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Why is honesty so hard?
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Why are people dishonest, you ask?
Simply put...honesty is difficult and can be very scary at times. Why is that, you ask? Because people JUDGE others! As long as one feels they have a safe place to land with their truths...they will do so. If they let their insecurities control themselves...fear reprecussions for their actions/words...or fear they will hurt another with their truths...they will lie/fib. If we are ALL honest...we will ALL admit...we have lied/fibbed, for one reason or another. It is human nature. What's important is how we own-up to our lies/fibs and move forward from the learning experience. |
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WHY?
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I usually ask it . I don't care about salary, I want to know what they do, or what they'd like to be doing. Some people just have a J O B to pay the bills (like me for now), but to some people thier work is interesting & important. If they get upset when ask then I start to wonder why it's a secret. GREAT POST, Hen! If'n I were "looking" for a mate...I certainly would want to know what they do to "bring home the bacon". Certainly NOT to determine their finanical worth...but, to surmise if they are living their passion and truly enjoy what they do for a "living". I can find myself engaged and interested in someone talking about their profession whether it be "ditch digger" or "doctor"...as long as they are passionate about it. If they get all pi$$y about my inquiries...ummm...errrm...RED FLAG! HUGE character indicator to me...anyways. |
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LOVE fresh venison...as long as it was dressed quickly, cooked right and not too "gamey". YUM!
However, I've been known to sit in a deer stand for 8 hours and not take a single shot when I had ample opportunity. So SHOOT ME...just can't shoot anothing with a heartbeat until it presents clear and present danger to me. Now, who brought the salad to accompany the venison roast? |
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Scientology Kills...again
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Oh, FFS!
Just once...can't you folks put down the friggin' People magazine and rest your Google trigger finger and find some compassion and let a decent FAMILY grieve in PEACE! And for the OP...I sure would like to know where you earned your supposed MD degree, to think you could thorougly and effectively diagnose the Travolta child. *rolls eyes* Again, FFS...give it a rest, would ya? Essentially, what you doing in this thread is BLAMING his family for their child's death due to their GOD-given RIGHT to religion...which is totally unfair, unjustified...and not to mention...UNPROVEN! I personally send my quiet prayers of peace and comfort to this loving family, hope they find solace through their pain. I suggest everyone else do the same...vs. casting unwarranted stones in a glass house. R.I.P. Jett Travolta. |
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I want to have your baby
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If you could have a baby with anybody on Mingle2, who would you pick? And why? No one! And why? Well, for one I'm married... Two...I don't know or even lremotely ike any one of you well enough to make such a life-time or even 18-year commitment such as that.. and thirdly... I'm post-menopausal, so my eggs are all fried! Anyone want extra-crispy BACON with those eggs? THAT I can still *deliver*! |
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it's always hit or miss no matter what you do works great Yep, Uh, HUH! ...AND... "I just wanna bang on the drums all day"...lalalala! |
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It dont matter... just dont hurt no one when you drink and its all good. After all life is an illusion, your controlled by something which maggots eat once you die, and our bodies are like easter egg shells all painted up, which maggots eat also. I hope i get closer to me this year...its so hard to see your real self huh ..... i mean HAVE A BEER !!! for me, i SWORE it off this year ! Love life - aint no dress rehersal huh? May 2009 be the Best for all of you !! Honestly, I'm on your side with this when I say... I sincerely HOPE you achieve your New Year's goal with the "NO drinking" thingy...cause all I can say to your post is a huge... Yeah...uh...HUH? |
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Aaah! I just realized..
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You give me hope Silver!! How could you NOT have hope with something that friggin' cute nibblin' at your nose in your main pic?! In all seriousness..and devoid of "dating silly-cums"...age truly is JUST a number! I LOVED my 30's...but, and oh so enJOYing my 40's...and then some! I suggest doing a "Gratitude List"...and truly looking back on your life in a positive manner. Would you really trade your wrinkles of wisdom for the "Fountain of Youth"? |
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Aaah! I just realized..
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*giggles at TWO things*:
1. Your main pic - TOO CUTE! and... 2. You are only 37! Buck-up little camper...or grasshopper! The BEST is yet to come in your 40's!!! |
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Sounds good....
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If you are ever in St. Louis, MO. There is a place in the city called The Loop, which is basically just a street with shops and restaurants, go to Fitz's... they have the most amazing root beer there.... they make at the restaurant. It's AWESOME!!! Look it up... you won't regret it... lol I live in St. Louis and I've been to Fitz's a couple of times! Don't eat the chili. It will set your mouth on fire! Haha... oops, my bad! Their fried pickle chips are surprisingly good... lol! I haven't tried those. I'll have to try them next time I'm there. They do make excellent root beer floats. OMG...Rootbeer floats and fried pickles! I'm gonna show off my redneck roots here by shouting....YEEEEE HAW! Okay, Winx and Beauty? Which one of you two are gonna bring the cherries to top this fried/fat party off? |
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Sounds good....
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right about now! Rootbeer Float mmmmm OMG! BOING! I honestly have the IBC Beer in the fridge...with a honkin' scoop of vanilla "scream" in the freezer ready to go! Let's do IT! |
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Looking for love thing here? I mean come-on....You just want a wild time and THATS IT! So why TALK? Just rip my clothes off and do me. 1. NOPE. 2. NOPE! 3. Because I enjoy intelligent and challenging conversation. 4. No thank you! No offense, but sounds like someone is a tad "bitter" and needs to either see a therapist or write a sappy love poem/song to vent "his" anger. F no SilverJoy, that's called "being a guy" he says what we all think Well then...as we "gals" and the infamous Dr. Phil says: "How's that workin' for ya?" Sidenote: Just gotta LOVE "perspective", eh? |
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Looking for love thing here? I mean come-on....You just want a wild time and THATS IT! So why TALK? Just rip my clothes off and do me. 1. NOPE. 2. NOPE! 3. Because I enjoy intelligent and challenging conversation. 4. No thank you! No offense, but sounds like someone is a tad "bitter" and needs to either see a therapist or write a sappy love poem/song to vent "his" anger. |
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Resolutions
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My best over last Summer was 114. I am pretty sure I can reach 95. Well, HOLY COW...you shoulda made that your NY's resolution for LAST YEAR, Just. You already achieved the goal! Now, how about a goal for retrieving all the lost "shots" in the sandtrap, fields and forest? Is THAT attainable? |
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Welcome...and LOVE your tagline! Scrafed from one of my alltime FAVE children's stories!
However, just gotta ask? WTF is THAT between your legs in your main pic? |
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Resolutions
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This is the time of year when people feel obligated to make resolutions that they think they can do, but actually turn out to be unreasonable expectations. Lose weight, stop smoking....whatever. Me? I'm gonna go with a resolution I KNOW I can keep. My New Year's resolution is to hit 95 on a par 73 golf course. What's yours? Excellent post, Just! Just like I stated in another thread: Nothing wrong with making NY's resolutions, just make them attainable, or don't make them at all as Wink's stance is! And...umm...good luck on that 95 on a par 73 course. |
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To My Friends At Mingle
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Don't know you at all, Winx...other than what I have read in the forums.
However, I wish you and yours the most JOYous 2009 imaginable! |
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Edited by
SilverJoy
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Thu 01/01/09 12:04 AM
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GREAT new slate, Lfer!
However, if going for "dat" college degree...I would ditch the text-speak THAT! I'm all for making New Year's resolutions...as long as they are viable and obtainable. Keep them simple, with short-term goals (3-months progression points) to track your success. Nothing wrong with shooting for the moon...just make sure you don't "shoot the moon" when setting them, folks. HAPPY NEW YEAR! |
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New years kiss!
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let me get out my lip- gloss sonny...hang on while i put my dentures back in......lol Oh who CARES?! GUMMY BEAR kiss me! |
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Do you still believe that someone will love you forever and ever, even amidst increasing cases of divorce? Yes, of course, I do! I've witnessed it in others and experienced it personally. So, to those who "pooh-pooh" the concept...then "pooh-pooh" on YOU and perhaps you should take a harsh look in that mirror of yours. |
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