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Topic: OFFENDED!!!!!
MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Wed 02/06/08 07:26 AM
That's so sad and I am sorry that there are jerks out there like that and you had to meet one. F**K HIM and a$$ holes like him.

looking4us2 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Wed 02/06/08 07:27 AM
First I want to say he is BLIND! You do not need to change for anyone! You are beautiful ( I mean look at those eyes!) and he is no man. A MAN would have shown you respect. If you want to change anything in your life it should be because YOU want to for YOU. No one has the right to treat someone they way that... Thing treated you. You dodged a bullet. And he shot himself in the foot. And it is a shame he didn't shoot himself a little higher! He is not worth your time or anger. Just pity the fool and move on to someone who will treat you like you deserve. Wes

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Wed 02/06/08 07:34 AM Edited by Danette_Giavanna on Wed 02/06/08 07:36 AM
What an ass...If he did not like you the way you are then why take the time to set up and go on a date...If you date someone and like that person you should never try to change them, then why are you with that person... I told my ex I lost 200 pounds of ass when I divorced him...That was the easist weight loss....Your a beautiful girl who deserves someone who is gonna treat you right and respect you. I pitty the girl who ends up with him, he has no respect for women. Sounds like he has some major issues he needs to work on before they let him out of the cave....

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 02/06/08 07:38 AM
Ignorance truly isn't bliss. What an arrogant A$$HOLE!!! To think that if "you" changed "you" he'd be willing... MOFO dont you realize by opening your mouth so tackless "YOU ARE NOT WILLING/NOR INTERESTED IN HIM" Don't change a thing... his loss... what a moron! so tackless and disrespectful.

Zewi Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 1331	Wed 02/06/08 07:39 AM
Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line???? Please tell me you kicked him in the balls!! I don’t even no how to respond to this, except to say, what a classless dumba$$!!!

alrightguy2 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1306	Wed 02/06/08 08:28 AM
Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line???? Please tell me you kicked him in the balls!! I don’t even no how to respond to this, except to say, what a classless dumba$$!!! As bad as I believe that was, I cannot condone the kicking of a man in that area. VERY FEW exceptions are permitted such as in the case of a woman's safety. But if it were me, I think I would have to play the game a little. So in her example, I think my response would have been: "OK, I can work with that. But I'll need for you to grow at least 3 inches taller, star benchpressing at least XXX pounds, and commit to at least 100 sit ups a day."

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Wed 02/06/08 08:39 AM Edited by trueokie2 on Wed 02/06/08 09:13 AM
What a jerk.. Noway.. I know I would have been upset too...

single_mommy_b Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 154	Wed 02/06/08 08:41 AM
WHAT A PIG!!!! you dont need a guy like that anyways!

toastedoranges Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 11042	Wed 02/06/08 08:47 AM
hmm..i think pretty much everything has been said. dude is a douche he was crass and judging from how up front he was, he's probably quite full of himself telling someone to lose weight on the first date...wow

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 02/06/08 09:30 AM
Something isn't right here. Something isn't adding up. I gotta funny feeling about this that aint right. I smell something bad.

sounditout Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 307	Fri 02/08/08 04:35 AM
ROFLOL, I thought I was a jerk, but wow. after reading the topic I wanted to post. no real advice, just shocked.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/08/08 09:24 AM
Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line???? i would have hit him and told him to f**k off, and get a face translant.

lynn83 Joined Sun 01/27/08 Posts: 646	Fri 02/08/08 09:29 AM
what an azz. I agree with everyone, you should have dumped your drink in his face and walked off. Those kinda people are what's wrong with the world.

lynn83 Joined Sun 01/27/08 Posts: 646	Fri 02/08/08 09:32 AM
Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line???? Please tell me you kicked him in the balls!! I don’t even no how to respond to this, except to say, what a classless dumba$$!!! As bad as I believe that was, I cannot condone the kicking of a man in that area. VERY FEW exceptions are permitted such as in the case of a woman's safety. But if it were me, I think I would have to play the game a little. So in her example, I think my response would have been: "OK, I can work with that. But I'll need for you to grow at least 3 inches taller, star benchpressing at least XXX pounds, and commit to at least 100 sit ups a day." I like your way of thinking. Get him to think that he's found a rag doll and BAM in your face. I definately like your way of thinking.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 02/08/08 10:21 AM
You have to wonder what these people who say that do for 2nd dates, what's next? Baby i think we could make it but you might want to have cosmetic surgery to remove that ass. I mean really, who screens these people lol.

LandRover28 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 417	Fri 02/08/08 12:23 PM
It was me!! Just kidding. Guy sounds like a total tool.

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Fri 02/08/08 12:28 PM
yeah...total loser...his loss...good though,that he showed his true colors right off...

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 02/08/08 12:30 PM
What an azz

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Fri 02/08/08 12:30 PM
i think i would have ordered a hot fudge sundae with extra hot fudge and smiled the whole time i ate it saying absolutely nothing!

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Fri 02/08/08 12:31 PM
i think i would have ordered a hot fudge sundae with extra hot fudge and smiled the whole time i ate it saying absolutely nothing! lmao you go girlfriend !