Community > Posts By > lookin4home
I found that more and more people ask for chat in the first message, for a date in the second, and for sex in the 3rd message (all these in less than 5 minutes). Without ask likes, how you feel or why you are in a date website. My panties color or if I'm horny is not in discussion when you are looking for a real date :) If you are looking just sex, you can ask for it, and maybe with luck you can have it. What I'm trying to say is (and need others opinions) be sincere, don't try to go into a lady panties with "I'm looking for my soul mate" if that is not your intention. ;) Says the woman looking for a far older man for friendship...as long as they have enough money to take care of her and treat her to nice meals. Yeah, I read your profile. Why not just say "I'm looking for a sugar daddy, but I'm not putting out". Well Pot, keep calling the Kettle black... |
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Topic:
Mental Illness
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Try to prepare your kids for the road. Don't try to prepare the road for your kids.
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Topic:
Jack Reacher
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Well Tom Cruise is the producer of the movie, so I'm sure that's how he got the part. I complained about the same thing before watching it. He tries too hard to pull off the role and the movie doesn't really follow the book at all, but it was ok.
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This site does not monitor
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I know a profile of a deceased gentleman that is still on this site after three years. I have contacted the site to let them know. Ladies, the site says that he last visited a month ago. Makes me wonder how long ago anyone has last visited. Oh, I also received a messages from Mingle stating the deceased man wanted to meet me??? They will never inactivate profiles on this site, because it is free. The more active profiles means it will be more appealing to potential members, and being a free website, the more people they can get means the more they can charge for advertising on their site. Thus, inactivating old profiles would be counter productive. Furthermore, setting the last visited to only over a month ago follows in the same type of manipulation. It's just good for business. Not that I'm complaining, it's free. |
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Topic:
Zimmerman Murder case
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People die every second. Shed a tear for all of them, and you'll spend your whole life crying. That's no way to live.
Did you know Trayvon Martin? Didn't think so. Are you the judge or on the jury? Didn't think so. Move on, and you may find more time to focus on those you actually know and love. Because they are going to die too, one day. |
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Why post the topic in English and the poem in French..?
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Topic:
Who am I?
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Secrets and lies
A polite disguise Wearing the mask Hides her eyes Reflected light Unrecognized Then she cries Who am I When I don't know Who I am inside |
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Topic:
NO JUDGEMENTS....BUT
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A guy sent me a friend request...which I usually accept friend requests. I mean, Who is so rich that they can afford to throw away a friend, Right? Well, I accepted him but then I noticed he is " Looking for an Intimate Encounter" Why did he contact me, Yeah..I have my scatter brain moments but I sure as hell wouldn't have forgotten to say NO Intimate Encounters! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( What's the air like up there on your high horse? You don't take the time to look at their profile before accepting but you expect them fully examine yours. I think there is a word for people like that... I sudgest you: remove the stick, take it as a compliment to your curb appeal, remove the friend, and be more selective about accepting requests from people you've never spoken to. |
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Topic:
Two friends dead
Edited by
lookin4home
on
Mon 09/24/12 09:25 PM
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Two friends dead
Both from OD Gun to my head Wishing it were me I got them hooked Only I got free Two friends dead Wishing it were me Two friends dead They died at the scene Out getting drunk Wishing it were me I could have driven instead Too caught up in the scene Two more friends dead Wishing it were me Four friends dead Thought the rule was three Blaming myself For what I didn't see Little did I know What was in store for me Four friends dead Wishing it were me Two more dead Grandfathers gripped in disease Smoking my cigarette Wishing it were me The rule held true Six divided by two is three Six friends dead Wishing it were me Six friends dead They left without me Tears in my eyes Wishing it were me Having trouble coping With all these foul deeds They're all gone now And I wish it was me |
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Hmmm...let's see. There was the girl I loved but didn't realize that's what it was at the time. There is the girl I loved, but really just liked the idea of it all, no real love there. There was the girl I thought, and fully convinced myself, I loved. Then there was the real deal, and that was it for me.
So, as for how many times we can fall in love, just the once and there is no retreat. Good or bad, she still has my heart and always will. Hell, I didn't even know I had one, until she made it beat. Now it only beats for her, and I've been dead for years. |
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Just finished A Dance with Dragons in the Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin.
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Topic:
Is it just my state?
Edited by
lookin4home
on
Sun 07/29/12 12:54 AM
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There are a lot of profiles that say the same thing.
Headline: Hi.. Interests: I'll tell you later Main: Hi.. Some are filled out a little more, but all have the headline of "Hi..". I assume they are all fake. Has anyone else noticed these? |
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Topic:
any OK ladies want to chat?
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What's an okay lady? Do you mean a lady who is decent? Someone sane? I'm confused. . And welcome. Btw :) I'm just confused a little by your question. Haha Ok is the abreviation for Oklahoma. So, it would be an Oklahoma lady. |
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Like every other emotion, it's a state of mind.
Stay away from it. Love is balanced by hate. You can't know one without the other, and everything requires balance. |
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Are you who you say you are?
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Can I just ask one thing? If someone can't trust people on a dating site, then why be on one? It doesn't make sense. It's ironic, if anything. You can't trust anyone online. I think that's like the first rule of being online. I've been bouncing around the internet for like 10yrs now. I've only found 1 person that I acctually trusted to be who they said they were, and it never mattered because I never met her. The only 2 people I've met from online, I made sure someone knew where I was going, and took personal protection. To trust them would have been naivety bordering on stupidity. You can only be betrayed by those you trust. If you don't trust them, they can't betray you. |
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Topic:
Are you who you say you are?
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Such a funny topic.
I am always me even when I'm not playing the part. The beauty I, like a lot of people, find in the internet is I don't have to be me. I have all sorts of names out there. They are characters, but they all represent a side of my personality. The best characters are the ones I don't get to play in real life. I remember a saying from sociology "I am, what I think, you think I am". In real life there are expectations of how you should act and preconcieved ideas of who you are. Online, no one knows who I am. So, I can be whoever I want. People get attached to characters all the time, tv, movies, books, ect. My characters are real to the same extent. I'm sure people will think I'm weird or wrong, but I don't really care. It's just entertainment to me, and since I'll never meet any of them, it's simply entertainment for them too. So, am I me? or a character of me? You'll never know. |
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Creepy...
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Just lookin 4 home.
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Topic:
Exclusive?
Edited by
lookin4home
on
Wed 04/18/12 02:35 PM
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When does something become exclusive? How do you know? Is there an assumption or is it something to be discussed and mutually agreed upon? If you are 'dating' someone, do you know or care whether they are also dating others? would it cause jealousy or problems if someone that was 'dating' you, that you were developing feelings for, was dating others as well? How would you discuss it,, ,,,how would you bring it up? ,,,I imagine I will have to tackle dating eventually, but its new to me because I Was always someones 'wife' and the commitment is important to me. Just looking for some opinions and I know this is where to find them....lol Good questions. I've wondered this myself. I'll just have to give you my view, I don't know how it works with others. In the world of internet dating, I don't mind if someone is testing the waters with multiple people. For me, even if I'm talking to 3 girls at once, one will stick out more than the rest. Once that happens, I tend to focus more on her and let the others slowly fade out. If I'm really that interested, I will become exclusive on my own. By the time of a 3rd date I expect them to have made the same decision and either let me fade out or be exclusive. If they haven't made a decision by then, I assume they aren't that interested. Edit: This is all based on lack of sexual relations. Once you hit that point you should already be exclusive, imo. |
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Topic:
Regrets
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I regret my first breath, every one since, only brings me closer to death.
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