he was the one asking for advice...whiners never learn

ADVICE not "you're a stalker" -- you can say how you feel, but that doesn't mean you can't add something to help me. I made a big ass mistake, do I deserve to be castrated for it?

man, after all the information you learned? why are you still trying to be with her? apparently shes not ready for anythign like that. she snet a message to her ex talking about she wants to have a relationship with him again? wow, its time to leave it alone. go on your way ma,. its not worht the problems. its just leading up to her cheating on you.

ok one, ignore these people trying to tell you what a horrible person you are and listen up, if she gave you her email passwod then she can't say **** about invading her privacy, she practically handed it over on a silver platter, and I understand the whole first relationship **** up, but if you guys still have feelings for each other have a night where you guys order pizza or something and talk it out, you will get throught this, I have faith in you, everyone ****s up every once in a while, it's how you dig yourself out of the hole that fixes the situation.

You don't want help, dude....you obviously want attention and you got it. Don't you have someone's email to hack?

wah wah wah.....i never said that....people who do wrong never feel good about themselfs...my point already made...i never said i was perfect and dont claim to be but i can guarantee you im not going to whine and ask for help when im in the wrong as well as my ex....dont invade peoples privacy....

What if you had a son he did what I did...what would you do than huh?

right on gurl

Thanks for the help, I hope you enjoy being such a great member of society.

all right

well my son is six and id hope to god hes not doing what you did..but if he did i would whip his ass

My 2 cents...
Since you obviously knew her email account info, which is something she must have allowed you to have, and being that you behaved altruisticly in wanting to solve a problem, you have nothing to feel badly about for your actions except that you could have thought to ask her before checking out the problem you thought she had. Had she been honest with you that she felt smothered before this came about, perhaps you two could have come to adjust the boundaries of the relationship. This reflects on her character more than yours. You are new at relationships, but she had relationship experience and did you this way. Unfortunate situation, but at least you got to see her character, or lack thereof, early inyo it. What's she going to do any time you hit a snag??? Run back to the old BF or find another... Better off to accidentally find out the truth than keep being manipulated and misled.

what the hell you are such an a ss seriously I know how this is, he has fu cked up and he needs help on how to deal with the situation, I do this too! Gosh. Seriously honey ignore them, I'm pretty sure you know what to do, you're just reluctant cuz you don't know if it's the right thing to do.

and
even if she didnt have her phone to call you atleast once
ther was always someone eles phone she could have borrowed or hey remember pay phones??
if she cared she would have called you and you looking at her emails was the best excuse she could use to brake up with you or string you along till she finds out if the ex wants her back or it works out again for them

I agree with alexiateigra......



You need to find someone that is going to care for you as much as you do for them. Don't waste anymore time, move on.

The relationship is practically over. There are some major trust issue now that are probably insurmountable.

I agree whole heartedly thanks for saying the same thing I did.

im not an ass....im honest...the truth hurts...but hell i see we have alot of potential hackers who agree with what he did...yay for privacy invaders...NOT!!!!

You can go fly a kite, tell me how the wind is hunny.

well hate to say it but by the sounds of it it has been dealt with...it happened, ppl got mad, and you broke up, the end

now you learned a lesson so in the next relationship you will be wiser