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Topic: Have you ever felt...
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Mon 11/19/18 06:30 PM


I'm pretty sure I'll be here in Colorado until May... I was ready to leave yesterday, but some of that was emotionally driven decisions from being sick and not getting any sleep...

If it changes, I'll let you know. And it's always possible that I can travel to you instead, we could go on a road trip. smile2


May is Spring so when that time gets closer just let me know if you know where you may be. And road trips are always an idea for me, but no where that involves wearing shorts. My legs have not seen the sun in 40 years and are whiter than this chat screen. Not a pretty sight. laugh


grumble Fine, leave your pants on laugh bigsmile

I'll let you know, and maybe we could plan a trip into Canada so we could have that dinner for three. biggrin

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Mon 11/19/18 06:34 PM



I'm pretty sure I'll be here in Colorado until May... I was ready to leave yesterday, but some of that was emotionally driven decisions from being sick and not getting any sleep...

If it changes, I'll let you know. And it's always possible that I can travel to you instead, we could go on a road trip. smile2


May is Spring so when that time gets closer just let me know if you know where you may be. And road trips are always an idea for me, but no where that involves wearing shorts. My legs have not seen the sun in 40 years and are whiter than this chat screen. Not a pretty sight. laugh


grumble Fine, leave your pants on laugh bigsmile

I'll let you know, and maybe we could plan a trip into Canada so we could have that dinner for three. biggrin


That is a great idea River.

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Mon 11/19/18 06:37 PM
Yay... I'll hurry up and get my passport happy

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Mon 11/19/18 06:58 PM
winking

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Mon 11/19/18 07:01 PM
Sometimes, we are not confident and disappoint and don' t want to close to anyone. We keep ourselves away from other folks becasuse we are afraid of communicating, it's a common case, everyone experience that period. We would believe that we are the best one in the world, we need to be confident, that negative feeling naturally goes away, we become dateable again.

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Mon 11/19/18 07:07 PM

Sometimes, we are not confident and disappoint and don' t want to close to anyone. We keep ourselves away from other folks becasuse we are afraid of communicating, it's a common case, everyone experience that period. We would believe that we are the best one in the world, we need to be confident, that negative feeling naturally goes away, we become dateable again.


That is very true rhaegar, thank you for your comments waving

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Mon 11/19/18 08:37 PM


I absolutely don't have a problem knowing that I will NEVER date or fig, or any type of any kind of relationship ever again. Glad it's long over, and far away. It's an impossibility anyway. The Sahara desert saw to that. Nobody can approach my place of sleep without dying. It hasn't happened on American soil, and I won't let it. Because I'm sleeping during, I can't possibly stop what I do. It's best for me to be locked away from others during this down time. No, it's NOT PTSD. It's just built in self defense would be the best definition from years in hostile areas is my best guess. Yes it would be unwise to consider.... "cuddling"laugh


Darkowl, if it's not PTSD then how come it's not manageable? Would the military be willing to deprogram you?

Or do you prefer to be locked away?

You could still date, you'd just have to find someone who would be okay with sleeping in a different room with a bolted door.

Seems horrible to me, but you seem to be okay with it and glad about it, so that's all that matters.

Thanks for sharing flowerforyou


I'm private, not enlisted military. also I'm sleeping.... it's like any wild creature, or in my case, "thing" that has a self defense mechanism.

I need it when I travel, and glad to have it! I always, never fails, always, end up in the absolute worst areaslaugh ... It's not a curse, but a gift. Yes, I am MORE than ok with it. It and a few other anomalies have kept me not only safe, but more utilitarian in deft situations. It covers me well. I am thankful.

nobody would be okay with this, as they would feel uncomfortable being in the same house. I don't blame them. I could probably get out.... That................ might be bad.laugh

And, you're warmly welcome!flowerforyou

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Mon 11/19/18 08:39 PM

Yay... I'll hurry up and get my passport happy



Where in Canada are you going? Let me know if it’s close to me.

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Mon 11/19/18 08:43 PM


I'm private, not enlisted military. also I'm sleeping.... it's like any wild creature, or in my case, "thing" that has a self defense mechanism.

I need it when I travel, and glad to have it! I always, never fails, always, end up in the absolute worst areaslaugh ... It's not a curse, but a gift. Yes, I am MORE than ok with it. It and a few other anomalies have kept me not only safe, but more utilitarian in deft situations. It covers me well. I am thankful.

nobody would be okay with this, as they would feel uncomfortable being in the same house. I don't blame them. I could probably get out.... That................ might be bad.laugh

And, you're warmly welcome!flowerforyou


Definitely sounds like you have an interesting life... Hope you are at least enjoying it... kind of sounds like you are. smile2

Cheers! drinker

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Mon 11/19/18 08:46 PM


Yay... I'll hurry up and get my passport happy



Where in Canada are you going? Let me know if it’s close to me.


Toronto if we are able to go.

I've been meaning to get my passport anyways. I was going to go to Europe right about now, but decided to wait until it's warmer there.

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Mon 11/19/18 10:34 PM
My self esteem and confidence is very healthy laugh : I have never felt undateable but some men do find me intimidating ... purrrrrbiggrin

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Tue 11/20/18 04:03 AM

My self esteem and confidence is very healthy laugh : I have never felt undateable but some men do find me intimidating ... purrrrrbiggrin


I would have been shocked if you said you had laugh waving

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