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Topic: Do cute guys really like big girls?
ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/25/08 08:27 PM
whats twisted is the views on size not the views on the whole person..it isnt the size of a person who makes them its the morals and values and self respect that more makes a person than the size of the person... Hey Guys...Pay attention She said size doesn't matter!!!

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 08:29 PM
I recently went on a meet and greet with a lady I've been e-mailing(not from JSH)she listed her weight as "a few extra pounds" and "more to love" She had me by at least 50 lbs. I was very disappointed. Better to be definitive about your size than sugar coat it. Next time I will ask for a full body photo. Both my brothers prefer bigger women, and from time to time one has caught my eye, but I like to know up front. I will not meet anyone without web caming with them period .. takes that edge off first meeting

catchme_ifucan Joined Fri 11/03/06 Posts: 24221	Mon 02/25/08 08:29 PM
I have been on here a long time & have never had a guy say aahh sorry your too fat!!! The guys on here in general are nice caring guys & their personalities make them cute! Thank goodness everybody has different taste.

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:30 PM
she wasn't talking about THAT lol

whatdoyaknow Joined Mon 01/28/08 Posts: 341	Mon 02/25/08 08:31 PM
well, lax, you are rare. I guess what it comes down to is confidence sometimes. It seems like the more confident a guy is, the less size matters to him in a female. Grant it, there has to be mutual attraction, but he is more likely to overlook it if she isn't height/weight proportionate as long as she has something about her that draws him to her, but it still takes a confident man to see that. I think it also takes confidence on the womens part too.

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:31 PM
size does matter in some departments

TheCaptain Joined Wed 09/06/06 Posts: 44412	Mon 02/25/08 08:31 PM
My best friend and lover has size in the right place. Her heart is huge, and I am lucky enough to get to share our hearts.

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Mon 02/25/08 08:31 PM
oh how i love these threads..... bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves? i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am. its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was. hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful! and some nice stuff from torrid.com is just what you can get to feel sexy!!

whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Mon 02/25/08 08:33 PM
Personally I don't think weight deteriorates from beauty I mean yes it can if she's like 400 pounds. There are many chubby/overweight women that are beautiful. The one girl that has caught my eye more than any other in my classes was chubby and she's pretty. Personally I think I would prefer a chubby girl who's cute to a skinny girl who's cute because I just think that the chubby girl would probably be more my type.

deepblueeyes Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 126	Mon 02/25/08 08:34 PM
Wow that took a while to read all those posts.....my opinion just in case anybody cares or doesnt care is personality and the heart.....I used to be super skinny and was made fun of and never got a date for being too skinny....I am now meatier and I have much better responses from men....my daughter who is 18 is on the bigger side and she has no trouble finding a date...it is because of her personality and pretty smile and face...

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Mon 02/25/08 08:34 PM
i aint no little fella but for people who know me know ill do anything to help someone out, and they say i have a great personality, even if i am twisted

bttrflyv2 Joined Mon 12/04/06 Posts: 1880	Mon 02/25/08 08:34 PM
skinny,tall,short,chubby...love us all

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
i aint no little fella but for people who know me know ill do anything to help someone out, and they say i have a great personality, even if i am twisted you say twisted like it is a bad thing!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
skinny,tall,short,chubby...love us all

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
its like when i tell people that im a monster in person, most dont realize what a 6'4 295 lbs man really looks like,, and im not soft, i work out, and play football. im very healthy for my size. but still smaller women look at me like im a sasquatch god im in love now can you just put on a long black trench coat and tap at my window then force your way in then ..oh wait uumm hhmmm yeah

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
now that i look back at the op, i see shes talking about cute guys, to some i am, to others im not, i am who i am. take me as i am or go on about your buisness

whatdoyaknow Joined Mon 01/28/08 Posts: 341	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
Hmmmmm...well...there is such a difference in self image today than even 15 yrs ago....when someone is a 'self proclaimed big-girl' what does that mean...personally I will say only a dog likes a bone. Yet I am not really attracted to someone who visits Omar the Tent Maker for their wardrobe...sry it's harsh...curvy friggin rocks...and if curvy means a bit more????shiot....my carrots to the left there like what was once called 'full figured woman'.... just have to say...your carrots are hilarious lol

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
skinny,tall,short,chubby...love us all AMEN

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Mon 02/25/08 08:37 PM
hey i am a chubby guy..the way i look at it, if ya don't like me then scoot.....i make up for my winning personality

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:38 PM
I know there are good people out there; I'm just a little jaded I guess. I would agree that confidence is important, so is knowing what you want and recognizing when someone isn't treating you right. It's better to be alone and wait for someone to treat you right than it is to put up with jerks just so you won't be alone.