That’s what most guys want nowadays ..with no sort of commitment and this is really poor for relationships to survive

I'm stuck in the reverse - I don't allow sex before marriage, but that excludes virtually every woman on the planet - guess I'll die alone.

MEN ARE NOT BROKEN, MEN HAVE ALWAYS GONE AS

FAR AS THE WOMEN LET HIM GO......THEY GIVE IT AWAY

TO EVERY GUY BECAUSE OF FEAR THEY WILL LOOSE

HIM. LADIES YOU WANT ''THE ONE'' YOU SET LIMITS YOU

WANT AND ''THE ONE'' WILL UNDERSTAND, OTHERS NEED

TO GO......

You said this is really poor for relationships to survive

There is no relationship.

There are many other things to do , besides sex ... and gives more pleasure... especially for the ladies

I haave a graphic that won't post here, sums it up pretty well! NICHOLAS CAGE's face on it states:
"IF A GUY WANTS YOU FOR YOUR BREAST, THIGHS, &\or LEGS: SEND HIM TO KFC! YOU ARE A LADY! NOT A CHEAP VALUE MEAL!" Any man that is not after the CAKE, only the ICING; What can he put the icing on for a COMPLETE CAKE?! Too old anymore to be just a ICING man! I am seeking the WHOLE CAKE! Hopefully I have a good lead on MY CAKE as of late!? TIM will tell as it always does tho!?

Men afraid of commitment

yes it's true

there are some nice, caring, committed men, but sometimes women also ditch too badly even to a genuine nice caring man, i have experienced it

Not afraid of the commitment but of the divorce if it comes!

Always good, the way of nature.

Tim will tell? What did Tim say, then?

Really? Maybe it goes for you, but that doesn't mean it is the way of nature!
In essence everyone is wired and looking for a connection, a commitment, love and the happiness a relationship can offer.
The fact that some fear this -and yes, this is mostly the masculine- means they have wounds. And no, this has nothing to do with "my ex did XYZ". It is the masculine's own wound and as always these stem from childhood, for both the feminine and masculine.
A healthy, balanced, empowered man will not fear commitment at all! He'll be happy to be part of it, to be a team with a woman/feminine and live happily ever after.

What is true is that men aren't wired to commit as fast as a woman. But that has nothing to do with men not wanting to commit nor with 'the way of nature'.
When many men in a survey were asked what they wanted most concerning love/relationship/dating almost all replied: "A committed relationship!"

There are approximately 3,700,000,000 guys
currently on the planet.

You know the hearts and minds of most
of them?

Impressive...

lets rock

I'm so in to this

For some, especially when younger, having sex is the most important thing in their life. While this may wain as they age, it probably will never go away. For some, there can be no relationship that doesn't include an adequate sex life.

Im new here. but after being married for 43 wonderful years I can tell you about commitment.

Commitment is a two way street, A lot of compromise and honesty But the main ingredient to any lasting relationship is FRIENDSHIP. You have to be friends first and that takes investment in time and understanding. I see in todays society that many want instant everything unfortunately it doesn't work that way in committed relationships people have to learn each other and want to learn about each other or else whats the point. Not all men are just after sex well I can only speak for myself No I am looking for more than that sex is just a by product of a meaningful relationship. My late wife and I were friends for 2 years before we were even married and took the time to discover each other. That's why we lasted for as long as we did. I hear the word commitment thrown around alot today but commitment only comes with time and true friendship first...Just my 2 cents

Did someone say ISSUES????

Sex is sacred for me I guess. I do not agree with it. Maybe it's the conservative way I was brought up with. But still, each to their own.