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| Topic: What’s the hardest thing about dating and relationships? | |
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Lack of communication
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I find it rather simple to find dates, but hard to progress to the next level.... no sex appeal... but it's not you , it's me....
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Hard to find someone I like.
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Hard to find someone I like. Everything I like is immoral, illegal , married or live far away.... the nature of the beast... |
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Understanding Men
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Meeting my guy. The one that I can be compatible with. Tired of the cheaters. I know he is out there somewhere
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Hardest is finding the one with fire in her mind body and soul!!!
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Avoiding handbag shops
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Edited by
Serious
on
Sat 02/08/20 08:38 PM
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So I am interested to know what difficulties you face the most with dating and relationships? With dating: Is it distance? Having the courage to ask someone on a date? Knowing what to do on a date? Knowing what to say on a date? Age difference? Not much in common? Worried about scammers? You just want sex, not a relationship? Or is it something else? With relationships is it? Lack of communication? Not knowing how to effectively communicate? Lack of sex? Not knowing how to have good sex? Sexual incompatibility? Lack of intimacy? Not knowing how to communicate effectively with your partner? Or is it something else? To the pre-relationship part (let's call it dating phase): First of all finding a real match is the hardest part, which can include several things you mentioned above. And then other things not mentioned. It's the compatibility issue (personality, character, goals, believes, ,attitudes, etc). Even if you find the almost-"perfect" partner for your part (happened before!) in order to make it a match the other person still has to feel the same about you or be actually really available for a personal relationship (long term/marriage in this case). That is the hardest part, finding the infamous "needle in the worldwide haystack". Even if someone is willing to go the distance, in my own experience it's very rare (and I even mean that in the literal sense - worldwide!). As far as in a relationship: Usually the most relevant reason for problems (or eventually breakdown) is failure in communication and understanding of what is really communicated. One (or both) partner may say one thing and it is totally misunderstood as something else because of different perception, sometimes the lack of communication at all. Another reason is selfishness (can be one sided or both) and finding mutual agreement on issues or problems , etc. |
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The hardest thing?... Finding someone who wants to date me to begin with.  yah mee too having the same problem |
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The hardest thing?... Finding someone who wants to date me to begin with.
yah mee too having the same problem Perhaps it wouldn't be so difficult if you asked your wife. Unless she's pissed at you for being on a dating site? 
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Findin an open honest and trustworthy woman , financially inde and loves sex....ha ha ...
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The most difficult part in my opinion will be the ability to commit. Commitment is the most difficult part. Having to settle down scares a lot
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How come only women from far away like to chat.... ?
Yes, the distance is a huge hurdle!!! |
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The problems I have faced is:
men not being honest(as in hiding there identity, lying about being married) some wanting to change me running from a relationship lack of effort |
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So I am interested to know what difficulties you face the most with dating and relationships? With dating: Is it distance? Having the courage to ask someone on a date? Knowing what to say on a date? Age difference? Not much in common? With relationships is it? Or is it something else? yes, yes, yes, not really. something else |
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agree
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I have little earning potential unless I go self-employed, but my motivation is presently nonexistent.
I have been a caregiver for decades and sort of crashed now that I no longer have to be -so hopefully that will change. I haven't really had a social life in a very long time -and have become comfortable being reclusive. I have a rather grim world view and am not hopeful about the immediate future. I have other-than-mainstream religious beliefs and observances that most would not share. I don't date or other things "casually" -and am not settled enough to start anything serious. I'm either too quiet or won't shut the hell up. I have a weird long hair that keeps growing from the top of my ear. I have more baggage than a traveling luggage salesman. I could continue, but..... :p |
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