hey guys so today I liked someone and we matched but that guy texted me saying "sorry can't date you because I know you are after money" so I didn't reply to him anything but here is what I think most white people think black women are after money yes some ask for money immediately but others we are here to search for our soulmate we are here to find love,know someone before judging them to find someone who truly appreciate you here in a dating site is really hard because you give someone your number then they start asking for nude pictures that's really bad but my main concern is stop judging people before you know them

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Hello Sharon..21

That's your point of prospect an you cleared your thoughts about it.
First be clear on black or white or be human's..

Lots of spammer an fakes/clon are everywhere in networking world.
So every person being aware of it an being secure in such things. That doesn't mean with anyone's colour or religion or nation.. if some thinks that, it's thier way of thinking
You can't change anyone for you.
but being You an positive, you can change lots of aspect of life..

My lecture is over.
All The Best

Perhaps you have just been around the wrong white people.

What a shame the current state of the world is in today. Can't just everyone get along. We are all human beings. More unity in local communities. Meetings, communication, helping one another in this day in age. We don't need anymore negativity.

^^^ Signed ^^^

Why must EVERYTHING always be about being black and racism? Could it be he just doesn't trust women on this site due to scammers and its YOU who automatically assumed it was due to your skin color?

So someone who has been here for only a few weeks and who has only one post, and who claims to live in a city/town with a population of about 100 people, makes an incredible statement about "MOST" white people...sigh...incredible immaturity...hint: travel to some non-African countries...broaden your knowledge and experience of PEOPLE...then perhaps you will understand that no group of people has a monopoly on any virtue or vice...and pointing a finger usually has three other fingers pointed back at oneself

^^^^ always love your perspective and as per usual in full agreement.

When you get to dating you'll come across quite a lot of fear in people, usually from experiences they haven't worked through, and sometimes simple prejudice. And they project it onto others.
This is not related to white people, not to any colour of skin.
You also see it among people of the same colour/race in the form of generalisations about the other gender.

Part of the territory. Doesn't make it pleasant to come across, but don't take it too personally. Just happens and is part of (the online) dating scene as there you come across all kinds of people there are. The good, the bad, the ugly.

we only have a photo and what people say to us, to go by.
and many people lie. and try to take advantage of others.
not meaning any offence. but until you get to know the other person.
you dont know how many guy's have pretended to be women, to try to get his personal info or get him to send money.

dont assume, that it is because he seen a picture of an atrctive black lady, and that was the reason for his reaction, just because his photo is of a white guy..
after all, in order to be matched, you both have had to expressed possible interest in each other. so that would indicate, the opposite was true.

you mentioned he texted you..
the site recommends strongly that we do not exchange personal contact info, as that is a way that scammer's use to take advantage. by getting members off site.

if you asked him to text you, that may be the reason for his response.
from the welcome message you received when you joined from mingle2

^^ This

And you say this as you judge white people. Sorry no one likes you.

But, if you're thinkin' about my baby
It don't matter if you're black or white

On the other hand let’s be realistic guys, how many of you has now a partner of the other race? (White and black)?
I bet it’s not more than 10%….. if any

I don't know percentages, but what does this have to do with being after money??
Number of mixed race relationships is another topic.

I myself rather not have a relationship with anyone from another culture, coloured or white.
Been there in the past -both scenarios- and not up for the trouble, differences, and misunderstandings/miscommunication involved with that.
Too much you simply don't and cannot share when both from another background.
Money isn't part of that equation.

As for what the OP said, I do think a large number of non-Caucasians are in actual fact after money, or more precisely: a green card, an easy ticket into a Western country.
That of course only goes if said person isn't in a Western country. So in that sense I can understand the reaction of that man.
(I haven't checked where the OP lives)

It has nothing to do with the money topic, I just find it quite contradictory when everyone is talking about the race not being of a matter in relationships while very few have overcome this and had/ have a relationship with a person from the other race. Actually it’s not only here but also in the real world.

You don’t know what you’re missing

Totally agree!
People need to stop stereotyping others because their race, religion, accent or cultural background!
Is the intolerance to the differences what is killing this world!
Sharon, don’t lose sleep over that loser and move on! It was his lost not yours!

Why be a mutt, why fight the Allmighty

do you think starting a topic with “hey white people” is at all judgemental ?? Perhaps if you reactivate your account you can tell me . The online dating world can be harsh but you are the one In control . You can choose to listen to nonsense or you can ignore it . You can block anyone that you find offensive . You do not need to give their words or thoughts power .