Topic: long reply or short reply
Martin Hermanus 's photo
Thu 11/27/25 11:01 PM
A few women have said hi to me ... but fail to say much more ... I used to write my heart out now I am saying much less... Is more better or just an aloof comment what do women like?

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 11/28/25 10:31 AM
If someone just sends a "hi" and you reply in any form or fashion, it's more than likely their next message is going to ask you for personal contact information to go off-site.

Use your big head not your little one.

Mary's photo
Fri 11/28/25 10:39 AM
Time and attention

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 11/28/25 10:44 AM

Time and attention


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GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 11/28/25 12:18 PM
A few women have said hi to me ... but fail to say much more ... I used to write my heart out now I am saying much less... Is more better or just an aloof comment what do women like?

I usually give back just a little more than they give. But the point of finding the right one is to find someone matches with you, so if you like to write then go for it. If they do not like to read all that then they are not right for you...easy test.

Michael's photo
Fri 11/28/25 04:35 PM

Time and attention


And admiration. Basically an ego boost.