Yes I know for a fact she was at Denny's, if she was to cheat she would definitely not do it around people she worked with, as this was my former place of work , many of my former coworkers (friends)seen them there together and seen them leave in separate vehicles which matched up with time she arrived home we stayed over at each other places and as we both had keys to each others apartments, I was at her apartment when she arrived home which was common for us, I was not being controlling by escorting her home, my ex was a big ol scardy cat it was her wish for me to meet her at work as we sometimes went out and had breakfast together, I had no issues with her visiting male friend as he was a close friend of her brothers, from a very religious family, the issue I had was she wouldn't admit to violating boundaries we had both set, I guess the boundaries were mostly for me though and not her

Yeah this was always an issue with us, her controlling behavior, other then that she was a really moral and loving individual, she kind of spoiled me rotten and at the time I didn't recognize this as another way she was attempting to control me, I do believe when we first started dating she was under the assumption that I was an easy pushover, she misunderstood me to be an easy person to control, in which later she found out different, I admit that I am a little stubborn, (Irish you know)

What do you think of your significant other having close friends of the opposite sex, I myself have no problem with it, as long as boundaries have been agreed upon and put in place by both parties.

My ex and several of my former girlfriend's had male friends, some were my friends as well, the reason I brought this up me and my ex have reconnected recently via Facebook and seem to forming an online friendship, while we were chatting my ex brought a few scenarios up in our past where I was accused of jealousy over her male friends, namely only 2 of her friends, I felt at the time they had violated their boundaries, my ex worked late hours then and wouldn't get off work until sometimes 3:00 am, most times I would meet her at her work (my former work)to make certain she got home safely.

There was an instance where I couldn't meet her, and she decided to have breakfast at Denny's with this male friend, whom was a very old friend of her families, even though I trusted them both and it never even entered my mind that anything was going on between them, what made me upset was 1st she didn't inform me of this until about a week later, of coarse I wasn't expecting her to ask my permission, it's just that we had both agreed on a set of boundaries for our respective opposite sex friends, one of which was no late nights without informing the other partner.

In another case she wound up being stalked by this other male friend, which I had previously warned her about, she finally asked me to intercede on her behalf, in which I had to really threaten this guy, he got the message and my girlfriend apologized for not listening to me, my girlfriend was a little on the naive side when it came to men.

So to wrap this up I feel no one has the right to tell another whom they can be friends with, but both partners and friends alike should except and understand that boundaries are needed.

Oh if the roles had been reversed my ex would have killed me, sometimes that woman scared the crap out of me, full blooded Italian. I love the Latin girls, Lol.

Internet love = fantasy, only my opinion, since men are more visual and physically oriented, thin k it would be harder for us without seeing the person face to face.

my ex made a lot more then me, never was an issue, however I do insist on paying for things, think that's what a gentleman should do.

FYI not my home, not my drapes.

Sometimes I really hate facebook

Don't think i will respond, her son has been in and out of trouble with the law, just way to much drama for me

Her issues were with a teenage son, there was no other person involved

Anyone in any committed relationship, is cheating if they are actively searching for another partner, you don't have to physically cheat to be a cheater, only to have the intent to cheat.

Anyone else here ever been in an on again/off again relationship, I had been in one for about 3 years with a woman from my former work place, she has recently messaged me on Facebook, not sure what to do as I had very intense feelings for this woman, don't want to get back on the merry-go-around we were in before, but maybe things have changed, I still think about this woman a lot, but I was really hurt last time we broke up, what should I do.

Just to be clear, no wheres in my post had I stated that women have more accidents then men, I still believe women take a lot more chances when driving, which is not entirely their fault, especially with young children on board, women by nature are multitaskers, why would that change simply because they are driving 4,000 pounds of steel, but in their defense women seem more then capable of doing several tasks at one time, but they should't be doing it on the road, and yes I do agree with the statement that more (young) men have accidents then their younger opposites.

My apologies to all the female board members, just having a bad day, but I feel I have just cause, 3 accidents one on a motorcycle that nearly crippled me, one vehicle accident that totaled my car, another vehicle accident that tore my cars front end off, were all caused by females, and to top it all off in all 3 instances the perpetrators insisted I was at fault, even though I had witnesses in all 3 accidents, women are given much more lead way then men in society, which every guy knows or has been a victim of this double stranded oh in all 3 cases, the court gave them a slap on the wrist compared to a man, doubled standards in society is a fact, granted there are instances where a male will benefit as well in most cases this happens in the work place usually involving disparities in pay and sexual harassment.

Sorry started getting busy here at work, here is just one hyperlink, there are many others though, granted in polls as far as driving safety males and females rank about even, men just slightly higher, I do think women take more chances when driving, most men will give a female driver right of way as per being a gentleman, I always do this when I am able too distinguish a female driver, seriously DoDo are you one of those feminine males.

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Seriously will you all please stop texting while you are driving and put your make-up on at home, oh one other thing you cut me off, I didn't cut you off, so don't be flashing the bird cause I honked my horn at you, ok that was my rant for the day, sorry if you find offense with this post, a recent poll shows over half the US female population apply make-up while driving, even with young children in the vehicle.

Had such a horrible drive to work this morning and instances like this only compound it.

I think we can love more then one person at a time, after all aren't we suppose to love others, it is also possible to be in love with more then one person at a time, however we must keep in mind the person we have chosen to be with needs to be put first, it's OK to have feelings for another that is not your partner, however it is not OK to act on those feelings, we can't always control how we love others.

Ok I know this topic has been done to death, but lets take a moment to examine ones physical and mental reactions to the emotion we call Love.

When we are in love with someone there are chemical reactions activating in the brain such as Pheromones adrenaline and hormones, these chemical reactions can occur when one person is both sexually and emotionally attracted to another individual, first of all we are all individuals we all have different attractions, for instance by smell, I believe smell or scent is a major aspect of attraction as the body is releasing pheromones, scent plays a major role in most mammals and primates (human) when two people have compatible body chemistry it will induce an immediate attraction.

But being that we are the higher primates, scent may be all well and good for lower primates, but humans are more complex animals, there is also the mental factor involved in attraction or our analytical side, where one woman finds attraction in the quiet brooding type male, another may be attracted to a more boisterous man, there is also intellectual capability, when we communicate on an intellectual level it will create a mental bond between partners, after all we can't spend our whole relationship in the bedroom (even though a lot of us men would prefer this) lool, it has also been proven over a period of time all of these brain chemicals lower or disappear entirely.

However I also believe one can make themselves attracted to an individual even when these chemical reactions are not evident at first, attraction can also occur from familiarity, such in the case of friends of the opposite sex finding their selves attracted to one another.

So we are all different, the same rules of attraction don't apply to every man and woman, since there are many factors involved in attraction for each individual this is why (and I know I probably will get bashed for this)I don't believe in soul mates. humans are just to complex of a specious.

Mine was considerate, extremely moral, beautiful, fantastic cook.

I think a lot of people stay in relationships they are in out of a sense of duty. especially if kids are involved or they simply don't want to hurt their partners, my own personal opinion honesty is always the best policy, if you are no longer in love with your partner it is better to set them frees to find somebody else, we all have had break-ups in our lives sometimes we initiate it sometimes are partners, the very worse thing one person can do to the other person is cheat, cheating is unacceptable period

Have always had a very hyper sex drive, statistically my sex drive should be very low, since I am over 50 and not in the best shape, I do think a sex drive can be in the genes as my father was still active on into his 90's (no lie) he was however always in peak physical condition.

I also believe as I've always been told sex is mainly in the mind, having a lot of self confidence about oneself, also I have only had 2 instances where I was unable to perform, once when I was really, really drunk the 2nd instance my mom had recently passed away'

When my ex and I were together we were having relations almost everyday, I think she did it mostly for me though, my sex drive has always been much higher then any woman I have dated, not bragging here just stating a fact, it can be both a curse or a gift, I am very thankful that at my age I still have a healthy sex drive. oh it might take a little longer for my engine to warm up these days but hey that leaves a whole lot of time for more foreplay.