Topic: Do cute guys really like big girls?
madamx7316's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:38 PM

hey i am a chubby guy..the way i look at it, if ya don't like me then scoot.....i make up for my winning personality


smooched love :heart: bigsmile devil

thumper95's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:38 PM
ummm,, nah im good right where im at

Cyn91762's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM
Edited by Cyn91762 on Mon 02/25/08 08:41 PM

plenty of guys like "fluffy" women as you put it. its just a personal choice. some guys like skinny, some like fluffy, some dont care. its just a matter of finding the right one. granted, i had more dates when i was skinny, but it doesnt matter to me. if a guy doesnt like me b/c i have extra weight, i dont care. its his choice. i just HATE it when girls rip a guy apart for not preferring big women. as long as they are not rude, who cares. and i know i am rambling. im tired. laugh laugh

I agree with you on the ripping apart of men for liking a specific type of woman. Its not fair.

And as to the original poster of this board, you are looking for cute, define cute....what does that mean to you? Probably the same as a guy looking for a woman, personality in the end will win out everytime. He may want skinny, he may get skinny, but skinny might not make him happy, just like cute might not make you happy!

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Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM
I like thick - but not TOOOOOO thicklaugh

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Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM

oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful! flowerforyou



flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou well said

gammalight6000's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:40 PM


hey i am a chubby guy..the way i look at it, if ya don't like me then scoot.....i make up for my winning personality


smooched love :heart: bigsmile devil
oh my queen mistressflowerforyou :heart: :heart:

EarthSprite's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:42 PM

skinny,tall,short,chubby...love us allflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



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gammalight6000's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:42 PM
some one said it earlier, it's all about the self confidence

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:43 PM
Edited by shoes4rhon on Mon 02/25/08 08:45 PM
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I like thick - but not TOOOOOO thicklaugh
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thumper95's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:45 PM
go for what makes you happy, but dont diss someone because they dont like what you think they should like,, thats why they call it free will,, and free thought

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Mon 02/25/08 08:46 PM


I have been on here a long time & have never had a guy say aahh sorry your too fat!!!

The guys on here in general are nice caring guys & their personalities make them cute! :wink:

Thank goodness everybody has different taste. drinker


my experience...they dont say "your too fat" they say "I had a great time..I will call you later" and never do...even if you foLLow up with a "thanks for the night, had a great time"

gammalight6000's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:46 PM
here is the deal though...the chicks can be hot but if the attitude sucks then they are the ugliest people on the planet..same goes for the big girls as well

thumper95's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:46 PM
AMEN GAMMA

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Mon 02/25/08 08:47 PM

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I like thick - but not TOOOOOO thicklaugh
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Come on Shoes...... You never come around till I say something about other women...... You know your the exception!!!! I THINK ALL WOMEN HAVE SOMETHING ATTRACTIVE ABOUT THEM!!!!!flowerforyou
Now go to the store and buy some twinkys!!!!laugh

madamx7316's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:47 PM

here is the deal though...the chicks can be hot but if the attitude sucks then they are the ugliest people on the planet..same goes for the big girls as well


amen my love muffin :tongue:

gammalight6000's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:47 PM
drinker

Jamilowe's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:48 PM
Edited by Jamilowe on Mon 02/25/08 08:49 PM
I am a curvy girl who used to be an over 300 lb girl. I was always told I had a pretty face and I never had trouble getting a date. Now, that I am smaller but curvier, I still don't have trouble with men being attracted to me. I think the idea of "skinny" girls is pretty much out. Now don't get me wrong, I could stand to lose another 20 lbs but that is my preference, not theirs. I honestly believe alot of how you look on the outside stems from how you look on the inside. I have a great personality and I don't let people judge me or talk down to me, never did. Stay true to yourself no matter what size you are and it will reflect in your relationships. The shallow "got to have the skinny girl types" will move on anyway and the nice guys will notice both your mind and your body. Aren't those days of giving it up on a first date over anyway? For some they are I guess. Anyway, just my opinion and we all have one.

gammalight6000's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:48 PM


here is the deal though...the chicks can be hot but if the attitude sucks then they are the ugliest people on the planet..same goes for the big girls as well


amen my love muffin :tongue:
love muffin with butter and strawberry spreads

madamx7316's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:51 PM



here is the deal though...the chicks can be hot but if the attitude sucks then they are the ugliest people on the planet..same goes for the big girls as well


amen my love muffin :tongue:
love muffin with butter and strawberry spreads


oh baby i know just the way you like your muffins bigsmile

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:51 PM


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I like thick - but not TOOOOOO thicklaugh
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Come on Shoes...... You never come around till I say something about other women...... You know your the exception!!!! I THINK ALL WOMEN HAVE SOMETHING ATTRACTIVE ABOUT THEM!!!!!flowerforyou
Now go to the store and buy some twinkys!!!!laugh


lol I just like to see you squirm John .. lol when I want out of a date I yell that across a crowded restaurant .. YOU THINK I AM FAT .. he he he the looks he gets are pretty darn funny .. but seriously here is the deal .. fat skinny thick thin or whatever a person should love themselves so others can love them too .. and everyone is beautiful .... I :heart: U john...