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| Topic: What’s the biggest lesson love taught you? | |
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I just don't get what's so important to you Slim, that a woman shud drink..
way I look at it.. more for you.. no? |
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a glass of wine is good for your health and also lets you relax, especially if she is with me . And besides its kinda being sociable..
Also keep in mind she wants me to go shopping for three hours with her , she wants me to start her dead car and a host of wants , Yet she cant do that ONE thing I look forward to .... okay okay ...the other one thing comes much later !!! 
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Edited by
Zee
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Fri 03/06/26 03:26 PM
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it's not good for MY health, cuz all it does is give me a spitting headache.. so there's that.. I can relax just fine without the need of alcohol.. it's called controlled breathing..
I can have an ice tea and look like I'm being sociable.. it also doesn't HAVE to include alcohol.. I don't want anyone to go shopping for 3 hrs, including ME.. I'll avoid that if I can.. when I shop it's IN, get what I need then OUT and HOME.. AND.. I have CAA plus a jump starter so I don't need a MAN to do that.. as for the "other"? I sure as heck don't want any alcohol involved.. that would probably then require a "lil blue pill" cuz it's a known fact that alcohol reduces the sex drive.. and if some have had too much? they're snoring before their pants hits the floor.. yer not gonna win with THIS woman.. pushing the issue feels more like having it forced down the throat.. and that ain't happenin.. suffice to say you'n I wud never be a match.. just sayin.. not that I'd be interested in any case.. no offense 
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Trying to have a causal conversation on a dating site , expressing some opinions, and it's being taken personally , is not exactly what I had in mind...
You do you and I will do me . Thank you very much.. OT: Never be always available . Women start to take that for granted , and predictability kinda becomes boring .... and that is not what holds a woman's attention. Another lesson learnt!! |
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The line "The future kissed you, called you king, Did she? Deceiver!" is something I remembered from school, because it's so powerful. The Poem is "Brothers Who When the Sirens Roar" written by W H Auden in the 1930s. It's actually political and predicts the downfall of the wealthy upper class both incorrectly and pretentiously. The first stanza of another Auden poem "Lay Your Sleeping Head My Love" (Lullaby) is more romantic.
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Biggest lesson learned over a lot of years...You
can only control the love inside you, you cannot control anyone else's. wow that's awesome |
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What love taught me in various ways is to be more empowered and to say "yes" to me a helluva lot more and "no" to someone else.
And also the art of receiving instead of giving. I've learnt that dating and relationship coaches are 1000% right when they say the woman has to be the prize and a man has to earn his way into her life and heart. wow  that's awesome 
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Hey everyone! Let’s get real for a moment, love is messy, beautiful, confusing, and transformative all at once. Whether you’re in a relationship, single, or somewhere in between, your experiences matte, and I want to hear them wow that's is awesome |
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never trust a woman who does not drink Shouldn't that be the other way round? Makes more sense to me. I btw rarely drink. Have noticed this seems to be a problem for many men. I guess they don't feel happy when they have to enjoy their beer themselves. As if it tastes any different if I'd drink one too. Which isn't going to happen. Beer = puke! Unless you meant not drink anything. That would indeed be very weird! Might indicate she's an alien 
First of all..... Beer = Yum!!!! 
I don't think it's about it's about not feeling happy about if we "have to" enjoy our beers ourselves. I personally would rather drink beer with other men while watching a game. Maybe the cat wanted to bond with you in the same way dudes bond. Drinking anything else with women I feel it's purpose is to loosen up. Often times, people are less reserved and you can kinda see who the person really is. Their guards are down, and there is the ability to connect on a more truthful level. There is a problem when there's too much drinking, and the people can't handle their booze. Women can end up being blubbering fools and the men being a a mean jag off. |
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Hummm biggest lesson love has taught me is.... I can only control my feelings for another not how they feel towards another...
Also those that can not be honest and know how to communicate, it is best leave them behind.. It has also taught me to look for those that actually like doing the same kind of things you do and then have things they like to do on their own time.. For everyone needs me time to do things with others if they choose or alone.. Myself as far as drinking, I have no problem with having a few drinks but it would be drinks of my choice not what someone else would want me to drink.. But it is a deal breaker, if one drinks to the point they can't function. I'll walk away and have in the past.. Humm and well I'm not one to ask a man to go shopping with me for I literally hate shopping.. I'm one that I'm in and out of stores.. I literally don't let anyone work on my vehicles unless it is my mechanic... |
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Is really had to say
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