It doesn't take months for a man to tell a Woman he loves her.

That is, if they are Exclusively dating, in a Romantic way.

all depends on the people

Like Dat said,
Depend on the people and their chemistry

I'm incompetent/shy about this.
I guess I can't say early. So it stays inside me.
I'm waiting this from the opposite side than I'm incompetent.

So you would rather the Woman tell you she loves you first ?

at some point in their lives, most men say it because they figure that's what the ladies want to hear, they cut corners, go for the gold without digging.


The first to say it, loses IMO

Months, no.....years, yes!!!

Me don't say it much.. they show it... not say it.

I usually blush and keel over, before I say these words

It does if the man is frozen in carbonite.

Love can take nanoseconds, to decades
to be realized.

Love does not come easy. If a guy is telling me he loves me within a month, I know he hasn't been seeing me in a realistic way.

Love does not come easy. If a guy is telling me he loves me within a month, I know he hasn't been seeing me in a realistic way.

Love is different things to different people. Some want companionship or may want comoatibilty. To declare love at a very early stage would suggest it would be more companionship you seek. Campatibility usually takes a longer time to assess. Anyone can put on an act for a few weeks.

Companionship is not love.

I agree but some crave it, because they are afraid of being alone. Then feel insecure when in a relationship with someone who seeks something deeper but doesn't come across as so "needy"

Cat I agree. I have had a couple guys want to get married in the first week of talking, love notes probably copied from some poetry book. have not met. and whoever said women should say it first, i disagree...I am old fashioned and want to stay that way.

Not sure where you came up with that, but it's not true.

a bit like that.
both parties may not be able to tell each other.
in this case the work is extended. maybe it can take years. as a result they must tell each other.

the first person to express this is more realistic and more sincere, in my opinion. The person who feels comfortable should say immediately. It's not bad to tell someone you love him. and should not be proud. The place of pride should definitely not be this place. I think it's a kind of trick to do pride in love. it is unthinkable for a person to cheat on his beloved.

very different things to be proud and really shy. a person really embarrassed is also embarrassed elsewhere. and it turns out he's not cheating. After one says that he loves the other, the passing time will reveal the true intention of the other.

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I'm really shy about it.

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1 month may be enough for the sincere ones in general. sometimes even the first look. but they seem to be suspicious, I think. fast loves are completely a matter of trust. but things that can happen.

If I feel love for a woman I tell her.
Not under pressure or when given an ultimatum.
Until I feel it, I will not say it.

Many women tell me they love me on the first day or within 3 dates.
I understand that women and men express and feel love differently.
I acknowledge a proclamation of love but do not reciprocate as a reflex.
Some people think they must.

I do talk honestly with women and do explain when I proclaim my love for her it will be a real and meaningful thing I feel about them.
I tend to demonstrate love long before I proclaim it but once I do proclaim it, I say it a lot.