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Thu 12/09/10 09:06 AM

Hi everyone!

I'm new to this dating thing...it's not as easy as it used to be 'in the day'(when we were younger). LOL

Is there anyone who would share advice or coach me thru this business of dating??

All replies will be welcome...

Thanks,

YELLOWROSE56


Looking through your profile,my observations are such:

You may want to say what you are truly looking for(activity partner may not go over well.)

Add what you like don'tlike, hobbies(profiles that don't say much will not get many replies).

Don't be afraid of a little humor(we as men could take it).:smile: waving

Be patient be patient be patient!!!!!!:smile: :smile: :smile: waving

Just my opinions as a man. God luck with your search!!!!!:smile:


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Thu 12/09/10 09:00 AM

Do you think my current picture is provocative?

Because, ever since I put this picture up.... I am getting emails and nudges. ohwell


I wonder. People do have imaginations you know!!!!!

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Thu 12/09/10 08:58 AM

Urban Meyer is retiring.Florida had a crappy season this year but does anyone think they can find a coach that can take them back to where he left them at (prior to this season)?

top 3 choices right now are

Dan Mullen (Miss St)
Bob Stoopes (OK)
Bobby Petrino (Ark)


Booby Petrino ran out of the Atlanta Falcons. Such a coward. I would not care where he coaches because wherever it is, I will not be following him. If we did what he did, we would never find another job.Ugh!!!!frustrated frustrated rant rant

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Thu 12/09/10 08:53 AM



I read today that Aretha Franklin, "The Queen Of Soul" has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. They say she is resting comfortably after receiving treatments. She is one of music's iconic ladies!!!!!!


It said that Aretha has less than year to live. I think the song she did that I liked the most was the cover of "Bridge Over Troubled Water" Only Aretha could do it like that!!!

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Thu 12/09/10 08:40 AM

Not rating, more of suggestions, which you can follow or not.

Anyhoo, you may want to add more pictures. One where you're smiling or in a spontaneous show of your lighter, more candid side. Friendly looking pictures is a good subliminal invitation to your potential date. Also, details on your persona and the kind you're looking for would also be to your advantage.

Welcome to Mingle and good luck on your search! waving



I agree.:smile: :smile: waving

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Thu 12/09/10 08:37 AM



Just in the dirty clothes, need to wash them. bigsmile


Ohhh hell I have so many t-shirts that I could go a whole month and not run out lolbigsmile


Me too but some of them are grand to wear when you feel good. :banana:


Goodd Morning Mr. Jeff.:smile: :smile: waving

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Thu 12/09/10 08:35 AM
Good morning everyone!!!

Good Morning Ms. Kristi. Good morning Ms.Carole. Hope your date goes well for you.

It was 70 degrees in San Diego yesterday and they are talking about it being the same today. Gotta love this San Diego weather!!!:smile: :smile: :smile: waving waving :angel: winking

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Thu 12/09/10 08:30 AM

Good morning minglers!..I hope that you all have a great day!


Like wise to you also.:smile: :smile: waving waving

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Wed 12/08/10 07:08 PM


I read today that Aretha Franklin, "The Queen Of Soul" has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. They say she is resting comfortably after receiving treatments. She is one of music's iconic ladies!!!!!!

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Wed 12/08/10 06:51 PM

Thanks mrheartfelt. flowerforyou


You are welcome.Opinions are priceless and a rite of living in the USA.:smile: :smile: flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 12/08/10 05:08 PM


Hey guys,
Yeah, we did place a limit on first contact emails some time ago. The limit will not prevent you, from mailing those with whom you've established some rapport. This was a necessary move, in fighting spam/scam emails.


That I did not know. Thanks for bringing that to my attention. Better make some friends quick.laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 12/08/10 05:03 PM

Hey, i'm new to this. I'd like to know what people think of me so let me know winking .. .Anyone from Canada?


Don't see hobbies. You may also want to have pic of just yourself.
When you are with other people, men tend to think you are with this person you are in the pic with. JMO.

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Wed 12/08/10 04:59 PM

Every guy I have met expects me to act a certain way. Then when I don't behave they want or expect me too I am not worth the time or effort.



Labels and actions. Good ones are cool, bad ones are bad. JMO

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Wed 12/08/10 04:57 PM

Extended absences on social networking/dating sites???

I am thoroughly aware of the ever-increasing chaotic and hectic lives that we all live. Managing school, work, kids,the house, pets, volunteer work, traffic, traffic tickets, and every so often jury duty. I get all of that and I applaud everyone who is out here working hard and stressing even harder. Kudos! But what's the deal with complaining or shall I say "voicing one's disdain and frustration" with the lack of a social life or social scene in their area? Then joining a site like Mingle to meet people who will hopefully add to their lives or add a bit of spice to a mundane, humdrum existence and then don't respond to e-mails, messages, nudges or other forms of contact from various profiles. AND THEN TO TOP IT ALL OFF... these same people are away from the site for like 3 months (a bit of an exaggeration); but 3 months nonetheless and still see no fault in complaining? Come on people, for real!?!


(Just some food for thought)

Oooh, speaking of... I think I'll go and eat now!
But I shall return. Like tomorrow or next week some time, I mean I do have a life damnit!

lol



Love It!!! She spices up the place. Makes folks think!!!!!1

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Wed 12/08/10 04:49 PM

Don't think I would want someone else to pick out who they thought I would be interested in? Rather do that myself.devil


True that!!!!!!!

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Wed 12/08/10 04:48 PM

None of my mingle friends love me anymore... they don't leave me testimonials. tears

Nevermind... tongue2


You gotta be friends before you get left any testamonials.Ask for friendsand see how many you get(yuck) yuck) (giggle)laugh laugh

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Wed 12/08/10 04:39 PM

I appreciate the welcome... mom always told me not to wait for others to validate me (or in this case welcome me) lol

Thanks guys.. you're the bestest!! ;)

and to the lovely lady with the confetti and banner.... bring it out; bring it all out. Let the good times roll!!

and the person with the dancing banana... (that made my day) I will grin wickedly and humourously every time I put a banana near my face lol


Welcome!!!! You have a refreshing outlook on life. More people should come in already able to make an impact...:banana: :smile: :smile: laugh waving waving

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Wed 12/08/10 04:30 PM

It is nice. Maybe another picture that shows your face a little clearer. Your outfit will certainly get the attention of many. Good luck to you waving


Agreed. Be careful of the the people who would respond to you.Some people may get the wrong idea.

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Wed 12/08/10 04:27 PM

HI! I am so bad with socilazing. Thats why I meeting ppl in net. Think about 4years I looking for somebody in Internet, and I feel like I giving up.
I finde out about different type of dating agenies. They are quite expensive, but they acctualy will take all info about person than maybe will introduce with person who suite them better. Them also have like dating meetings and staff like that.
Does anybody tryed something like Dating Ageny??
Want to now before I will register, because its cost.. :)
Thank you!


I think dating agencies are very impersonal.They take your info and match with who "they" think you should be matched with. Personally, before I get to that point, I will stop dating altogether.

I have to say this. You need to ask yourself some very hard questions:

Are you really ready for something like this and you ready to spend this type of money?


Secondly, What can an agency do that a site like this one can't?


Could you talk about yourself in a way to draw quality people to you?


How much time and effort are you willing to put into your search?


You see, a quest like this is going to take a lot of effort and some research. You have got to be patient and not do things that you will regret in the end. Dating services are really expensive also.
Look carefully at all of your options and answer those questions and even make up some on your own. I hope you will make a sound choice and look at every avenue and continue to seek advice. Best of luck in your quest.waving waving

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Wed 12/08/10 04:15 PM


I just watched one of the many movies I own in DVD. It is called"Brian's Song".

I sit sit sometimes and go to the scene selection and only look at certain scenes that I want to see. It was in my mind somehow to watch it. I know it had played on TV. This was one movie that I could not do anything except watch.

It was very powerful and left my with a few tears(sensitivity is a powerful tool). I identified with some of it because I remember what cancer did to someone who was very close to me.

I just wanted to mention it because this reply is in the movie post and wanted some other opinions of it. Any opinions of the movie are welcome.sad sad :cry: