Who doesnt love you

Someone is getting shortchanged.
That can snowball.
Until it is everything.

No, I do not believe I would.

No.

Life is too short...

Absolutely NOT

Definitely not if the love had gone, but I would need to know why and how that happened, I would not want to stay in a loveless marriage.

No.


Well... Not unless I was
being paid an annual seven figure
salary to put up with the
situation.

If you (still) love them the 7 figures won't do to compensate for the misery of such a situation.
I've been there, it's the most soul destroying thing there is.

No

I probably would have, had she/they not driven me away.

For two reasons: I loved them, and I also am the commit-for-life type. I don't think a majority of people really understand what the value of real commitment actually is, in a personal sense-of-life way.

It's also a point of slightly confusing irony to me, how many people claim to strongly disapprove of people who have sex in exchange for money, but think it's perfectly fine to exchange sex for a sense of reinforcement of their own ego-based sense of how the world works. The difference is only very subtle.

Love is not necessary, compatibility and sex are!

I have been there and done that or at least tried to stay in the relationship.

The problem is know whether the other partner has given up on the marriage completely or just lost the spark in the marriage.

Communication on this is key. If, they have given up on the relationship then NO most definitely not.

If, they just feel the
spark is missing in your marriage and don't feel they love you anymore then you have something to work with and can possibly
gain that back if you BOTH are willing to work on it together.

If, you are BOTH not willing to put the work into the relationship/marriage then it's your choice to end it.

...duh...

If by "someone who doesn't love you" you actually mean they don't want to have sex with you (which so* many people mean)...that can possibly be worked on...

If it is that someone just doesn't like you, doesn't want to be around you, or you've done something to violate/ kill their trust in you...then...no...it can't be worked on and you are better leaving...and taking any lesson you've learned with you so as not to do it again..

Relationships naturally ebb and flow....some days you like your partner, some days you don't.

Do they give a reason *why* they don't love you anymore?

I wouldn't marry a man in first place if he didn't love me.

Some people say they fall out of love later though .

You are married and it's a legal contract.

No. I would rather live alone.

Depends on their behavior.
Are they actively showing me, directly or passively, that they don't love me? Making sure everyone knows they don't love me?

Or are we working on other things like providing stability and support for family and community?
Do they "love" me socially, they just don't "love" me individually, like pair bonded? Is there respect and trust and commitment?

Are they trying to "make it work" or are they chaffing and acting like a child and passive aggressively escalating emotional retribution because they aren't as happy as they think they should be and have got it into their head there's no "love" in the relationship and they need to go out and find that Disney "love" to make their life perfect?

Do they just not love me? Or do they feel mad/bad/sad? And if they feel mad/bad/sad are they attempting to drag me down into their misery to force a confrontation or ending?


And how about me in this scenario?
Do I feel guilty? Do I feel like I am forcing them to remain in this relationship due to my feelings and they are sacrificing something? Like they may not love me but respect, appreciate, and approve of the relationship we do have?

Am I realizing that she doesn't love me? Or is she telling me she doesn't love me? Or am I feeling like she doesn't love me, but she keeps saying (and trying to prove) she does?


So:

Maybe.
Just depends on a lot of things.

Well no, but it goes both ways. Got rid of two because one was just a female dog, the other wanted someone closer to her age. So, screw it trying again.

She had am affair. She stopped it after confessing. But she also said she met her soulmate and the love she had for me died off.