He has it going on.... The looks, the attitude, the "devil may care" attitude...
But, why are you attracted to that?
Or not?
Is it because he is hard to get?
It would be nice if non posting Minglers would share...

Have you considered, maybe, swatting him
on the nose, with a rolled up newspaper?

I don't go for bad boys myself lol.

I get that.
But, the rolled up newspaper
can be "classified", as behavioural modification.

Oh no, I never read newspapers. Let alone the classifieds my friend.

Who said anything about reading it?

Aren't such people attractive -at first glance- because they have this confidence, maybe sometimes bordering on audacity/brutality? Spreading the illusion they're an alpha male?

Perhaps. Actions speak louder than words. If you talk the talk, but can't walk the walk...Catchya...

I think many don't find out until it's too late, hihi. I was just wondering if I'd still fall for that crap? Not sure I'd find someone like that attractive. Probably when younger and not so wise yet.
Now Rock's method is more appealing: the rolled up newspaper for behavioural correction
Or ignore.

I am glad some woman actually look at actions, instead of lapping up all the words!!

I never met any man inperson, that played hard to get !

Never had any interest in "bad boys" or alpha dudes with dominance issues...

we can't 100% escape our evolution. alfa males represent desirable genetics,( as regards the survival imperitive, i.e. suvival of the fittest)
I think it's that females are hard wired to respond.
some a fair bit, some only a little, a few not much at all.
instinct I suppose you'd call it.
the tougher survival gets the more attractive a tough alfa male becomes.

In stable peacefull times intelligence becomes more of a desirable genetic.

Of cource if youve got both. your set up for plenty of female attention, one way or the other.
It sucks :(

HE IS SECURE WITH HIMSELF AND KNOWS YR NEEDS HAVE ALREADY BEEN MET,BUT IN YR MIND.
NOW THAT TINGLE THAT SWEET ACHE. YES YOU KNOW HE IS GOOD!
BUT.. WHEN HE IS BAD, REAL BAD.. HE IS EVEN BETTER.. LOOKS THROUGH WHAT HE SEES AND PERHAPS HE GIVE'S A GRIN...

I am not attracted to that...




But Rock, is this the modification you are talking of???

The newspaper thing On the nose .. Might get your shoes chewed up.. lol

That, or a pillowcase full of loose change.
Either works.

I was thinking of something similar earlier today.
Having to do with how some people glorify losing control.

I really tore them a new one!
He broke up with me so I chewed him up and spit him out.
I'm so bad nobody dares to mess with me!
I really lost it on them.

Many times, the person you lose it to is not the person at fault.
People in anger do not have the best judgement.
Causing a scene is not cool. It shows your inability to cope.

People in the service industry see all sides of people.
Its always easier to recitify a problem when the person is rational.
Playing the badazz often just makes you look insane.

I find it amazing how many people have little or no impulse control.
It transfers to their personal life as well.
Then...they brag about it?

Too many people think the world owes them their heart's desire.
Maybe its too much TV? Too much instant gratification.
To us normal people, you being a bad boy or a bad girl is insane.

Bad Boys should be punished and spanked on the @zz