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As a mother of a soldier in Iraq and friends to many...I surely hope these pics do not get out. Our soldiers will be in much peril over these. It will outrage the masses as well as the soldiers there. The killing will start up again in mass.
KEEP THOSE PICS RIGHT WHERE THEY ARE until our people come home!! Kat |
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Being a lesbian can suck
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Your letter was well written and thought out. It had feeling and gut. Wouldn't it have been nice if you could tell him those things to his face before leaving. Without interruption.
The lives we live are afterall ours. We make a choice to be who we are. The way we live. We may not have a choice in our sexuality...but what is that anyway? Sexuality. A bomb such as yours...detonated for the first time....will of course bring with it fear and guilt, and remorse. A parent will find it difficult to understand or even imagine what they did wrong or how to change it. As...that is how we as ignorant people will percieve ourselves through our childrens failings...shortcomings...achievments, etc etc. An anger may converge and play itself out or not. As a parent...I myself would have been overcome with anger, guilt, all the things I could not gather up and untangle. It would have taken me years to come to grips with it. Thinking, thinking, and rethinking. Wondering and pondering and figuring out what it is really. Coming to terms with the years I spent thinking one thing and now being told my whole life watching you grow up wasn't at all what I thought it would be. Why...how...did I miss something? Was I so blind? How could he she do this to me?? Do you hate me that much? What am I gonna tell people? How is this gonna affect me? What about grandchildren? My dreams? My dreams for you? What am I gonna do? Me me me me me me me...that"s what it boils down to. Me. Now...when the "me" finds peace and comes to terms with its'self....and learns that my childs life is their own and they will live what they know or feel is right for them...maybe then...I will capture and regain my unconditional parental love. Accept... that there just may have been something I could not put my finger on all those times I was saying you could do better. Understanding that I was really saying "I could have done better"...laying it on you, because it is too late for me. Love is blind you know...it sees what it wants to see. Once the eyes are opened and the mind set free...we find that our norm is not all norm. Seeing that there is indeed colors...gray areas are real..black and white is not all there is. One of the most beautiful things to witness is a rainbow in its full spectrum......and the people who love it, enjoy the beauty of it's range. The remarkable clarity and the vividness...the openess to what it means. The pure love of the rainbow just because, "it is". Give it time. As time is what you also need. Do you understand what I am trying to say? Kat |
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These threads like this remind me of something;=====
==================================================== A man was being tailgated by a stressed out woman on a busy boulevard. Suddenly, the light turned yellow, just in front of him. He did the right thing, stopping at the crosswalk, even though he could have beaten the red light by accelerating through the intersection. The tailgating woman was furious and honked her horn, screaming in frustration, as she missed her chance to get through the intersection, dropping her cell phone and makeup. As she was still in mid-rant, she heard a tap on her window and looked up into the face of a very serious police officer The officer ordered her to exit her car with her hands up. He took her to the police station where she was searched, fingerprinted, photographed, and placed in a holding cell. After a couple of hours, a policeman approached the cell and opened the door. She was escorted back to the booking desk where the arresting officer was waiting with her personal effects. He said, 'I'm very sorry for this mistake. You see, I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn, flipping off the guy in front of you, and cussing a blue streak at him.' I noticed the 'What Would Jesus Do' bumper sticker, the 'Choose Life' license plate holder, the 'Follow Me to Sunday-School' bumper sticker, and the chrome-plated Christian fish emblem on the trunk; naturally...I assumed you had stolen the car.' This is what so many politicians and so called christians act like. Wanna be do-gooders with big mouths and big action, heart excluded. Kat |
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This is a clear cut case of how we have relaxed too many standards in our education. F**kn liberals always trying to shove rainbows in our faces! Stupid jerks have no idea that in itself breeds resentment and loathing! it is unfair to eh homosexual community who tries to live in peace with us vs. the ones trying to indoctrinate everyone to their worldly views. Then again one of Obama's advisers is a KNOWN pedophile and advocate of Pedophilia. Soooooooooo now what? You might want to check into McCains people too. Known pedophiles. Check it out. Kat |
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Sun 05/10/09 11:29 AM
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Sat 05/09/09 10:26 PM
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Most of these legal and economic benefits cannot be privately arranged or contracted for. For example, absent a legal (or civil) marriage, there is no guaranteed joint responsibility to the partner and to third parties (including children) in such areas as child support, debts to creditors, taxes, etc. In addition, private employers and institutions often give other economic privileges and other benefits (special rates or memberships) only to married couples. And, of course, when people cannot marry, they are denied all the emotional and social benefits and responsibilities of marriage as well. Like I said winx, benefits! Tax breaks which I think are discriminatory, and legal and moral responsibility of continued child support. which is basically what this says, only to married couples. And, of course, when people cannot marry, they are denied all the emotional and social benefits and responsibilities of marriage as well. You cant get legal financial benefits from the gov or lay claim in a court of law unless your married or have children. So therin lie the cries of the gay couples that have no choices. Kat |
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The point of the state being too envolved is exactly right. They use it for an overall money maker. That is why they need you to register and be licensed. Keeping track is much easier that way. Plus..they want to make sure you are not closely related. Even that is changing.
Kat |
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Well, wiccans can be wrong too. The balance has been waaaay off for a while now. lol
Kat |
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I found this: On the order of 1,400 legal rights are conferred upon married couples in the U.S. Typically these are composed of about 400 state benefits and over 1,000 federal benefits. Among them are the rights to: +joint parenting; +joint adoption; +joint foster care, custody, and visitation (including non-biological parents); +status as next-of-kin for hospital visits and medical decisions where one partner is too ill to be competent; +joint insurance policies for home, auto and health; +dissolution and divorce protections such as community property and child support; +immigration and residency for partners from other countries; +inheritance automatically in the absence of a will; +joint leases with automatic renewal rights in the event one partner dies or leaves the house or apartment; +inheritance of jointly-owned real and personal property through the right of survivorship (which avoids the time and expense and taxes in probate); +benefits such as annuities, pension plans, Social Security, and Medicare; +spousal exemptions to property tax increases upon the death of one partner who is a co-owner of the home; +veterans' discounts on medical care, education, and home loans; joint filing of tax returns; +joint filing of customs claims when traveling; +wrongful death benefits for a surviving partner and children; +bereavement or sick leave to care for a partner or child; +decision-making power with respect to whether a deceased partner will be cremated or not and where to bury him or her; +crime victims' recovery benefits; +loss of consortium tort benefits; +domestic violence protection orders; +judicial protections and evidentiary immunity; +and more.... Most of these legal and economic benefits cannot be privately arranged or contracted for. For example, absent a legal (or civil) marriage, there is no guaranteed joint responsibility to the partner and to third parties (including children) in such areas as child support, debts to creditors, taxes, etc. In addition, private employers and institutions often give other economic privileges and other benefits (special rates or memberships) only to married couples. And, of course, when people cannot marry, they are denied all the emotional and social benefits and responsibilities of marriage as well. I'm for marriage for other reasons too - emotional and societal. Most of these claims can be overcome by fore thought and preparation. Get a power of attorney before actually in need of it. Adoption? Kinda pointless when one chooses a lifestyle that cant possibly produce offspring. Pointless? Hypocritical to nature? Hellooo...Fanta....I have family that have never had children. They couldn't. Never stopped them from marrying...several times.lol Kat |
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I have met a lot of atheist in my time and when ever it comes to gays I have yet to hear a atheist muster any support what so ever for them.Many times they have been down right hostle towards them.I would say you would probably get the least support for gay issues from a atheist. Reeeeally??? There are plenty of athiest here in this forum. I am quite sure most have stood up for them. At least here. Kat |
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Hi Di. Been missin you girl. Waving frantically.
kat |
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Sat 05/09/09 10:03 PM
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Redykeulous...not sure why you addressed me when you quoted fanta....BUT...I know about history and I know there are Christians that are against that....I never said there wasn't. I wasn't talking about how it all got started...I'm talking about present day. there are Christians that have no problem with it as well. there are other religions and athiest that don't agree with same sex marriage either. There are plenty of people that don't believe in marriage period. Gay or otherwise. Fear leads most to fight. (not pointing this at you yellowrose) Your post was handy. Kat |
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Hmmm. I always thought that me being in a locker room protects the girl from seeing me and losing her control. If she wants to try her luck, she's welcome to take a look, any day she decides to enter my locker room. What's the big deal? Maybe when your 8 year old in undressing alone in her locker room and some cross dressing pervert removes all of his clothes and walks around nude. Now that was just uncalled for. Most kids can tell you stories of seeing their dads and moms naked. Not to mention seeing them having sex. Cross dressing perverts??? Perverts come in all makes and models. What does a female have that a cross dresser wants to see? How to applie makeup? Boobs? He would most likely say "yuk" and turn away quickly. Kat |
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It's crazy how, most of the people I know are either divorced or going through divorce. Marriage scares the hell out of me. My point exactly...why worry about others gatting married when most can't even get it right? Marriage scares the hell out of me as well. It will be hard finding someone to fill the shoes of the wonderful two husbands I had. Then there is the guy that made me fear it. Not to mention the reality of so many that take it for granted. Or use it for a means. If gay people want to marry...then there will be equal hell for all. Because if it doen't work out...they will have the same crap to go through as straight people. Marriage isn't fair. Just ask most women that lose it all. Then just ask any man that has lost it all. I am beginning to talk myself out of liking marriage. Damn. Kat |
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2.)They demand we accept their lifestyle.Never in our countries history has such a group of people demanded that we accept every thing they do from sexual education to having the right to go in what ever locker room they choose depending on what sex they want to be that day. =========================
========================================= Oh yeah??? Ever sit down and talk with an American Indian?? One that has memories and tales from their tribal fathers and mothers? Kat |
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Kat says, I have used this several times. Fanta says, GET OUT OF MY HEAD WOMEN!!!! 
 
Kat |
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It is a sad statement when smoking pot is the only way to relax. The real world isn't so bad. After I quit staying high...I rather enjoy it.
Kat |
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Sat 05/09/09 09:00 PM
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Draggoness, That still doesn't show how heterosexuals EARNED their right to marry legally. There was a time when legally married meant very little, esp for the women. It probably started out meaning, legally in the eyes and laws of god. Then became a way for a man to lay claim to the women,(legally) and then their children. Probably kept down on men killing men and the whole drag'em by the hair caveman mentality. Women fought for what it means today. At one time women could not own land. Then as they gained rights, women would use the idea of legality to gain benefits from the Gov. such as, tax-breaks, SSI if the man died, rights to property, and continued responsibility for child support. It's really hard to say where the Gov became involved. Little by little????? When did it change from being married in a church (in god's house) to being something done by a justice of the peace? In the eye's and laws of the Catholic Church, divorce is still not recognized. In society it is, but if you are Catholic, the church will not remarry you! One time only! I have used this several times. It is what it is. It is government. Marriage used to be between a man and a woman because it gave him ownership. You are right. She was as a cow is to a farmer. Property. Marriage back when was not we think. Marriage can be as simple as jumping over a broomstick. A woman used to couldn't marry til she could come to the marriage with a dowry or something of value that the man wanted, could use, or liked. Or...she could marry without her consent simply because he wanted her for his, or her family needed money. So....she was sold off to some old geezer. Some as early as 12. Kat |
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Because people believe marriage is for a man and a woman and not two gay guys or two gay girls.They don't want something sacred to turn into something they feel is being taken over by force by a bunch of people who could care less about how they feel about the issue. ==========================
================================= Plenty of people do not believe marriage is sacred. Just look at the divorce rate. People get married for lust and convenience. Just look at the peole that would rather live "in sin" before marriage if at all. Straight people it seems would rather overlook marriage. Rarely anymore do marriages stay solid. Soo...let gays get married...what is it going to hurt? Is someone afraid they will make straights look bad? If straight people can't make it work no one should? Do straight people stay in with the writings of the bible? If you are going to say sacred it implies biblical. Do straights stay celebate before marriage? Do they wait for "the one"? No...they do not for the most part. They have sex with many and keep going til they find someone that satifies a need or a want. At least for awhile. Kat |
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what? 1. trisexual One who is attracted to men, women, and horses. Often a person who has failed with both genders opts to be a trisexual so that they can make love to a horse while also being able to date if the time ever comes. Bestiality and bisexuality in one ugly mesh. Trisexual: I loves my man. I loves my woo-man. I loves my horse. this has to be a joke. WHAAAAAAT!!!? A frickin horse!? I know about the donkey thing in Mexico...but I thought that was just show for money. OUCHHHHHH!!!!! Men are bad enough...some even worse...but a HORSE??? Great Danes?? Jeeeze Louise....what is happening to this world?? Kat |
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