Live the life you want to live, do the things that you want/like to do.
Don't make it dependent on whether or not you are in a relationship.
Get to the place where you are OK with who you are right now.
Have a life to share with someone, then you can build something together.
I didn't rely on just the internet either. I dated from work and church too. I tried to stay busy, not doing the activities in hopes of meeting someone, but keeping my eyes open to who ever I might meet along the way.

All easy for me to say now since I found someone special.

Ward, Don't you think you were a little had on the Beaver last night?


Who knew? LOL

Stealth Mode.

I can only hope it is not like the Michigan forums.

Vits.
A few herbals now and then.

No Rx's

Truth.

OK, so for less than 2 grand you can get started. I've put more than that on a credit card. Just do it. You can always make more money, you can't make more time to do it later in life.

You will always find people to piss on your dreams and tell you it is a bad idea. Don't listen.

Find out for yourself.

I was joking the other day with one of the Urologists, I said I bet you don't get too many 'curb side consultations' for prostates.
He told me two guys wanted their prostates checked right in the locker room at work.

Hey I know Greely Colorado!!!!!!!!!!!!

Slow down, if you feel like a fish out water it is because you are.
No hurries-No worries.
Take more to rebuild your life, then look around for someone to date

Yay for you!

You went out on a date=Good

He was a jerk=Bad

You wont go out with him again=Good

2 Good
1 Bad

So you come out 1 pt ahead.

Cash

Yep....been going strong for well over a yr now.
Internet dating is just another tool, an avenue, to meet new people. If you aren't doing well 'in real life' meeting new people, I don't believe the internet thing will make much of a difference.

Just another road to financial ruin.

Sorry that should be 'smooth groove'

my bad.......

I made up my favorite Bible verse. I had to make it up because it was not included in the Bible, but I believe it to be true.

"Jesus laughed"

How funny, my comment was deleted.....but this thread still shows up in the "My Topics"

First and foremost
1. Get a lawyer
2. Get paternity tests done, you can have the court order them to be done.(You split the costs)
3.IF and only IF the paternity tests prove that they are your sons, hammer out through the court:
A. Custody
B. Visitation
C. Child support.

3. Rebuild your life.
4. Have as little to do with this woman as possible.




Good Luck.

If you've fallen for it 3 times, it says more about you than them.
Why are you such an easy victim?

It's cool, because someone will 'settle' for him.