Topic: Married men in sexless marriage on dating sites looking for
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 01/06/19 06:59 AM

I feel cheating on your wife is dishonorable. Not only does it eventually hurt your wife, what does it say about the kind of man you are? If you will cheat on something a serious as marriage, how can anyone trust you?


THIS. :thumbsup:

I wouldn't chaet on my husband *or* boyfriend...I have to much respect for *myself* to lower myself that way..

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 01/06/19 07:02 AM

I don’t think sex makes or breaks a relationship. I think touching, cuddling, sleeping with your body parts touching on and off, kissing (real kissing, not grandma kissing), sexy comments as he/she walks by, a secretive slide of your hand across their butt at the grocery store when you might get caught, absentmindedly stroking their hair while watching some dumb TV show. Talking. About almost anything. I think these things help cement a relationship. And the sex will follow at whatever the appropriate pace is for the two of you.
Focusing on the mechanics of sex, without focusing on the things I mentioned, is a lost cause.
Of course, IMHO...


Exactly..

People equate "intimacy" only with inserting tab A into slot B...

There are many, many ways to be "intimate...
The ways you mentioned are *key*...the little things that show you care, and are engaged in/ value that person...

Holding hands...sharing little jokes that only you two get...those too..any many many more..

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 01/06/19 08:20 AM
A good marriage is not built on just good Sex.

Unfortunately,. Some don't know that intimacy is not always Sex.

Gaurav 11111's photo
Sun 01/06/19 11:01 AM
yes

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 01/06/19 11:38 AM

A good marriage is not built on just good Sex.

Unfortunately,. Some don't know that intimacy is not always Sex.


That's what I said, in my previous reply.... happy

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 01/06/19 11:45 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 01/06/19 11:48 AM
@bluegrass
I Know, I was putting it into my Own words. smile2


Would be nice if dating sites had No married men on them.Trey shouldn't be seeking any dates. IMO



I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 01/06/19 12:09 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Sun 01/06/19 12:10 PM

@bluegrass
I Know, I was putting it into my Own words. smile2


Would be nice if dating sites had No married men on them.Trey shouldn't be seeking any dates. IMO





There *are* sites just for cheaters...
There's that Ashely Madison one....and I am sure there are other strictly "hook up" sites...

Yes, this *is* a social site too...but it's not a site to condone cheating, or any other bad/ nefarious behaviour, or ask for advice on how to do it and not get caught....





Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 01/06/19 12:20 PM


@bluegrass
I Know, I was putting it into my Own words. smile2


Would be nice if dating sites had No married men on them.Trey shouldn't be seeking any dates. IMO





There *are* sites just for cheaters...
There's that Ashely Madison one....and I am sure there are other strictly "hook up" sites...

Yes, this *is* a social site too...but it's not a site to condone cheating, or any other bad/ nefarious behaviour, or ask for advice on how to do it and not get caught....




Evidently it is because it's a lot of it on here. Social means everything.
Except illegal posts like prostitutes.

oldkid46's photo
Sun 01/06/19 06:47 PM



@bluegrass
I Know, I was putting it into my Own words. smile2


Would be nice if dating sites had No married men on them.Trey shouldn't be seeking any dates. IMO





There *are* sites just for cheaters...
There's that Ashely Madison one....and I am sure there are other strictly "hook up" sites...

Yes, this *is* a social site too...but it's not a site to condone cheating, or any other bad/ nefarious behaviour, or ask for advice on how to do it and not get caught....




Evidently it is because it's a lot of it on here. Social means everything.
Except illegal posts like prostitutes.
and the prostitute is the one being honest!!

dhruv's photo
Sun 01/06/19 08:40 PM
hi

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Mon 01/07/19 10:55 AM
Yes yes super m like u r lines

Rock's photo
Mon 01/07/19 11:42 AM
sexless marriage


Is the biggest crock of chit line,
used by cheaters.



Wynn Ho's photo
Mon 01/07/19 12:11 PM
He should talk to his wife about it and both should go to a counselor to talk about it.

Wynn Ho's photo
Mon 01/07/19 12:11 PM
HIGH FIVE, dude!! And, I am so pleased that it was a MAN who said it!!!

Wynn Ho's photo
Mon 01/07/19 12:13 PM
I find sex essential and just an extension of attention and affection. The question is WHYYYY is there no sex? Is she too angry at him for sitting on his *** while she cleans and cooks? Has he or she become slovenly and/or overweight? Is she dying of cancer or caring for a close relative who is dying of cancer? He needs to fix his problem at home.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 01/07/19 12:14 PM

sexless marriage


Is the biggest crock of chit line,
used by cheaters.





Right?

And they *always* say how much love they have to give...rofl rofl

Maybe if you'd trying giving some of that love/ being loving to your wife...you wouldn;t be in this situation.


Sandeep's photo
Tue 01/08/19 10:54 AM

:heart_eyes:

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Tue 01/08/19 12:10 PM
no good.

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Tue 01/08/19 12:22 PM
Hi ,I am interested

Sam's photo
Thu 02/21/19 09:28 AM
how