Topic: OFFENDED!!!!!
Suzanne20's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:19 PM
I can't believe the nerve of some people!explode

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are fine just how you are and if he can't see that then he doesn't deserve you.

jrallen76's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:20 PM
That guy was an *beep*. Hope you beat the crap out of him. He deserves it.

sarakay's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:20 PM
Who is this guy so all the chicks can give him s**t

brwneyedgirl's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:20 PM
Trust me, the guy is NOT getting a second date, and had I had a drink at the time, yes he would have been wearing it. I just didnt know if that was.....acceptable I guess, I have been out of the dating scene for a very LOOOONG time, but Im glad to see Im not crazy, it was as rude as i thought it was!!!!

iraceslowcars's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:21 PM
She can't name him in the Forums, board policy...
I hope you "punted" if you get my drift.noway

chadrack's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:21 PM
i can't believe that why would someone say that!! your a very beautiful girl

itsmetina's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:22 PM
screw him go on to the next

trying_to_fly's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:22 PM

Trust me, the guy is NOT getting a second date, and had I had a drink at the time, yes he would have been wearing it. I just didnt know if that was.....acceptable I guess, I have been out of the dating scene for a very LOOOONG time, but Im glad to see Im not crazy, it was as rude as i thought it was!!!!
Throwing a drink in his face would be the least of his worries.....

no photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:22 PM
no! that guy is a jurk! he should accept yopu for who and where you are! of course that was out of line. i will hope that you did let him know how dumb he was.

gdr441's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:23 PM
what did u say back to him????

Lily0923's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:23 PM

Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????


Out of line??? nnnnnNNNNNNOOOOOoooooo but I personally would have stabed him in the neck with a dull object repeatedly.... F HIM....

duckiegiggles's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:23 PM
Edited by duckiegiggles on Tue 02/05/08 10:25 PM
you ah wanna drop a name
you did say you meant him on here

okay then email it

LilaBean's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:24 PM
He acts like he's doing you a favor.......whatever the way I see it.....the fact he didn't leave with a black eye ....you were doing him a favor....

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:24 PM

Trust me, the guy is NOT getting a second date, and had I had a drink at the time, yes he would have been wearing it. I just didnt know if that was.....acceptable I guess, I have been out of the dating scene for a very LOOOONG time, but Im glad to see Im not crazy, it was as rude as i thought it was!!!!
what do you mean you didn't know .. I think that walking out with class and dignity is really the right thing to do but by all means block this guy from your life .. honey no one I mean no one should ever blow out your light ,, people should uplift you that you date not down you . no matter how long you are out of the dating scence

JaceKnows's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:25 PM

Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????


What an awful, horrible, jerk! I am so sorry. I wan you to know not ALL guys are like him. There's some nice ones of us out there. Be strong, keep the faith. flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker

itsmetina's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:25 PM
probaly some1 in her state

trying_to_fly's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:25 PM

you ah wanna drop a name
you did say you meant him on here
She can't give his name out on here....against policy.....if you ask me it's a sucky policy....warning people about assholes like that...

kolhauszer's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:26 PM
for the love of garbage....
my eyes bugged when i read this....

this general jag here is not even worth spit..

i couldn't even begin to think of a more disgusting thing to say to a woman..

im sorry that you had to meet this clown..
and i hope that he is reading this...

you're not wothy of love from any woman,jag

iraceslowcars's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:26 PM


Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????


Out of line??? nnnnnNNNNNNOOOOOoooooo but I personally would have stabed him in the neck with a dull object repeatedly.... F HIM....


Lily is spot on!bigsmile

itsmetina's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:27 PM
she can email it but dont think the women should worry unless they live in her state