what makes a WOMAN or a MAN fall inlove with the total opposite person than what they are looking for? is it true love or curious?

What are the qualites you really desire form a guy before you can get married to him or date him.Is it money or what?

Im sure this has probably happened to someone else here, but this was MY first time.

I get an email from a beautiful 23 year old man , from Aveiro, Aveiro, and he says, "Hello beautiful, would love to know you",kiss kiss.

Now heres the funny part, I look at his picture, and I totally recognize him. Its a picture of a VERY famous European model, who models for "Calvin Klein" and others.So I thought I would have some fun with him.hehe.

So I write him back, and tell him that I know who the man in the picture is, and why doesnt he put up a real picture of himself. He replies, and says that it is really him, he swears. I wrote back and said, "haha, nice try, tell you what, if thats really you, than post another picture of you right now, and let me see it. Of course he says, "they are all in my album, and not with me now."

TALK ABOUT A CROCK OF CHIT!! GOTTCHA HOMEBOY!!

So then I blocked him, I would of done that in the first place, when he kept writing back, but I knew he was gonna be good for a good laugh anyways!!

Actually, her profile stated she has no funds. Normally, I wouldn't ask something like that, but she did put it in her profile.

Just my two cents --

If she knows what she wants and she's not shy about letting it be known, where's the harm in that?

Also, I have to respect someone who goes looking for someone who wants the same thing she's looking for, as opposed to someone who lies about what she's looking for in the hopes she can reel someone in and then convert them to her TRUE agenda, even though that is NOT what the other person wants.

Her methodology may be a little unorthodox but at least she's not trying to trick anybody into anything.

I like that you are direct, but...
Pick a place and just GO there. Somehow. Some way. Make it happen. The husband & kids thing will follow if/when the universe (or God or whomever you believe in - including yourself) deems it right. Maybe it's now - but maybe you should "jump and grow your wings on the way down."

I am here because this is just one tool of many (E pluribus unum) that you can use to meet people.

My greatest success comes in person. (Supermarkets)

No, this is not a bash men thread. I am sure there are women who do this too.

I have noticed and it may be just my experience but here goes....

In the dating environment, especially, I have to describe my condition. When I describe my MS stuff to some men and they feel "bad" for me or I am assuming this is the trigger, they get into that frame of mind and you can hear it in their tone and even see it in their writing, they want to tell you to "not/stop be/being a sissy" but they do not do it because you are a woman, I am guessing.
It is frustrating for me to try to get them to understand, one, that I am just explaining what the MS does to me and what my body goes through, two, that it is part of my life I cannot escape. Being a sissy is the furthest from the problem...lol and it is something very important if a cohabitation situation were to evolve or even when it comes to picking out where to go on a date. I am usually lightening the information from the real pain and suffering because I don't like pity. But it would be nice to have a little empathy. To understand that they understand would be really nice not dismissing it.

So my question here is: Do you think that by the way we "toughen" up the boys in their younger years, that we remove their ability to show and/or feel empathy correctly?

Or is that when one doesn't have knowledge or experience something it is hard to empathize?

Or both?

Definition: Empathy is the capacity to recognize and, to some extent, share feelings (such as sadness or happiness) that are being experienced by another sentient or semi-sentient being.


What do you think?

I like that you are direct, but...
Pick a place and just GO there. Somehow. Some way. Make it happen. The husband & kids thing will follow if/when the universe (or God or whomever you believe in - including yourself) deems it right. Maybe it's now - but maybe you should "jump and grow your wings on the way down."

really ,is this true, is this a joke, na this isn't craigslist scam ,or is it, the jury still out on this one.

Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens?

hes from minessota, was stationed in texas, his sister lives in virgina but deployed in libia, and his mom just moved to az. so theres no one

and he left a desktop computer and moniter (600$), a flat screen tv and dvd player(225$), and all his clothes (200$), and a custom race jacket (250$).