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Topic: The journey, or the destination?
Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 06:58 AM
Which is more important or significant to you? For me, it's the journey that is more important!

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40328	Tue 08/03/21 07:18 AM
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Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 07:29 AM
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Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17191	Tue 08/03/21 07:47 AM
The destination. Journeys can be very long and I am everything but patient.

Coldersky Joined Mon 09/30/19 Posts: 623	Tue 08/03/21 08:14 AM
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Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 5052	Tue 08/03/21 08:30 AM
Regarding travel, I usually enjoy the journey as much as the destination, because I like to travel whatever the mode of transport.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33460	Tue 08/03/21 08:51 AM
For me it's a bit going back and forth between the journey and the result. I know it's about the journey and enjoying that, and as I've gotten a bit older and a lot wiser I've learnt to be more patient so I can actually do enjoy it. But... if the result doesn't come in sight, I can get impatient and even irritable, depending on what it's about. For instance the journey to finding the right one for me... I am not enjoying that journey anymore. I just want him to show up, ring my doorbell, and THEN I can enjoy the rest of the journey with him. So it depends, and I do go back and forth between both. I must admit that enjoying the journey is nicer, much less stress.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33460	Tue 08/03/21 08:51 AM
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33460	Tue 08/03/21 08:56 AM
Oh as for the question what is more important... I do choose the journey! It's like Abraham Hicks says... the buzz of it being underway, about to come, things are moving etc. is great! But that buzz quickly dissipates once it's there. The 'getting there' can even be a bit of an anti-climax. So I choose the journey which is still full of live and inspiration etc.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 08/03/21 09:33 AM
The journey is always the most important. It's where life's lessons are learned. Destination, is merely the place those lessons are reflected upon.

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 09:34 AM
As for me, I am more patient now, than when I was in my 20s, lolz! And when I reach the intended destination - geographical, or mental - it's like the beginning of another journey ------- Lolz, I am an insatiable traveler! Yeah, the limbs sometimes don't cooperate with the mind!

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 09:35 AM
The journey is always the most important. It's where life's lessons are learned. Destination, is merely the place those lessons are reflected upon. Couldn't agree more

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 09:38 AM
@SparklingCrystal: Hope you won't be caught unawares, when "the door-bell rings"

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33460	Tue 08/03/21 10:09 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 08/03/21 10:10 AM
@SparklingCrystal: Hope you won't be caught unawares, when "the door-bell rings" Hihi, I'm not sure I'd mind, after all we're talking the right one for me!!

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Tue 08/03/21 03:46 PM
I am not sure than man who was duct taped to his seat For bad behaviour onboard his flight enjoyed the journey or destination. .. laughing Also it is interesting that men are choosing the journey .. Is that thinking applied to foreolay also

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 40054	Tue 08/03/21 04:20 PM
Substitute journey for chase and prey for destination ... is that close enough to the original question .... Always enjoyed the chase to be honest , because the prey was not the right one in the end ... so I guess the chase is on and getting interesting huh!! N

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 07:42 PM
I am not sure than man who was duct taped to his seat For bad behaviour onboard his flight enjoyed the journey or destination. .. laughing Also it is interesting that men are choosing the journey .. Is that thinking applied to foreolay also LOLZ, that's wot makes @Blondey111 's participation so unique (I mean participation in this discussion ) Wot sayeth thou?!

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 07:45 PM
Substitute journey for chase and prey for destination ... is that close enough to the original question .... Always enjoyed the chase to be honest , because the prey was not the right one in the end ... so I guess the chase is on and getting interesting huh!! N A-ha, you mean "prey drive", or the drive?! (just kidding lol)

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 07:47 PM
The destination. Journeys can be very long and I am everything but patient. Yeah, it does give a sense of fulfillment, and you may rest a while.... But, then, another journey does beckon, doesn't it?

Kevin Joined Wed 06/05/19 Posts: 897	Tue 08/03/21 07:49 PM
Regarding travel, I usually enjoy the journey as much as the destination, because I like to travel whatever the mode of transport. And, what if, it's a journey of reading a book, or writing one maybe...?