ummm no, when you don't give a girl a chance and only have one date with her. especially when the guy says things like, oh, you're "healthier" than the women I usually date, etc.

Thanks

Hmmmmm...well...there is such a difference in self image today than even 15 yrs ago....when someone is a 'self proclaimed big-girl' what does that mean...personally I will say only a dog likes a bone. Yet I am not really attracted to someone who visits Omar the Tent Maker for their wardrobe...sry it's harsh...curvy friggin rocks...and if curvy means a bit more????shiot....my carrots to the left there like what was once called 'full figured woman'....

that is really kind of harsh .. little girls need love too ...

yep all different ...

to be fair to the others in here, I have a cousin, he is tall and slender, and nice looking. He married a woman that is 2 1/2 times his size and he treats her so well, so I suppose there are exceptions to the rule. I just have found that there are a lot of men that consider how big a woman is a big issue.

You can love women all you want.. but it's me you're dying to have LOL j/k.

well, its just me, i dont date smaller women, never have, i never will either. they tend to have a look on them when someone like me talks to them, and i dont like it. i look for personality and i find what i want in women with meat on them.

oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful!

i have to agree with thumper, even though i am having a hard time finding a "second date". We get along great online and than as if it is a shock to them when they see me. But I try not to bunch all guys in one stereo type and still have hope that I will find the one

whats twisted is the views on size not the views on the whole person..it isnt the size of a person who makes them its the morals and values and self respect that more makes a person than the size of the person...

I recently went on a meet and greet with a lady I've been e-mailing(not from JSH)she listed her weight as "a few extra pounds" and "more to love" She had me by at least 50 lbs. I was very disappointed. Better to be definitive about your size than sugar coat it. Next time I will ask for a full body photo. Both my brothers prefer bigger women, and from time to time one has caught my eye, but I like to know up front.

its a preference thing. everyone has a preference so why judge. even us big girls have our likes and dislikes...go with it baby...do your thing, but dont slam others for liking what they like...who are we to judge?

its like when i tell people that im a monster in person, most dont realize what a 6'4 295 lbs man really looks like,, and im not soft, i work out, and play football. im very healthy for my size. but still smaller women look at me like im a sasquatch

i couldnt agree more. confidence is sexy no matter what your size!!!

Madam, you rock

im just your typically everyday fat and sassy broad hahahaha

my hats off to you lax...for seeing us bbw as beautiful people

when i got down to 100lbs i was way too skinny had towork on trying to eat now summer coming up i'm on diet again its more like a cut down on calories not a cretain type of diet i just cut out sodas ,chips,sweets. not much breads that kind of stuff