we emaild for a few months and when we met, it was love at first sight.he found me atractive and i found him atractive and believe it or not he loved my personality and then after a few dates he said were ending the relationship cause he know im looking for a husband and hes nothe husband type,he told me he travels alot and have many girlfriends and it wouldnt be right of him tag me along and makempty promises cause he nevr wanto get maried and he knows im a decent girl thats wants a relatiönship with one man only and he cant give me what i want.sigh hes honesty made me wanted him even more. Iwonder if all american men are so kind and honest,then i want one of those,please,however i want one thats interested in mariage. Being honest and straightforward makes people respect you more. When you lie, you cheat yourself out of a nice relationship.

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Thu 08/11/11 09:17 AM
Oh, i was just wondering whats available onthe site,since someguys are not single and dont put it in profile,this way the girls can see whos available. I like americans they are nice people.iwonder whats a pm system and yes i often give advise when reading other posts.

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Thu 08/11/11 03:26 AM

And then I found out he is on 2 other dating sites. He also joined this one saying "it just poped up" so he deiced to join. He saw I was on it and started making fun of me telling people I'm so pathetic and what not.
I just that it was pretty funny and decided to share :D
Now I feel much better about myself!
But I kinda wana join one of the ones hes on, but don't want him to see me!
don't waste your energy on him,hes not worth it, rather chat up the nice guys on mingle and start a new relationship.