Topic: 3 Things ......Ends Relationship ???
Wealth 's photo
Sun 06/13/21 01:45 AM
Being controlling and manipulative

Melissa Morgan's photo
Sat 07/03/21 01:17 AM
Ending a relationship if you don’t love that person anymore then you don’t have to be with them you just walk away

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 05/31/22 09:36 AM

Ending a relationship if you don’t love that person anymore then you don’t have to be with them you just walk away


Good one from you , How Lucky I am to have something that makes saying Goodbye so hard . Absence sharpens Love . Presence strengthens it..

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Tue 05/31/22 10:15 AM
I remember reading an article in a magazine for which they'd interviewed many couples that had been happily together for many many years.
It said that the most important thing to keep the connection lasting and healthy is similar norms & values.

I think this is indeed the biggest one. All the rest that is mentioned is either related to that OR can be remedied provided said parties wish to do that work.

So to fit this topic... a mismatch in norms & values. Often underestimated or not even seen until it wreaks havoc.

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Tue 05/31/22 10:53 AM
Even one thing is enough to end a relationship.... If from both, one had already decided.. then just one moment/time/mistake

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Tue 05/31/22 03:30 PM
Loss of interest.

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 05/31/22 10:00 PM

Even one thing is enough to end a relationship.... If from both, one had already decided.. then just one moment/time/mistake


One moment time mistake can be solved with a Mutual talk , but if there are any other reasons??

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 05/31/22 10:01 PM

I remember reading an article in a magazine for which they'd interviewed many couples that had been happily together for many many years.
It said that the most important thing to keep the connection lasting and healthy is similar norms & values.

I think this is indeed the biggest one. All the rest that is mentioned is either related to that OR can be remedied provided said parties wish to do that work.

So to fit this topic... a mismatch in norms & values. Often underestimated or not even seen until it wreaks havoc.


Even me , I have seen a Interview on a TV program that made me Post this Thread .

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 05/31/22 10:05 PM

Loss of interest.


But in another words its termed as Ignoring . If the interest is lost then they say its time to Move on .

Leah's photo
Tue 05/31/22 10:22 PM
Assumptions

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Tue 05/31/22 11:55 PM
Dishonesty

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 05/31/22 11:58 PM

Dishonesty


You are Right , "Dishonesty Never Wins"

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Wed 06/01/22 12:38 AM
1. Expectations
2. Delusions
3. Emotional Immaturity

Ownership ~ your boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife are not your property.
They are not your slaves.
They are people with unique feelings, hopes and dreams just like you.
You do not live behind their eyes and they do not live behind yours.
They are not your children.

I agree.

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 06/01/22 01:11 AM

A lack of thrift. financial conflicts, different priorities in money matters.

Financial problems are the main cause of divorce in the UK.

Laska Paul 's photo
Wed 06/01/22 02:39 AM


A lack of thrift. financial conflicts, different priorities in money matters.

Financial problems are the main cause of divorce in the UK.


Yes very well said . Sometimes its not about the money but rather the process of managing the Money .

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Wed 06/01/22 02:40 AM


A lack of thrift. financial conflicts, different priorities in money matters.

Financial problems are the main cause of divorce in the UK.

I had to look that up, curious, as it didn't resonate.
Found this:
According to MSN Living, adultery is the most common motive for divorce in the UK with 55 percent of all divorcees stating it contributed to their breakup.

Shocked to read that you have to file for divorce within 6 months of discovering the other cheated though? Sounds horribly outdated to me.
We don't need a reason for divorce at all. You just file for divorce, no reason necessary, let alone a set time limit to do so.

Digressing from OP but interesting to learn how different it is elsewhere.

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Wed 06/01/22 10:36 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 06/01/22 11:06 AM



A lack of thrift. financial conflicts, different priorities in money matters.

Financial problems are the main cause of divorce in the UK.

I had to look that up, curious, as it didn't resonate.
Found this:
According to MSN Living, adultery is the most common motive for divorce in the UK with 55 percent of all divorcees stating it contributed to their breakup.

Shocked to read that you have to file for divorce within 6 months of discovering the other cheated though? Sounds horribly outdated to me.
We don't need a reason for divorce at all. You just file for divorce, no reason necessary, let alone a set time limit to do so.

Digressing from OP but interesting to learn how different it is elsewhere.


Money worries biggest reason for marriages ending, survey finds

Money worries are the leading cause of marriages falling apart, according to a new study, the release of which coincides with what is reportedly the busiest time of year for separations.

A poll of over 2,000 British adults by legal firm Slater and Gordon found that money worries top the list of reasons why married couples split up, with one in five saying it was the biggest cause of marital strife.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/business/news/money-marriage-end-divorce-day-relationships-personal-finances-slater-gordon-a8147921.html

I have read similar results elsewhere, and I am of the opinion that financial problems are the main cause of divorce in the UK, but other surveys may arrive at different findings. I would say, there are probably more than one reason that cause a divorce.

Amir Ameen's photo
Wed 06/01/22 03:05 PM
Loss of interest.

hi

Laska Paul 's photo
Wed 06/01/22 10:13 PM

Loss of interest.

hi


My Friend A2 , This is not a Place to say a Hi , Hello or Bye , there is another Place for it. Kindly make your search well .

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Thu 06/02/22 09:04 AM
1. Infidelity
2. Lack of respect
3. Lack of intimacy