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Is it appropriate to forgive a man who cheats?
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I don't there is a ever a good reason to forgive someone who cheats.
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More than likely, he was always a cheater.
The sad truth is that it took you 3 years to find out. Never blame yourself. He will most likely try to come back into your life. Revenge can be sweet! 
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You can choose to, but you will never trust him again. A relationship without trust is demeaning to your self worth. I would walk away...
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It's appropriate to forgive.
It isn't appropriate to stay around long enough, to let them do it again. Ya see, if a cheat gets away with it the first time, they'll do it again. And, again. And, again. Etc... |
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Is it appropriate to forgive a man who cheats? Dump the cheat. Then forgive him. So you do not carry that burden the rest of your life. |
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Is it appropriate to forgive a man who cheats? People are human, maybe they made an impetuous and very wrong decision, you need to discover why it happened, don't throw away 3 years of happiness with them without finding out the truth first, if they are your age you are both very young and maybe they made a big one time mistake. |
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Difficult to say without any further context.
But you say "Who cheats", not past tense. So it is still going on or happened more than once? In that case, end it! |
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speaking from a strictly experiential point of view...i did forgive the person and want her back, who is married...makes me think i am a sapio sexual which to me means it takes a while for me to give my heart. also when given it takes a while for me to walk away...
so while i would say forgive the person and move on....in actuality i do something different....life is usually different than a formula or whatever and reality can change things immensely...and restraining orders are cheaply bought, 88$ and only last a year.... |
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Appropriate? Maybe. A good idea? Hell no.
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Answer: Yes
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Next question?
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Is it appropriate to forgive a man who cheats? 
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Edited by
cleve
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Sat 02/13/21 04:13 PM
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Is it appropriate to forgive a man who cheats? think about this....... his value system allowed him to do it............. the others value system is something we should always pay attention to because its part of how we teach people how to treat us.....1- what we allow,,2- what do not allow,,,3- what we reinforce.....this is so important ''we teach people how to treat us'',,,,,,,that's our half of the relationship...we always have part....so the question is will you ALLOW IT,NOT ALLOW IT, OR REINFORCE IT ?? men also teach women how to treat them also....its part of our life script that we follow....... |
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