Im new here. but after being married for 43 wonderful years I can tell you about commitment.
Commitment is a two way street, A lot of compromise and honesty But the main ingredient to any lasting relationship is FRIENDSHIP. You have to be friends first and that takes investment in time and understanding. I see in todays society that many want instant everything unfortunately it doesn't work that way in committed relationships people have to learn each other and want to learn about each other or else whats the point. Not all men are just after sex well I can only speak for myself No I am looking for more than that sex is just a by product of a meaningful relationship. My late wife and I were friends for 2 years before we were even married and took the time to discover each other. That's why we lasted for as long as we did. I hear the word commitment thrown around alot today but commitment only comes with time and true friendship first...Just my 2 cents |
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