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Topic: He is a bad boy.
lallyn861's photo
Sat 04/25/20 02:46 PM

They are attractive. But they are a players.

If some one don’t like serious relationships then they can get that
Kind of people who is only playing around with you.

cajunman59's photo
Sat 04/25/20 03:49 PM

Aren't such people attractive -at first glance- because they have this confidence, maybe sometimes bordering on audacity/brutality? Spreading the illusion they're an alpha male?

Lots of women folk seem to like the illusion part. Kinda like the soap operas DRAMA, DRAMA LOL

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Sat 04/25/20 04:24 PM
Attraction is what it is .....although we think we are in control .. and in some aspects we do determine the success of an attraction but there is an underlying chemical process that can easily blindside us .

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 04/26/20 12:21 PM
He may know how to 'talk" to women! Some men have no idea what that even means. :joy:

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Tue 07/21/20 05:56 AM
hi princess

notbeold's photo
Tue 07/21/20 08:15 AM
I've seen it many times, girls attracted to big tough rough obvious trouble.
They hook up with the cretin, and then they complain about the insensitivity, or violence, or cheating, or just being used, but they go back again and again, willingly. Like a drug, or obsessive compulsive.
Some women like danger, or similar thrills. But pheromones and other attractants are in play too, I'm sure.

You're attracted to what you're attracted to. There's no accounting for it.
And the human's biggest sex organ is the brain, which can be erratic and bizarre.
Some are attracted to garbage, make poor decisions, and regret later.

I like confident strong looking women, eg. Grace Jones, and girly girls too.
Some sweet and attractive women are just boring, but the pub chic with too much black clothes and eye makeup is potentially bad, but interesting.
I assume women sometimes feel the same, preferring the unkempt loudmouth to the clean and polite loser.

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Tue 07/21/20 08:47 PM
I've no interest in bad boys. I'm the alpha !

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Tue 07/21/20 09:18 PM
He has it going on.... The looks, the attitude, the "devil may care" attitude...
But, why are you attracted to that?
Or not?
Is it because he is hard to get?
It would be nice if non posting Minglers would share... :smiley:


feelyoungagain's photo
Fri 07/31/20 11:05 PM

He has it going on.... The looks, the attitude, the "devil may care" attitude...
But, why are you attracted to that?
Or not?
Is it because he is hard to get?
It would be nice if non posting Minglers would share... :smiley:



I like bad boys because I'm stupid. LOL For me it's the allure and knowing that I will always be protected. They'll go to any length to keep their lady safe. I know it's not going to work; hence the reason I'm stupid. LOL That's not to say I've only dated bad boys, but that's my explanation for the times that I have.

feelyoungagain's photo
Fri 07/31/20 11:07 PM


Have you considered, maybe, swatting him
on the nose, with a rolled up newspaper?


I don't go for bad boys myself lol.


Then why would you ask??

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