Topic: Do cute guys really like big girls?
celtic_kitten's photo
Tue 02/26/08 10:41 AM



I saw a Tyra Banks episode today that asked this very question:..The over all answer was NO..They don't like big girls..They just use them for sex until a tiny girl comes along that they can have a REAL relationship with..jerks!


A lot will use anyone of anything ... I think it depends on the guy

It's not just the bigger girls that they don't like either..its anything out of the norm or that may complicate or change their lives.


suddenly makes sense why i am still single

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 02/26/08 12:23 PM

I really gotta know, do good looking men like a big girl? As you can tell, i am a bit on the fluffy side. but i am commited to make a change, i just have no support in it so i am not doing as well as i would like. Thats besides the point tho. Guys, speak out, if you love big girls, let is know about it. You dont have to name names, its just to give girls like me a little hope.brokenheart



no idea

luckykady25's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:29 PM
yea babe your cute to me!smooched

luckykady25's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:33 PM

there are many people out there that may not have the best looks on the outside but are the most beautiful people on the inside, theres something to think about.



I feel the same way. I have many talents a good sense of humor, and all around a great girl. I just i am just crazy for wishing that i could even get a date, its not big girls in general its just me.

luckykady25's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:34 PM

I like chubby girls. I don't know if i'm considered "cute" tho.


Yea babe you are cute! atleast to me you are! :wink:

luckykady25's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:37 PM

On the subject I think
There is someone for every One
No matter the size or the look's

And you should never give up
I my not be a good looking
Man but i have pride and Confidence
It carry's you a long way in your
Search for what you want in life J/M/O


thanks its nice to actually hear something positive!

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:43 PM
I know ya can't tell by THIS picyure butwe are sisters in fluff!
I got a lot of help from www.sparkpeople.com...
They have helped me for about a month now.
To answer your question, I dunno... I only know from my exp. and they are not good.LMAO!!

luckykady25's photo
Tue 02/26/08 01:48 PM


oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful! flowerforyou


i couldnt agree more. confidence is sexy no matter what your size!!!



See thats what i dont understand, I am a full time student with a GPA of 3.16 and am finishing school a year ahead of schedule. I am a mom, a loving mom, my boys mean the world to me. I am dedicated honest, generous and when my head was held up high and i met my now ex husband, he was an alcoholic, a drug abuser and mentally abusive. This all did not come on until i married him. i dont wanna stereotype men, so dont take this the wrong way, I love people, but people only love me when its convienent for them. The best relationship i had was with a man 3 years younger than me, and had the looks God gave a goat, but he was sweet and thoughtful and wonderful, but he was a child. I wishi had never let him go, but if i didnt i would not have the boys that i have. I just want you all to understand this is not a pitty party for luv, or any BBW involved, it is just a simple question so i can know if it is something i am doing wrong, or is there hope after all? I dream of love being devine, and holding hands on a front porch, talking in the night while watching stars. Waiting my wife away with some who, for a moment actually loved me. Go ahead, Call me crazy!!

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Tue 02/26/08 02:41 PM
i'm fat and i've had three husbands..it all in your attitude.

Cambolaya65's photo
Tue 02/26/08 02:43 PM

yes...one in 23.8 million men do like them
yes,im quoting myself..i was just kidding.I only care about face and skin.size doesnt matter!!!

madamx7316's photo
Tue 02/26/08 02:44 PM


yes...one in 23.8 million men do like them
yes,im quoting myself..i was just kidding.I only care about face and skin.size doesnt matter!!!


do you prefer skin on the face? ohwell im just curious :tongue:

Cambolaya65's photo
Tue 02/26/08 02:52 PM
a skinless face doesnt do it for me..i tried back in my necrophelia days. devil

AnnG1959's photo
Tue 02/26/08 02:55 PM

I know ya can't tell by THIS picyure butwe are sisters in fluff!


I love it!!!!!!!!!!!

thumper95's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:25 PM
this answers all the questions about women, us men are dogs, no matter what we do, a few in their past makes all of us bad, no matter what we do. so why try to talk to a jaded ass woman?

bttrflyv2's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:29 PM
I beg to differ there with you Thumper...not all ladies are like that...not all seem to judge the same...ill stick to what ive been saying accept people for who they are and love everyone or atleast try to get along with them....it makes for a much better life.....

steelersgirltina's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:30 PM
where are said guys that like us big women??

thumper95's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:30 PM
well,, its seems cool to listen to what a tv show says and not give anyone a chance, so why should the guys try? just wondering

seahawks's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:32 PM

I really gotta know, do good looking men like a big girl? As you can tell, i am a bit on the fluffy side. but i am commited to make a change, i just have no support in it so i am not doing as well as i would like. Thats besides the point tho. Guys, speak out, if you love big girls, let is know about it. You dont have to name names, its just to give girls like me a little hope.brokenheart
if ya can cook, i dont care if yur big or small i miss home cooked meals.!!!!!! lol

bttrflyv2's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:32 PM
GEEE I dont know maybe for happiness...maybe try to find the true love they long to be with...or maybe just to have someone to hang out with....

thumper95's photo
Tue 02/26/08 07:34 PM
well,, but all men are dogs, no matter what we do to try and prove otherwise