21 with 2 jobs and your own place. You got your chit together and that is something ALL women admire and desire. Dont look at it like: "can I find a woman who will like a guy like me?"

Look at it like: "Can I find a woman, WORTHY of me."


Oh and dont worry about your ex....worry about when her life starts to go bad and she suddenly pops up saying how she missed you and wants to get back together.

I was gonna ask her to marry me!

Shoot, I was thinking: get while the getting is good!!

Thanks It has taken time for me to get like this. Time and love lost. I use to be the type who if we were watching the Flintstones, Id say: You want to fu** Barney Rubble, dont you!?!

I'm the jealous type. Not to the point where a woman cant have male friends or even comment on how hot another man is.


Beyond that, I dont share and I dont stray.


I'm also paranoid about std's. Condoms are not 100% protection. I'm the type who, if I could have it this way, would have my next sexual partner as my permament partner.

I know you might not want my advice. Ok I KNOW you dont.

Beyond the "hes gonna leave you" warning signs another question is:

Why doesnt he want to share his problems with you?


For me.. The only reason I would say that is if I didnt think I could sustain the relationship. Like if I was worried about money or if I didnt think I could get along with your family. Im the worrying type. I think like that, maybe your SO doesnt.


Botton line; ask him! press him for a least a hint or something.


I can understand a person getting mad or upset and not wanting to talk about something at that moment. But if he cant open up, then well... not good.

Hey man, you're suppost to not call people names on here!

With your sunny personality, I'm sure you are well on your way to getting laid.



"Man some of you get chicks and guys as well have...."


WTF is get chicks?

"have more than 10,000 forum post"

It's posts. POSTS as in more than one...

suppost Really? You're serious?


I thought you were being a jerk at first but then I realized:

You dont like posts because they contain words and grammar.

Very nice profile.

You are sexually attractive and really cool.

I dont know which one for sure because the Bible doesnt say. But Cain married (aka had sex and had children) with either a sister or a niece.

I dont mind the friend zone.

If during this time she meets someone else and gets serious, then oh well.

I'd have a room filled with Vulcan women going through the pon farr at the same time.

I have only dated a woman 1 year older and the last two were 7 years younger. Those last two were born a day apart. Wow, that just dawned on me..

At 38, I admit that I am immature and a bit of a social misfit. Thats just how I perceive myself. With that being said, I dont see some 21 year old being on the same maturity level as me. She might be smarter, she might be wise beyond her years. But I feel that nothing takes the place of experience and time. And its really not an issue for me. Not a lot of 21 year olds trying to get at me

In general I have a 10 year rule, up or down. I try to be thoughtful and wise, etc. But let me be honest. She could be 18 or 50+ and if she is hot and has a nice personality, Im gonna kick my "age rule" to the curb in a heartbeat.

Hell, Im 6th cousin with most of you I'm sure, lol. I think (not saying who) that many people just cant handle a black man in the white house. I know people are gonna say no no no to that statement, because racisim doesnt exsist anymore, right?

I like GH method of trying to debunk claims instead of trying to act like know it alls and say that every light or noise is a ghost. To me, it gives more credibility to when they do find something.

Oh and Steve is a tool. "Im afraid to fly, waaaaahhhh"

I dont have the grey matter to reply to all that you said, but I want to touch on a couple points you made.

Hell is really being apart from GOD for eternity. Not so much burning forever. But being alone forever. Being in a void. I understand your thought process when you say that(Im para phrasing you, bear with me please) a loving GOD would not do this. I feel that you are missing the "other side of that coin" Being that GOD came to earth in human form, Jesus, to pay a price in blood. He personally came into the mortal coil to save us from hell. It's like he is reaching out his hand to save us. Wheither or not we take his hand is up to us. So you are right.. God is not gonna leave you hanging. He is also not gonna force you to accept his gift of salvation. Free will in full effect.

Next up: Killing in the name of GOD. You are right. Killing people isnt the best way to share the love of Christ. The men who did this were wrong. Plain and simple. Jesus never killed anyone. And when GOD had people put to death in the old times, that was GOD's will. Now why did GOD have poeple killed in another can of worms, that Im not going into. My point is that the crusaders and puritains who were killing heathens and burning(so called) witches were twisting GOD's word in order to convert them. Again I will say.. they were wrong to do that.

Buddha and Mohammed, just to name a couple very spiritual and wise men; never claimed to be GOD. Because they were wise and knew that they were not. If you say that Buddha or anyone taught the same as Jesus before he was alive; you are missing the fact that Jesus is GOD. His "teachings" are eternal as he is. Jesus stated: "I am the way, the truth and the light, no man (or woman) comes to the Father except through me" He said it! "I am GOD" and yes to say that is blasphamy unless....the one saying it is GOD. That why the religious leaders flipped their lids when he said that. There hearts were hard (aka closed minds) and they could not perceive who he was.

Of course all that I say is based on the Bible. If a person believes that the Bible is flawed or written by men with no help from GOD, then my points are moot.

Anyway... There is is.

Adventure, you are good man. I will try my best to respond to your comment. I admit that you make real good point. "We shall make them in our image" My first thought is who is "our" The word suggests more than one person. Does GOD mean our (us/we) as in GOD Son, Holy Spirit? Or us as in GOD and the Angels? Anyway.. "In our image." Two arms, leggs, humanoid kind of image? Or the capacity to love and reason image? I could have a wax image of me made and it would look very much like me...but would not be me. In an honest attempt to reply to your statement. I dont think the statement GOD made is implying that he is making fellow GOD's or copies of himself. I beleive that it is implying that he made us with the capacity to reason, love...heck even get angry when something pisses us off. So theres my reply.

I do too. Every time I see that show. Glad to know I'm not the only one. Ive only been on mingle for a week, I dont know you but Ive seen enough of your posts to assume you would not be the type to be moved by a show like that. Goes to show, you cant judge a book by its cover.

Master Of Puppets

Metallica

Living in the San Francisco Bay Area has enabled me to experience many different types of people and influences from different cultures. I am lucky to live in such a culturally diverse area. My ex wife is Black. My ex gf before her was Mexican.

See how they run like pigs from a gun, see how they fly!

I'm crying..

The Beatles