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Topic: 7 Effects on Men after divorce
Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 01/08/25 01:44 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 01/08/25 01:45 PM
https://www.completecase.com/blog/how-divorce-changes-man/



Interesting article
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bobtail76's photo
Wed 01/08/25 07:47 PM
It's a bogus article written by a woman with no real accreditation.

A certified transformation and relationship coach...with a WHOLE 3 years of experience?

I have pubes older than her.

The article is full of speculation, and more than likely an op ed written for women.


You want truth with facts from a credible source...
This will tell you all you need to know


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5992251/

no photo
Wed 01/08/25 09:53 PM
Men don't care when they get divorced. Time to move on.

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 01/08/25 10:39 PM
All men and women do not react the same to divorce. For some folks it's emotionally devastating. For others it's a matter of , "good bye, good riddance".

JulieABush's photo
Thu 01/09/25 03:46 AM

All men and women do not react the same to divorce. For some folks it's emotionally devastating. For others it's a matter of , "good bye, good riddance".

So true:thumbsup: . My brother is twice divorced but he’s moved on and has a girlfriend. 1st one married him so her son could have a father then she plays less of a role in her sons life but my parents paid for that one. Second one was bottom line money issues and now she’s remarried and he has a girlfriend which our family likes but then again we liked the first two so you’ll never know what happens on down the line.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/09/25 04:34 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 01/09/25 04:44 PM
Divorce rates are high for couples in USA.
However, Marriage is not outdated for many still.

If a Woman gets the divorce it is usually the fault of the Man even in a no-fault divorce which simpler to get oftentimes.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/09/25 04:43 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 01/09/25 04:47 PM

https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/


Many on Dating site are interested in Marriage.
Not just posting and playing games.

Article
For Those who are interested and have time to read the stats for divorce.

For second and third marriages there is a higher rate of divorces!

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 01/09/25 09:33 PM

Divorce rates are high for couples in USA.
However, Marriage is not outdated for many still.

If a Woman gets the divorce it is usually the fault of the Man even in a no-fault divorce which simpler to get oftentimes.


Usually the fault of the man????

Where did you get that bit of information from?

JulieABush's photo
Fri 01/10/25 03:22 AM


Divorce rates are high for couples in USA.
However, Marriage is not outdated for many still.

If a Woman gets the divorce it is usually the fault of the Man even in a no-fault divorce which simpler to get oftentimes.


Usually the fault of the man????

Where did you get that bit of information from?

I agree with you:thumbsup: . Women can be at fault too as both sexes have their reasons for divorcing their spouses.

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 01/10/25 12:10 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 01/10/25 12:11 PM
https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/


Women divorced
64% blame is on the Man.



Opinions do not out way Stats.


We all know it can be either spouse at fault.


Topic Not for arguments just STATS.


Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 01/10/25 12:14 PM




https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2011/12/14/barely-half-of-u-s-adults-are-married-a-record-low/





Anyone that has Any interest can always research elsewhere on their Own. :)

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 01/10/25 12:22 PM


https://www.ltcnews.com/articles/rise-of-senior-marriages-tips-to-consider-before-getting-married



Rise in Marriage after 50.



Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 01/10/25 12:29 PM

https://www.marriage.com/advice/love/benefits-of-marriage-for-a-man/




Many Men love to be in good Marriage.

Marriage Never Outdated for Men who love Marriage even in this Modern Society.

JulieABush's photo
Sat 01/11/25 03:37 AM
This subject puts two songs in my mind:(1) Always on my mind by Willie Nelson and (2) In too deep by Genesis . Both points of view should always taken into consideration otherwise the blame game comes with it. Arguments both good and bad listened to.

no photo
Sat 01/11/25 03:40 AM
You're seriously pissed old man :joy::joy:

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/11/25 10:49 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 01/11/25 10:51 AM

This subject puts two songs in my mind:(1) Always on my mind by Willie Nelson and (2) In too deep by Genesis . Both points of view should always taken into consideration otherwise the blame game comes with it. Arguments both good and bad listened to.




I like listening to Willie Nelson sometimes. lol

Usually it is one spouses fault more than the other.
This info comes from a marriage counselor I knew personally when I visited.
Both parties do not always contribute to divorce.
He was so right!!


I dislike listening to Opinions many people just like to argue their Own points. Mainly those Against Marriage for Some personal reasons.




bobtail76's photo
Tue 01/14/25 06:54 PM
Edited by bobtail76 on Tue 01/14/25 06:58 PM
Then that would be an opinion!
Now I'll offer one of my own:

Women are often the patrons of marriage counselling - whether she goes herself, or forces her ol man to go "fix their marriage"

Marriage counsellors are aware of this, so they are taught to side with the women that they council... if they want to keep their money flow. If the therapist takes the man's side, the women tend to just find another counsellor until they side with her. Just dollars and sense :wink:

This "info" is also from a marriage counsellor.
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite

no photo
Tue 01/14/25 08:13 PM
My ex was married and divorced 3 times before me. We were not married long. He wanted a divorce and then married soon again. So his fifth marriage. He seems like a needy person.

JulieABush's photo
Wed 01/15/25 03:42 AM

My ex was married and divorced 3 times before me. We were not married long. He wanted a divorce and then married soon again. So his fifth marriage. He seems like a needy person.

Sounds like he’s the inspiration to George Thorogood’s song “bad to the bone”. Before she divorced my brother he offered her to go to marriage counseling but she didn’t want to. She’s of course remarried now while my brother has a girlfriend (who was actually at their wedding).

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 01/15/25 07:22 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 01/15/25 07:24 AM

Then that would be an opinion!
Now I'll offer one of my own:

Women are often the patrons of marriage counselling - whether she goes herself, or forces her ol man to go "fix their marriage"

Marriage counsellors are aware of this, so they are taught to side with the women that they council... if they want to keep their money flow. If the therapist takes the man's side, the women tend to just find another counsellor until they side with her. Just dollars and sense :wink:

This "info" is also from a marriage counsellor.
Accountability is a woman's kryptonite

I wonder why you're even on a dating site? You're so incredibly anti-woman and seem stuck in feeling sorry for men (yourself?), always taking men's side even if they're painstakingly wrong.

Men should become accountable for their own shortcomings and stop pointing fingers.
If they did, maybe there'd be less singles looking for love.

Not saying women are always right, but neither are men. To go on and on blaming one gender is like driving on the motorway with a blindfold on and then blaming other drivers when you end up crashing your car.

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