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Topic: Do cute guys really like big girls?
valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
wonder, I'd rather have no dates, by choice, than date a string of assholes.

sexysuzi66 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 287	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
i hate to tell yall, but men are diffrent when you find the right ones, and the women who know me on here know i wont date a little woman, period. if shes under 150 i wont even look at her. but yall keep your lil twisted views all you want I have yet to meet another one like you who I can say was honest with me about this. So I will keep trying I guess.

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
not every man/woman in the universe likes a skinny minny! it takes all kinds to make the world go around. some people see just the outside and dont bother with the rest. ya know some people who are diamonds in the rough just need a good man or woman to bring out the best in them. we are all different for a reason! if we were all the same how boring that would be. much love to all !!

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
oh really lax? and what planet do we find these guys on? my planet when i was in HS i was 160 ilbs football player wrestler and lacrosse player and i dated a girl almost 70 ilbs bigger than me.... confidence is key.... i know fight MMA and when i am in the ring if i see a girl with a nice smile then as soon as i am done getting my ass kicked or kicking ass i talk to her no matter if she is 70 ilbs or 370 ilbs.

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
ok thump, not EVERY man is an asshole. Just all the ones I've dated. How is that?

whatdoyaknow Joined Mon 01/28/08 Posts: 341	Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
i know there are some out there someplace...my friend is size 22 and her hubby is prob a 28 waist. And she was like that when they met..he adores her. I think there are maybe 1 or 2 per state

Troyd879 Joined Tue 09/11/07 Posts: 542	Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
I won't even talk to a girl if she is too skinny...

fastlinnie Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 1993	Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
i love curves

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Mon 02/25/08 08:16 PM
im a curvy girl and im very happy with myself...if a man cant like me for me then its his problem...dont change yourself for someone else peachieeeeeeeeeee i love ya i love you too linnieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Mon 02/25/08 08:16 PM
and im a 295 lbs man and i dont wanna break a skinny woman, and they dont know how to treat me, the woman i am dating aint no lil girl, but she aint huge either, it aint her looks that im looking for, its the heart and spirit, if they dont have that, no matter what they look like they are a lost cause.

sexysuzi66 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 287	Mon 02/25/08 08:17 PM
and im a 295 lbs man and i dont wanna break a skinny woman, and they dont know how to treat me, the woman i am dating aint no lil girl, but she aint huge either, it aint her looks that im looking for, its the heart and spirit, if they dont have that, no matter what they look like they are a lost cause. You are a man after my own heart that was awesome

valerie71ok Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 154	Mon 02/25/08 08:17 PM
well, lax, you are rare. I guess what it comes down to is confidence sometimes. It seems like the more confident a guy is, the less size matters to him in a female. Grant it, there has to be mutual attraction, but he is more likely to overlook it if she isn't height/weight proportionate as long as she has something about her that draws him to her, but it still takes a confident man to see that.

chadrack Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 306	Mon 02/25/08 08:18 PM
there are many people out there that may not have the best looks on the outside but are the most beautiful people on the inside, theres something to think about.

PragmaticMind Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1098	Mon 02/25/08 08:18 PM Edited by PragmaticMind on Mon 02/25/08 08:21 PM
I really gotta know, do good looking men like a big girl? As you can tell, i am a bit on the fluffy side. but i am commited to make a change, i just have no support in it so i am not doing as well as i would like. Thats besides the point tho. Guys, speak out, if you love big girls, let is know about it. You dont have to name names, its just to give girls like me a little hope. Putting aside some of the crap I've read here in this forum in response to your question.. Dear, I can honestly tell you.. that I have friends who prefer "big beautiful women" over tiny little me! So, keep your chin up and regardless of what's said to you.. love yourself. If you're not happy, you're the only one who can make the changes.. sure it's nice to have those supporting us.. but quite frankly, it's still YOU who is doing all the work.. it's YOU who is trying to reach a "personal" goal.. it's YOU who succeeds in your endeavors in life.. Smile, be proud of yourself and just for that reason.. a man will eventually be delivered to you!! And to those of you responding with rude comments.. I used to have quite a bit of weight on me.. believe it or not.. and it took me about 4 yrs. to get rid of it.. and the guys still loved me no different than now. Did you ever once think that maybe (just maybe) it's a personality issue..

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 08:19 PM
Don't be haters ... we all come in different packages ...

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Mon 02/25/08 08:19 PM
I prefer a Slender woman, that's what I am attracted to. Each person see's the beauty and Chemistry different

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/25/08 08:20 PM
I Women

laxviking57 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 2302	Mon 02/25/08 08:20 PM
well, lax, you are rare. I guess what it comes down to is confidence sometimes. It seems like the more confident a guy is, the less size matters to him in a female. Grant it, there has to be mutual attraction, but he is more likely to overlook it if she isn't height/weight proportionate as long as she has something about her that draws him to her, but it still takes a confident man to see that. rare no but confident yes me for instance i got a big head and you know i used to hate it then i started fighting and i realised it was an advantage it is harder to knowck me out... so it is self confidence... i mean there is going to be a shallow person everywhere...but us "good guys" are here too...

whatdoyaknow Joined Mon 01/28/08 Posts: 341	Mon 02/25/08 08:20 PM
I like chubby girls. I don't know if i'm considered "cute" tho. i think you are cute... too young and far away for me but cute

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 02/25/08 08:20 PM
hey thumper, I can generalize as I am speaking from experience. I'm 37 and I've dated lots of diff types of guys. You put a good looking skinny girl next to a good looking curvy girl and see who gets asked out more every time. Men will put up with a complete ***** of a woman just because she looks good in a bikini. Actually I have to disagree with you here!!! When my friends and I go out, I have one friend that is really curvy...she is the one that is always asked out!!! I lost a bunch of weight and I had more offers when I was heavier, so I must say that I do think that some guys do like heavier girls!! My friend weights about 80 lbs more then I do and she always gets the numbers, so men do like curvy women!!