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ok you invaded her privacy you screwed up, move on.
on the other hand she's wanting to get back with her ex, she screwed up, move on. basically move on, it's not worth it at all. |
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You might be young but ummmmmm I think because the relationship was so new she may not be finished with her ex. And she may have been planning to see him. Take it easy dude, you are young and you are gonna get your feelins hurt sometimes. Plus if you are with someone and you dont trust them you are probally right. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what? It's probally a duck. Hang in there buddy were pullin for you.
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You might be young but ummmmmm I think because the relationship was so new she may not be finished with her ex. And she may have been planning to see him. Take it easy dude, you are young and you are gonna get your feelins hurt sometimes. Plus if you are with someone and you dont trust them you are probally right. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what? It's probally a duck. Hang in there buddy were pullin for you.
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Edited by
uk1971
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Tue 03/04/08 07:38 PM
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You lied and decieved her, invaded her privacy and you expect sympathy.
Sorry my friend, but that's one thing that is a definite No No. If she dumps you or doesn't want anything else to do with you, then I'm afraid you've only brought it on yourself. If she's forgiving and sympathatic to you, and doesn't get back with her ex, then you may stand a chance. I think she'd find it very hard to trust you though. As you say. you're young. In future, don't go prying into things that may backfire on you. |
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A few people know about what I've said lately about what's been happening with me and my girlfriend, but I haven't told the entire truth. I need someone's help, though I know I don't deserve it, I would like somebody to open their heart and help me...here's what happened... My girlfriend's phone has been messing up, so she says, so I've been emailing her and she's emailed back sometimes. I sent her an email and after awhile I was thinking she wasn't getting them (here's where I made the mistake of a lifetime) so I logged into her email to see if she got them (first bad move). She did... Than, for some divine or hellashis reason I checked the emails she's sent...(Lord forgive me for my foolishness) and there I found one saying to her ex-bf "I want to spend more time with you and possibly start a relationship" -- she sent it Thursday Night. She called me that night and I confronted her about it (of course she was mad as hell about what I did) and she kept throwing it back in my face saying she may or may not have sent it. I basically begged for forgiveness, and after awhile she just said call me in a few days. Well, today (that happened last night) she called me, and she said she was thinking about me all day and wanted to talk to me. We talked for awhile, than talked again earlier tonight. After awhile she got mad again and hung up on me. I was so mad I texted her saying we were done, than she calls me back and says she's crying because she never planned on breaking up with me, even though she threatened 3 times to do it last night. Than we kept talking and I again begged her to let me stay, and after awhile she said we are seperated but not broken up, and 1 week from today we will talk again....that's where we are now. I find out the reason she's been upset is she feels I've been smothering her and I realize now I have been, but it's my first relationship, I don't know what the hell I'm doing. This is my first relationship ever, and I am as inexperienced as anybody can be. I am young and so God damn stupid. I know what I did was bad, very very bad, and I deceited and disrespected her so much by doing it, but the things I found out are almost directly saying she had plans to cheat on me and that she was seeing other guys for at least a few weeks. I am so f*cked up over this I'm physically ill now...we've only been together 2 months but to me it's been like 2 years... Please...somebody help me...please... I'm so sorry............ Yes, what you did was wrong, but it was also understandable. I suspectt that the real reason she was upset had to do with her being caught. Do yourself a favor and move on. She is bad news. She will just keep playing you for a fool. If she truly loved you, she would not be playing these games. Good luck and Take Care, Alexia. |
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True, but perhaps he had reason to. i mean, she was basically cheating on the poor fellow! I say you call bullshxt on that relationship, and yew gtfo of there.. I mean really. You truly can do better than that. It feels like a long time, but the longer you stay wrapped up in her lies, the worse you'll become. Promise. *hug* It's quite unfortunate, however.. I'm not making excuses for what I did, I know how bad what I did was, that's not what I'm saying...I'm just trying to get somebody to understand this, not to critcize me for being imperfect. God forbid we are all human huh? I admire the fact that you desire to right a wrong, learn and grow. That is admirable. |
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i didnt even read your entire whine...i mean come on...you invaded her privacy and you deserve what you get.... 
It's not a whine, it's me telling what happened. Everybody makes mistakes, some people make worse ones than others. you just told everyone that you are a stalker saying that doesnt help |
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Well it was wrong of you to peek in her mail and read it.
It is also wrong of her to be talking to her ex behind your back. Perhaps you both should take a step back and look at the relationship between you. Sometimes things dont work out. If you are having probblems being possesive- you may need some professional help. Maybe counseling. There is a fine line between love and being possesive sometimes. JMO |
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every1 makes mistakes
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You lied and decieved her, invaded her privacy I thought you were going to make a joke out of this.........  You always have one
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You should just broke it off after you read that e-mail, without telling her why, gotta learn to play mind games
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Well it was wrong of you to peek in her mail and read it. It is also wrong of her to be talking to her ex behind your back. Perhaps you both should take a step back and look at the relationship between you. Sometimes things dont work out. If you are having probblems being possesive- you may need some professional help. Maybe counseling. There is a fine line between love and being possesive sometimes. JMO I don't mean possessive, I was always wanting to be around her and saying I wanted to spend alot more time with her, not trying to control her. |
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i didnt even read your entire whine...i mean come on...you invaded her privacy and you deserve what you get....
It's not a whine, it's me telling what happened. Everybody makes mistakes, some people make worse ones than others. you just told everyone that you are a stalker saying that doesnt help everyone does make mistakes and the truth hurts...be a big boy and deal with it...actions have consequences for everything good or bad.... |
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what peachie said!
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then take care of your own mistakes and leave his alone
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i didnt even read your entire whine...i mean come on...you invaded her privacy and you deserve what you get....
It's not a whine, it's me telling what happened. Everybody makes mistakes, some people make worse ones than others. you just told everyone that you are a stalker saying that doesnt help everyone does make mistakes and the truth hurts...be a big boy and deal with it...actions have consequences for everything good or bad.... I'm sorry I'm not good enough for you, I wish I was as perfect and great as you are. |
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then take care of your own mistakes and leave his alone Isn't he the one who posted asking for people to discuss his mistakes?? |
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then take care of your own mistakes and leave his alone Isn't he the one who posted asking for people to discuss his mistakes?? I'm asking for help as to what to do because I have no experience so i don't know what to do. I don't need help with my mistake, I know what I did and how bad it was. |
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I was talking to some1 else
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hell i say invite your friends over and ,invite some girls over and party like a rock star ....
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