| Topic: If you could turn back time..... | |
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Hindsight is 20/20.. so.. what would you change? Would you change anything? Would you turn left instead of right? OR, like some, do you believe in FATE! That life takes it's own direction and we are all powerless to affect our lives.... ?
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I think I'd make different choices at certain points in my life.. do I live with regret? not really.. no.. but knowing now what I wished I knew then well.. yes.. I'd turn right instead of left.. absolutely lol
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Only one, not going on a second date long ago with a gal who was difficult to carry on a conversation with, and other circumstances at the time.
Generally I think all have a destiny/fate, with an expiration date. Yet we all come to forks in the road, take the wrong one,ok, another fork in the road comes along where we can get back on the original path, take the wrong one to many times then your expiration date becomes shorter. |
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this is true about forks in the road and, being human and not learning from our mistakes, OR thinking left is still a better option.. take the wrong fork again and end up with a wall in our faces..
if I may.. what do you think would've changed if you'd have gone on a 2nd date with that gal?? mine was going on a first date with my now ex husband.. I should've known better AND listened to my dad.. he was right all along but I thought "I" knew better.. turns out I was SOOO wrong lol
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If you could turn back time.....
Marrying a sociopath with violent tendencies. |
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this is true about forks in the road and, being human and not learning from our mistakes, OR thinking left is still a better option.. take the wrong fork again and end up with a wall in our faces.. if I may.. what do you think would've changed if you'd have gone on a 2nd date with that gal?? mine was going on a first date with my now ex husband.. I should've known better AND listened to my dad.. he was right all along but I thought "I" knew better.. turns out I was SOOO wrong lol
If a second date went well, who knows, it took 20+ years to realize she was the only one who had a sense of self responsibility and wasn't lazy. |
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If you could turn back time.....
Marrying a sociopath with violent tendencies. you just described my ex to a "T" |
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if I may.. what do you think would've changed if you'd have gone on a 2nd date with that gal?? If a second date went well, who knows, it took 20+ years to realize she was the only one who had a sense of self responsibility and wasn't lazy. hindsight eh.. if I cud turn back the clock.. I'd get the winning lottery numbers from the week AFTER I went back
wouldn't we all huh
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Would'nt change a darn thing ....life has a way of getting you moving along a path ...good or bad... destiny I believe is ore determined.....learn from mistakes and move on to better and brighter things in life !!!
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Would'nt change a darn thing ....life has a way of getting you moving along a path ...good or bad... destiny I believe is ore determined.....learn from mistakes and move on to better and brighter things in life !!! so you believe in the predetermined life.. fate.. can't change anything even if you wanted to? or do you think that changing something you'd want to.. would still be considered fate? |
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Would'nt change a darn thing ....life has a way of getting you moving along a path ...good or bad... destiny I believe is ore determined.....learn from mistakes and move on to better and brighter things in life !!! so you believe in the predetermined life.. fate.. can't change anything even if you wanted to? or do you think that changing something you'd want to.. would still be considered fate? Any decisions you make will follow the predetermined pattern , whether you like it or not, and lead you back to fate...imo |
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Btw Zena, have you been listening to Cher to up with this topic?
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Btw Zena, have you been listening to Cher to up with this topic? shut up Mikey and answer the question , the Lady wants to know.....lol
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Honestly.. I've thought about this in the past..
If I could change things I might have put more towards a career, I had the chance but did not take it... But then I also thought if I went back and changed anything that not only my life might be different as well as what I have now my kids and grandkids.. That right there makes me realize I'm blessed so regardless if that part of my life could be changed and loose what I have. I would never change a thing..
I'll take all that life has dealt me to have those I love around me..
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Btw Zena, have you been listening to Cher to up with this topic? the mention of Cher made that song pop into ma brain
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n3A_-HRFfc too funny Mikey
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Btw Zena, have you been listening to Cher to up with this topic? shut up Mikey and answer the question , the Lady wants to know.....lol
jokes on you Slim.. he already answered
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Honestly.. I've thought about this in the past..
If I could change things I might have put more towards a career, I had the chance but did not take it... But then I also thought if I went back and changed anything that not only my life might be different as well as what I have now my kids and grandkids.. That right there makes me realize I'm blessed so regardless if that part of my life could be changed and loose what I have. I would never change a thing..
I'll take all that life has dealt me to have those I love around me..
I think firstly that I'd make sure I didn't stop for a Timmy's that crazy Thursday morning when I got sideswiped and ended up paralyzed.. oh and.. I wouldn't have made that stupid wish to spend more time at home with my kids and less at work LOL but.. if ya believe Slim.. I couldn't have changed a thang
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turns out I was SOOO wrong lol