What are the signs he is and hes not?

One scenario :
A girl writes about her true deep feelings for you and you dont react or even refer to it. You say you care but only message rarely with the reason of being very busy. You know she misses you but you dont do anything about it. Youve been doing this for two years despite the fact that you’ve met and claim to care even more because of physically being together, you haven’t changed your tune . Your hot then cold and somewhere in between sometimes. Are you really into her????

Sign a guy is really into you

He carries a roll of nickles in his pocket.

A roll of nickels? Is that a cultural thing? And my question is more about the on line guys

A roll of nickels? Is that a cultural thing? And my question is more about the on line guys

On line and not

If you have concerns he's not showing you that he's into you then he isn't. He's probably keeping you on the back burner.

I have to agree with aussieguy..if one is asking themselves is he that into you ..then it's because he's shown you that he isn't.that person is just having a problem admitting it to themselves..I don't know maybe they're hanging on because it's all they have and they don't want to believe that it isn't going to go any farther than it has...they know ..

..perhaps they're looking for a glimmer of hope in the words of a stranger..But still the advice is based on limited information so it must be taken with a grain of salt..

with so little information I would say it's probably time to move on ..sad to say..but if that person doesn't make you feel the love you thirst than it's time to find the one that does and quit allowing that person to string them along..and quit allowing themselves to be strung along..

And honestly I think if that person were to be honest with themself..they already know the answer..they're just having a hard time facing the truth..


jmo w/a grain of salt

Signs a guy is into me .. he dates other women but it is my face he sees .. me he wants

Why is he dating other women if he's seeing your face and it's you he wants?

just because he wants me doesn't mean he gets to have me

I didn't see that one coming..

This is tricky, seriously. It depends on so many things, especially the exact guy and his background.

I know some men, and women as well, who you can tell are "into you," by the fact that they ARGUE WITH YOU A LOT. I think in those cases, it's similar to how you know your parent loves you...they keep bugging you to take care of yourself one way and another.

Being effusive with praise seems to be rare, except in film and on TV. In fact, I've known more "players" who praised women all the time, than men who genuinely had log term intentions.

Going silent after you tell them how you feel, can be complicated too. If it's for a fairly short time, like a week or two, that's one thing. Longer than that, if you know them more online than off, can still be okay. But if the guy still hasn't responded after a year, then I suspect you're either dealing with a guy in severe inner turmoil, or a guy who doesn't want anything more than whatever it is he has with you right then.

How do you tell overall, if a guy is "into you?" You can tell I like you, if I continue to initiate interaction with you. But I've had women complain before, that when I finally think they like me, that I tend to go quiet, and confuse them. Which reminds me of a joke about a sort of autistic kid.

"The parents thought everything was fine the first year or two, because the baby didn't cry much, and as he grew, he seemed cooperative and learned as they expected. But he never spoke. Then during dinner, when he was six and a half, he suddenly looked up and said "the carrots are under-cooked."

Everyone dropped their forks and knives and stared in stunned silence for a moment, and then his mother asked "Why haven't you spoken before???!!??"

And he answered "Everything was alright until now."

A lot of guys can be that way. You can tell they are happy with you because they are quiet, and go about their lives with you in it as a regular part of everything.

and the ever lasting best example of him being into you is when he pulls your pigtails on the playground

How does he do that if you're online and not face to face?

there are virtual equivalents
but i am not allowed to tell gurls

Well how are we going to know then silly?

i might be pursuaded to fess up IF i were some how to magically acquire a current gurls rule book

I'll see if I can find one

If I do, would you like to help me burn it?

Burn baby Burn!