Topic: OFFENDED!!!!!
fortsmithman's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:29 PM
If I had a date with a lady I wold never say that to her. That's a no no. You are a pretty lady. The guy sounds like he may not be getting any second dates with that attitude.

kolhauszer's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:30 PM


you ah wanna drop a name
you did say you meant him on here
She can't give his name out on here....against policy.....if you ask me it's a sucky policy....warning people about assholes like that...


most agreed pal...
when women have horrible encounters with jags like these,then the mods should allow thier names to be posted so that these lovely ladies dont have to go through what she went through..

perhaps this rule might be changed..

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Tue 02/05/08 10:31 PM
DROP KICK HIS ASS!!!!

brwneyedgirl's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:31 PM
I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."

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Tue 02/05/08 10:31 PM
Thats taking chutzpah to a whole new level. I hope your fist stopped right at his face for that bratty comment. All the charm and sophistication of a pubic louse. *shakes head* Some people's ****ing kids...

Totage's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:31 PM

Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????


Nah, you don't want to look anorexic.

curios789's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:31 PM

Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????

That's ridiculous. That guy has serious ego issues. His legs should be broken and his fingers chopped off. And maybe another extension of his body, a phallic one.

trying_to_fly's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:32 PM


Ok, so I went out tonight with a guy I met on this site, and everything seemed to be going fine, until we decided to sit and talk for awhile before he left. We were having a perfectly pleasant conversation when he looks at me and says "I like you, I think you are a very pretty girl, but if you are willing to go on a diet and exercise plan, and get down to about 130-135 lbs, Id be willing to keep talking to you, and date you than." Am I wrong for thinking this was TOTALLY out of line????

That's ridiculous. That guy has serious ego issues. His legs should be broken and his fingers chopped off. And maybe another extension of his body, a phallic one.
laugh laugh laugh laugh

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:32 PM

I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."
whoo hoo oo you go girl ......

JaceKnows's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:34 PM


I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."
whoo hoo oo you go girl ......


Shoes is right... You go, girl! Keep that confidence... and no one will ever stand in your way!

gdr441's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:35 PM
did u walk away at that moment or what else happend lol??

trying_to_fly's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:36 PM

I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."
You let him have it....DAMN that f**king guy.....you should've kicked him right in.........ehem......well....not a very nice thing to post on here but you get my drift...

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Tue 02/05/08 10:37 PM
Sounds like the girl was the victim of a twit who paid a little too much attention to the rantings of Tom Leykis, a nationally-syndicated talk-radio host based here in L.A.

He's got this thing of his called "Leykis 101", where he claims to have the inside scoop on what to do on a date. And one of his mantras is to "treat the date like crap" (and I'm roughly quoting here) as well as a number of other things that I won't repeat here.

Little do the listeners of his show know or even understand that what he's tirades are nothing more than just radio schtick and nothing more. But -then again- some people seem to have a problem distinguishing between fiction and reality, too.

curios789's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:37 PM


I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."
You let him have it....DAMN that f**king guy.....you should've kicked him right in.........ehem......well....not a very nice thing to post on here but you get my drift...

He has some? Huh?

itsmetina's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:39 PM
u lost some weight that night him

trying_to_fly's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:40 PM



I suppose I should have added this in the original post but, what I said back was "As a matter of fact, I have lost quite a bit of weight since my husband left me, and am VERY proud of the way I look right now, and if I did decide to continue to lose weight, I can assure you, it sure as hell wouldnt be for YOU."
You let him have it....DAMN that f**king guy.....you should've kicked him right in.........ehem......well....not a very nice thing to post on here but you get my drift...

He has some? Huh?
laugh laugh laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:41 PM
OMG...What a jerk..Girl don't you listen to him!..theres nothin wrong with you!..Its people like him that are the reason that eating disorders exist!

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:41 PM

Sounds like the girl was the victim of a twit who paid a little too much attention to the rantings of Tom Leykis, a nationally-syndicated talk-radio host based here in L.A.

He's got this thing of his called "Leykis 101", where he claims to have the inside scoop on what to do on a date. And one of his mantras is to "treat the date like crap" (and I'm roughly quoting here) as well as a number of other things that I won't repeat here.

Little do the listeners of his show know or even understand that what he's tirades are nothing more than just radio schtick and nothing more. But -then again- some people seem to have a problem distinguishing between fiction and reality, too.
well i do think that the media's influence on what woman should be is disgusting .. so someone is hot big deal .. to be beautiful it takes grace poise and class kindness ...

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Tue 02/05/08 10:46 PM
Guys like him are the reason for the whole "All guys are d1cks" mentality that a lot of women have, which is just not true at all. explode Is it just me, or are people becoming dumber and dumber every year? Maybe it's just me getting older and continuing to mature instead of leveling off at the age of 21 like most people do.

P.S. I wish swearing were allowed in the forums, because my language would be a lot more colorful, and interesting.laugh

DannyInChar's photo
Tue 02/05/08 10:50 PM
it's guys like him that really <BLEEP> me off, if you ever get his address promise me you will give it to me and I'll .......well you know what I'll doexplode :angry: mad grumble but on the brighterside I think you are drop dead gorgeous:heart: :heart: :heart: flowerforyou :tongue: